How do I ask a guy friend that I wanna make out & possibly hookup with him later ?

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SlimStickins · 2024-12-24T19:22:48+00:00

“I wanna make out and possibly hook up with you later.”

Us men are that simple. We don’t complicate things like women do.

gim_san · 2024-12-24T19:12:16+00:00

Invite him over

ReasonableComb2568 · 2024-12-24T18:56:28+00:00

Just give the man a statement of intent lol

Pik000 · 2024-12-24T19:10:09+00:00

Invite him over for some Netflix and chill.

RedditTipiak · 2024-12-24T19:12:44+00:00

Ask in person, not thru a screen.

And don't formulate it as a question. Be the most direct, assertive possible.
Kiss if you want as an intro, or dance, or massage... then drop any personal iteration of "I want NSA FWB".

Hints may lubricate ("ever thought of hooking up?") But absolutely followed by clear, direct, unequivocal intentions.

Come to my room = not good To fuck = good

AngryGoose21 · 2024-12-24T19:51:50+00:00

hey “insert man’s name” next time we make out I kinda wanna put your dick in my mouth teehee

SorroWulf · 2024-12-24T20:34:06+00:00

Just kiss him next time you're in person, and say "Wanna go back to my/your place?"
If he's interested, he'll say yes. Men like things straightforward.

CoolSince92_ · 2024-12-24T19:25:08+00:00

Start off with telling him how he makes you feel and how he turns you on and follow up with an offer for a good time.

joazito · 2024-12-24T19:49:28+00:00

"Wanna hook up"?

PleaseDontBeTakenPlz · 2024-12-24T20:50:58+00:00

Don’t directly ask to make out and hookup, yes to most men that is desperate and loser like.

Just ask him to hangout or go on a date or something and escalate from there.

Hi_From_London · 2024-12-24T21:29:41+00:00

Alternative view... bluntly stating desire ruins the tension. Don't do it. The game is to make him feel he's seducing you

KazOmnipotent · 2024-12-24T20:09:57+00:00

You could straight tell him over text, the phone, face to face, or since you guys are already comfortable making out just make out with him next time you see him and don’t stop - take off your shirt as you’re making out or your pants, his shirt, as you’re kissing him start touching his dick over his pants, unbutton his pants, etc.

It’ll flow super easily unless he’s gay, I promise

Glacier_Sama · 2024-12-24T20:06:33+00:00

If you're 18+ just send him a risqué photo of yourself

Ok-Training-7587 · 2024-12-24T21:26:41+00:00

Just say it. Men are not complicated when it comes to this stuff. You’ll be doing both of you a favor

Damnator666 · 2024-12-24T21:56:32+00:00

The more direct, the more chance for something to happen. The rest is just for if you need it to happen in a certain way, like you want him to prove something first, idk

UrbanMonk314 · 2024-12-24T22:01:10+00:00

Lol he's gonna be stoked.

travok69 · 2024-12-24T22:07:26+00:00

You just say what you just said. And do it. And whp makes out and doesnt fuck? You'll have to make the mo es to get it started being he doesn't know how far you want to go this time. Yeah just tell him. You are complicated he isnt

cjunc2013 · 2024-12-24T22:08:35+00:00

Whisper it in his ear… just say. I’d like to go somewhere to be alone with you. Then you’re all set. You’ll find out if he’s gay or you got yourself a hook up

aidsjohnson · 2024-12-24T22:41:44+00:00

Seems like you asked us a question perfectly well. I would apply these same skills to him in a simple way that isn't creepy and see if it works. Good luck!

jasont111 · 2024-12-24T22:45:20+00:00

Just start making out with him and grab his crotch. If it’s hard u good to go 💯

Salamander99 · 2024-12-24T23:17:15+00:00

we have made out before like 4/5 times
I was thinking was sending him a freaky reel on Instagram for him to get the hint

Did you hit your head when you fell out the stupid tree? You have made out with him 5x times before and you are talking about dropping hints, being creepy or making it weird? Are you trolling right now?

Make out with him again, and then take it further.

CulturalRoll · 2024-12-24T23:35:16+00:00

It’s very different with guys than girls. For guys you just tell us and we will 99.9% of the time say “let’s gooooooooo 🔥🔥🔥🔥”

JackSquirts · 2024-12-25T00:11:26+00:00

Most dudes who are friends with women want to make out with them, so just tell him you want to make out.

DirkIsGestolen · 2024-12-25T00:17:31+00:00

Maybe he's afraid you're going to tell everybody behind his back or try to claim him when other girls are around. I'd be worried about that.

LuvLifts · 2024-12-25T01:24:48+00:00

The Look. Then Holler: ASK to the Side!

JP32793 · 2024-12-25T01:41:41+00:00

Start touching his thigh and he'll get the idea lol

Peen_Round_4371 · 2024-12-25T02:14:23+00:00

I had a fwb in the past text me "want some pussy bro?" to instigate our fwb relationship. It really isn't complicated, we're simple creatures

crowdaddi · 2024-12-25T02:31:25+00:00

Say "can I sit on your face?"

JA_LaRevoluccion · 2024-12-24T19:35:31+00:00

Send me a picture and I'll let you know how to proceed

marcusdj813 · 2024-12-24T19:51:33+00:00

Please don't drop hints. Just give it to him straight so he can easily decipher what you want.

Big_Peace8273 · 2024-12-24T20:26:56+00:00

Just be honest

Sphan_86 · 2024-12-24T20:52:03+00:00

You made out with him 4/5 times and every time he didn't try to go further?

LA-Improper · 2024-12-24T21:01:37+00:00

Put yourselves in the place where you made out before and have a convenient place to hookup afterwards. You don’t have to outright invite him for that purpose but just talk to him a little more to build up the chemistry then go out and let the steps play out. You can gently move his hands onto you if he doesn’t take that step

Title	How do I ask a guy friend that I wanna make out & possibly hookup with him later ?
Author	modelsdiary
Upvotes	65
Comments	43
Date	December 24, 2024 6:53 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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