What do you deem to be an "acceptable" body count in a woman, do you care?

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ComfortableJeans · 2025-10-16T14:44:17+00:00

It's not really a number thing as such. More so having similar values and feelings around love, sex, intimacy and relationships. It just so happens that someone having a large number of partners typically is going to indicate that they have very different values around these things than I do.

Which, then in turn, will likely make a romantic relationship difficult if our values around these incredibly important things are unaligned.

I don't fuck with girls I'm not I'm not in a relationship with. I don't like that level of intimacy and inviting someone into a very personal part of me without having an established connection and bond.

As far as judging. I mean, yeah. It's information that informs how I feel toward a person, but that doesn't necessarily mean I hate them. I have friends who've slept around. But I just don't feel those kinds of people would be partners I'd enjoy being with romantically.

Mobrowncheeks · 2025-10-16T14:34:21+00:00

I don’t care about a specific number. More about how you conduct yourself and value your time.

Women who are productive and have higher self esteem simply don’t rack up that many bodies even if they like going out and casually meeting people.

Edit: also a body count of 5 at 26 can actually be interpreted as low or average depending who you ask. It’s totally possible someone lost their virginity at 19-20. Slept with 1-2 people and then got into a long term relationship. Left that relationship at 24 and then had a couple more partners. That’s a normal trajectory of a regular person who becomes single in my book.

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Lift_and_Lurk · 2025-10-16T14:35:16+00:00

Average lifetime for both men and women is 4-7 https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm So you’re right within that range

I never cared. Never asked. And online the ones that seem to worry/talk/obsess about it the most are in the 0-1 range themselves, so it’s more a product of insecurity

RaidenTheBlue · 2025-10-16T14:46:25+00:00

Considering I’m long term relationship minded and have only slept with people I wanted to actively date or was actively dating, my number is 5 by 27. So I think it’s a reasonable ask that if I also want to be with someone of a similar mentality, she’d be either slightly higher if the same age, or less if younger than me. And to answer your question OP, yeah you seem to have a very normal past that a reasonable person wouldn’t judge you for, even if they were the type of person that cares about the subject like I do.

growframe · 2025-10-16T14:46:39+00:00

Depends on age but I'd say anything in the double digits is in the high range universally.

The number matters less than how. Sleeping with 3 guys for money is much less "acceptable" to me than 5 boyfriends.

Also this will probably get deleted because of the weekly thread

happyfunball5 · 2025-10-16T14:45:07+00:00

I never cared to ask or entertained talk about past experiences.

Whiskeymyers75 · 2025-10-16T14:38:37+00:00

Less than mine

Additional-Case4392 · 2025-10-16T14:45:02+00:00

No hymen, no diamond

igotbannedsoimback · 2025-10-16T14:36:47+00:00

there is no number higher than 0 that will make me feel comfortable (as a virgin)

Title	What do you deem to be an "acceptable" body count in a woman, do you care?
Author	m33dium
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Date	October 16, 2025 2:31 PM UTC (9 months ago)
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