This woman liked one of my Hinge prompts regarding how to cook steak. Her first message (I don't message first) was regarding it, asking how I like my steak cooked, to which I replied.

After a bit of back and forth, I suggested meeting to which she replied with "For steak?" and I laughed and said no as that is too much effort for a first date.

She then asked me what we would do and I said "Something simple like coffee and a walk." She replied with "If I wanted a walk I would walk my dog, not a man." I said low effort is best for first dates as it is low commitment in case it goes wrong. She said that "Effort is a good thing as it can often make it worth it."

I replied saying I don't like putting in effort, like how I never approach women in person or make the first move. She then asked me if I expect women to make the first move and I said I did. She then unmatched.

Obviously when a woman suggests dinner it means low interest on her part, but was I actually in the wrong here too? I just have a rule of no dinner/food until we are actually in a relationship.