girl playing defense

EetinAintCheetin · 2025-02-08T18:22:56+00:00

Say “too bad, I only date whores”.

DaygameCode · 2025-02-08T22:17:24+00:00

It’s not an about pressuring her…

If she says that like being a whore is a bad thing, just project your frame that you don’t see whore as a bad thing.

You do that by redefining the meaning of that word with euphemisms that solve her internal conflict between desire and judgment, making it sound like being a whore simply means being a confident woman who embraces her desires unapologetically, enjoys her experiences without shame, and isn’t restricted by outdated labels or judgments.

• For example:

Her: I’m not a whore, i don’t do that right away”

You: “_I don’t like when people shame women who just want to enjoy themselves and be spontaneous in their own terms without guilt_”

or

You: “I don’t do those type of labels. I think you are a spontaneous woman who owns her desires without guilt, and I love women who are confident like that._

or

You: “_Whore is just a word insecure little boys use to shame women who like to have fun and do what they want._”

Impossible-Ground921 · 2025-02-08T17:37:45+00:00

if she’s only around for two days and is saying this then it’s going to be tough to overcome. you over escalated most likely.

I would say something like “ don’t worry i hate sex” with a big smirk on my face.

Wing_Inevitable · 2025-02-08T20:38:01+00:00

how to respond to “im not whore i dont do that right away”

This is a trick to get you thinking of her naked.

I don’t see the problem.

_SKUL_ · 2025-02-08T20:07:45+00:00

use it against her when shes touching on u and say na u said you dont do this

AiSensualGoddess · 2025-02-09T01:36:29+00:00

I would say: “_I understand, many people shame others for enjoying themselves and doing what they want, but i think labels like that are bullshit, and i hope you do too._”

VKend · 2025-02-08T17:22:43+00:00

isn't everyone a whore for something

DopeAFjknotreally · 2025-02-08T20:24:39+00:00

Honestly, just make some joke about not being married yet and than continue as if she never said it

catchthecum · 2025-02-08T21:59:55+00:00

Play dumb and flip the script make her the pervert

Dandys3107 · 2025-02-09T07:41:25+00:00

It's like a standard last resistance for women. They don't want to be perceived as easy. Keep it laidback and playful, maybe just take one step backwards. "I know, you are really a noble, reserved lady", "Yeah, that would be very very indecent", "I know, but you are so sexy". It's very common that you will get there anyway, but she just needs to figure out her excuse.

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-02-08T19:49:12+00:00

“Sounds like you’re trying to convince yourself”

Discopotatoz · 2025-02-08T22:04:32+00:00

You didn't say what prompted that statement from her.. if she's loving your vibe you win by not getting butthurt or backpedalling into any kind of verbose diatribe that breaks the magic. Said another way, you communicate your outcome INDEPENDENCE and that it doesn't affect you if sex doesn't happen by being non-reactive. You can back off slightly but 9/10 you just continue escalating. This shows you're a man in control of your urges and let's her know you're not just a horny meathead that might get aggressive later on if she changes her mind. Two steps forward, one step back. Also if her friends or whoever were around she may not have been open to escalating more publicly (doesn't want to appear easy) and that may have been your queue to consider logistics and bounce her

Poolside_XO · 2025-02-10T01:40:50+00:00

Wait, she's at your place, or dorm? She may not feel comfortable if you share a room.

Other than that, she's looking for you to giver her the green light. You have to make her think sex is her idea, not yours.

Step back a bit and let her cool down. Watch a movie or something. In the middle of the movie, slowly escalate again with light touches. I like to caress the back of the shins, to the back thigh, to the inner thigh. It has to be a gradual build-up or she will stop you.

Imagine if you're at a department store looking to buy a new tv and you want the sales rep's opinion.

Be her sexual sales rep. Sell her the idea.

CrazyRepulsive8244 · 2025-02-10T02:58:28+00:00

This is one of the oldest questions. Google last minute resistance in seduction

EquivalentMulberry88 · 2025-02-08T17:17:00+00:00

obv you're no whore! who said that? you a beautiful lil cupcake that enjoys living life, taking opportunities and finding joy in the little (or big) things winks winks

Title	girl playing defense
Author	No_Panda64
Upvotes	2
Comments	20
Date	February 8, 2025 5:12 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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