Do you think simps should do more escorts/sugaring?

TopShelfSnipes · 2025-11-17T15:20:51+00:00

Simps need to grow a backbone and stop being pushover doormats with no self respect.

...which, ironically, would help them with women who aren't looking to be abusive.

Escorts and sugaring are just another excuse for a simp to pay for pussy, albeit directly monetarily.

Simps should refrain from dating and pursuing relationships until they've addressed their simpy-ness. For their sake and for women's.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2025-11-17T15:32:32+00:00

Dudes need to start becoming datable, period. That means you aren’t an asshole, cause no women worth being in a LTR is gonna put up with that. And it ALSO means don’t be a doormat, because no woman worth being in a LTR wants a weak willed loser.

And so you find your balance and your backbone. And it’s different for every dude.

SexCrispies · 2025-11-18T12:04:11+00:00

There is no "hot woman phase" that men could get out of. Men always want hot women.

Why do you assume that a marriage with a woman on their "highschool level" would not end up in a dead bedroom? You think dead bedrooms depend on how sexually attractive a man is in relationship to the woman?

EugeneCezanne · 2025-11-17T18:40:45+00:00

Ive seen a trend of inexperienced men who havent been conventionally masculine/attractive, commit to women who would never date them "in highschool".

Sounds good.

And its often great for an initial period but often ends up in dead bedroom or divorce.

...ok. So there seems to be this theory going around that the cause of breakdowns in longterm sexual relationships is primarily that women were never viscerally attracted to the men in the first place. But I have never seen any large-scale evidence that it's actually true. In fact, it is so easy to brainstorm SO MANY other variables that could confound such an hypothesis that it hardly even seems worth making.

on their highschool level

High school is not real life. It's not even, as you may be suggesting, a more primal life. High school is just society on steroids. People's choices in high school--perhaps especially girls', as they tend to be more socially developed and thus enmeshed in social politics--should not be assumed to be more authentic than in their 20s and 30s.

but get that "hot woman" phase out through sugaring/escorts.

I'm not opposed to this, if that's what a guy wants. But I think people overestimate the value of the sex when they think of sex. You have to ask the deeper question: what do people want when they want sex? In the moment, it may be all about immediate horniness. But in the bigger picture, what most people want is a particular emotional experience: they want to feel excited, desirable, connected, accomplished, etc. Most people probably don't get those feelings from a purely transactional lay.

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TheOneWhoThinketh · 2025-11-17T16:00:49+00:00

This is suggesting that men who are bad at understanding whether women like them should pay for women to pretend to like them. Unless the simp chooses to try and understand women, women's behavior will have no affect on his, whether he is paying or not.

MarioWilson122 · 2025-11-17T21:27:47+00:00

Not at all this is illegal in most places to start off. Also a man cant really get an ego doing that. So unless he is very down bad then hes probably ably best to sticking to what he can get.

Probably not the nicest thing but even using game makes more sense. This path just might cause more drama, then some men might want. Even still its better then paying someone for something like that.

eluusive · 2025-11-19T06:34:00+00:00

Absolutely. Every simp should definitely do more escorting or sugaring. Although, I'm not sure how much they could charge.

Substantial_Video560 · 2025-11-19T09:08:59+00:00

More men should see escorts for sure

Ragazzocolbass8 · 2025-11-17T15:26:35+00:00

If it was legal I wouldn't bother doing anything else.

Imagine not having to deal with women's bullshit and mindgames. That's a fucking dream right there.

Title	Do you think simps should do more escorts/sugaring?
Author	chobolicious88
Upvotes	5
Comments	37
Date	November 16, 2025 5:26 PM UTC (9 months ago)
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