Yesterday I was with a guy friend and we were having a drink when a very very gorgeous girl approached me and asked me about my drink, about how sweet it was bla bla bla. She brought her friend and stayed there with me for like 2 minutes.

I just replied what I was asked for but didn't keep the conversation going or anything, didn't even try to be friendly, I guess I got scared or something.

Later my friend told me "she only used that as an excuse to talk to you" (btw my friend is gay, so he knows all these things about the energy and the vibes and all the things that are foreign for a straight guy). That's when it hit me, I didn't even try, why?

I'm not saying she was trying to sleep with me, but maybe she was just curious. I just never think a pretty woman talks to me for other reason than just being friendly. I guess this has stopped me from opportunities in my life, my current lay count is 15 but I think if I was more confident it would've been 20 or 25 by now.