How to disagree with women without being cocky?

tynolie · 2025-03-29T20:41:27+00:00

"No" "I disagree" "that's not true". Feel free to explain why you disagree if you feel it's warranted.

Don't care about whether you come off as cocky or not. As long as you're not belittling anyone and have an open enough mind to be aware of when YOU'RE wrong and be able to accept new information, then who cares whether the other party(man or woman) thinks you're cocky.

GaryOak7 · 2025-03-29T20:46:46+00:00

Choose a hill and die on it.

Noooofun · 2025-03-29T20:53:58+00:00

Just say you don’t agree with them. You don’t have to explain, unless you want to or they ask.

It’s not your job to change others views on life and issues. And don’t really care if you come off cocky - what’s anyone gonna do if you come off as cocky?

spacemangoes · 2025-03-29T21:34:31+00:00

Just be a dick about it. If they hate you, fuck them. You need to think about changing your way of thinking instead of how not to offend. Internalize nonchalant attitude. Offend them. So what? What’s the worst that could happen? You can be dick to everyone and get away with it, as long as you are self aware enough to know when to tone it down to prevent physical escalation. Go be a dick

dravenkaneki · 2025-03-29T20:45:55+00:00

You can replace ‘no’ words with ‘in my opinion’ or ‘I believe’ ‘well (opinion)’ that way it doesn’t sound like your disagreeing if they hate hearing no.

justarandomuser10 · 2025-03-29T20:40:36+00:00

Choose words carefully.

Charge36 · 2025-03-29T20:41:10+00:00

Just matter of factly state your view on the matter.

"I don't personally believe that crystals have magical healing powers. I do have a really cool geode though"

Rhino3750ss · 2025-03-29T21:03:15+00:00

Don't worry about being cocky. In fact I recommend disagreeing in the most narcissistic way possible, but stay level headed.

becomesharp · 2025-03-29T21:14:53+00:00

Depends on what the subject matter is and where you are in the interaction.

Politics? Make fun of her for trying to recruit you into her cult and change the subject.

Thinking Pepsi is better than coke? Make fun of her for being so confident about something she's clearly wrong about.

4 hours into the date when she mentions her dead mother's dying wish for her to get married in a Buddhist "church" even though Buddhists have temples, not churches? Let it go.

OriginalMandem · 2025-03-29T22:33:58+00:00

I kinda approach it the same way as if I'm a manager and I have to talk to an employee. Get my point across quietly but firmly, avoid accusation, and use 'pointed questions' where by answering them they have to basically say what I am trying to tell them themselves (because it always sounds better/fairer/more logical when people have to think for a second then tell you what the problem is rather than you attacking them with negativity about a problem. Instead of disagreeing, try 'have you considered... (counterpoint)?'

prictorian · 2025-03-29T23:38:26+00:00

Be cocky. Chicks love that shit.

AddLightness1 · 2025-03-29T23:49:56+00:00

Really?

ESOelite · 2025-03-30T01:46:58+00:00

Disagree behind their back. That's the only way to be safe.

determinator94 · 2025-03-30T06:33:41+00:00

Dude… embrace that cocky side of you 😏 you can always do it with a grin or smirk cuz you’re just having fun

ProfitSuch5254 · 2025-03-30T09:49:46+00:00

Why disagree? Just ignore whatever they say.

Electrical_Owl_8169 · 2025-03-31T02:15:00+00:00

Women like cocky

SadKnight123 · 2025-03-29T20:51:35+00:00

The same way they disagree with you

Title	How to disagree with women without being cocky?
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Date	March 29, 2025 8:37 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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