She only wants sex ina relationship, I don’t

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Brutal_De1uxe · 2025-11-08T06:21:58+00:00

Be clear with her that you don't want to date her and move on. Block her if necessary.

You are both not compatible as you want different things and it's good that you don't want to lead her on. Also she maybe thinks that you will change your mind about dating her if you sleep with her. None of this healthy.

Doing it just for the lay is low quality behaviour. Even though she clearly finds you attractive enough to lower her standards for you.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-11-08T06:59:10+00:00

Clear red flags. Move along.

a_Sable_Genus · 2025-11-08T08:22:26+00:00

These types of women accidentally "forget" to take their birth control or there is a defective condom in play. It's a 18 to life sentence for a couple of hours of fun. Not worth the risk.

SparkedIntoLife · 2025-11-08T12:22:31+00:00

A lot of women will say this but, if the desire is there, they’ll do it anyway. Just be clear and honest your side. I very much doubt she’s trying to strong-arm you into a relationship. You’re her best option for sex right now and she knows where you’re at. It seems she wants you for a lay, despite what she said.

InternationalPlum11 · 2025-11-08T12:51:31+00:00

Just move on

AlastairXXL · 2025-11-08T12:55:10+00:00

If she is offering no strings attached take it bro, she will probably give you all the sex you want to get you to be her boyfriend

kosman69 · 2025-11-08T17:29:10+00:00

Type of woman to start false allegations

throwawaymadman91 · 2025-11-08T10:41:46+00:00

I've had women staying the night in my bed and as sex was imminent tell me they only have sex with someone they are dating (like official. Boyfriend) I was like "hmmm I'll need to think about that" and cut it off the next day after she left. Lmao ur vagina isn't magic and you can't pull whatever siren bullshit you were attempting on me.

Thin_Protection5616 · 2025-11-08T05:41:04+00:00

Just hang out with her and sleep with her. That's obviously what she wants. Listen to her actions, not her words.

ReactionAble7945 · 2025-11-08T11:03:49+00:00

So basically, you screwed up.

She says it will only have sex with a boyfriend. You have sex. Now you are by default, the boyfriend.

Yea, she is going to be pissed off. You should have known better. And assuming she doesn't kill you or get you tossed into jail.... dont do this shit again.

And to get out of it, you will probably need to be honest and communicate clearly.

Charge36 · 2025-11-08T17:27:17+00:00

The way I see it as long as you're clear with your intentions that you're not dating her it's on her if she wants to have sex under those conditions

Title	She only wants sex ina relationship, I don’t
Author	Point-Overall
Upvotes	30
Comments	20
Date	November 8, 2025 5:34 AM UTC (8 months ago)
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