Seeing headline posts on Reddit or people talking about how dating sucks is a tired pity party.

If you’re in the bottom 30% guys it does suck, but half the time it’s some issue going on your life you need to fix with weight or getting your own place. However, you already know this so as a guy who’s not good looking and doesn’t have anything to bring to the table you should know where you stand.

Average guys either don’t accept average women, or they aren’t trying hard enough. Not every woman is hypergamous and dating out of her league. The majority of average single women are ending up with average guys. If you ask out 100 women and they all say no, or you go on dates and no woman likes you back, it’s prob more a personality issue than you want to own up to.

I’ve known women that have gone on 50, 100, and multiple 200+ dates. Then she will sit back and say men are terrible, losers, or hoes. If you go on 50 dates and no guys want you, it’s either you’re not picking right intentionally, or a 100% her problem. You know how bad it sounds to claim every guy can’t act right or wants to be a player. Women just keep dating and being alone because part of her enjoys it, dating is her own self fulfillment. Has nothing to do with how terrible men are at that point.

Also, dating is tough because if you’re on a date with someone who is single, often they are single for a reason, you just don’t know why yet. So sorting through bad apples is part of the known problem. You can’t have the expectation that most of single people aren’t single for a reason.