Hey everyone, I’m 34 years old and have been with the same women for 12 years. We happy own a house 2 vehicles and a boat with 0 payments. We also have 2 daughters 2 and 4. First 10 years of our relationship was amazing. We shared the same interests, friends and lifestyle. I truly thought she was my solemate.

After the birth of our second daughter things changed dramatically. She no longer trusted me, or respected me. At first I was thinking postpartum, but this gradually got worse. She began to no longer want to touch me kiss me or sometimes even say I love you. They way I handled it was oh just give it time. About a year or so ago I began to beg for her love and she demanded change. I said I’m no different then when we met why change. Long story short 2 weeks ago she say me down and demanded a divorce. I was and am devastated. I’ve pled my case and promised change for her and she still wants out. I’m lost at how someone could just give up. Marriage is a commitment threw thick and thin. I feel like she’s just giving up.

I just feel like I’m missing the real reason. I will say my parents married 40 years are getting divorced along with my younger brother being arrested for molesting a minor. Anyone care to share thier feelings? I’m lost