How did yall get out of your worst droughts?

Altruistic-Patient-8 · 2025-11-19T21:17:09+00:00

In my experience, you literally gotta survive off sheer determination. You dont exhaust yourself trying to catch attention, you devote that energy back into yourself. No one wants to give you a chance? Fine, time for self preservation, like a phone that turns off certain apps when it loses power.

tajbinjohn · 2025-11-20T02:31:34+00:00

Are you exercising?

What content are you consuming? Music? Comedy? Or grindset and depressing news?

Watcha eating?

How often are you going outside?

How often do you smile nowadays? Is it less than when you were kicking ass out there?

Adjust and let us know next month

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-11-19T20:52:48+00:00

Keep going out grinding your skills and keep approaching.

djdeedame · 2025-11-19T23:50:47+00:00

Got divorced

chriscrowder · 2025-11-20T20:30:40+00:00

Fucked a fatty

devonthed00d · 2025-11-20T03:13:15+00:00

Lowered my standards 💀

ratfooshi · 2025-11-19T22:19:33+00:00

I stopped trying to seduce people who weren't my type or too busy for seduction.

Low and behold, its like every interaction flows and nothing feels forced. I have genuine female friends now which is weird to me lol. Cockblocking mfs but I love em

I guess my biggest shift was being okay with being the friend. Everyone's tryna win them over. I'd rather flatter and confuse her so she pursues me.

Bigballerway93 · 2025-11-20T02:32:04+00:00

Still trying to figure out the answer myself. No one seems to have a real answer for that

A1Horizon · 2025-11-19T23:16:34+00:00

Just keep going. Periods of feast and famine happen. I try not to switch up because whatever brings the famine also seems to bring the feast

rockdude625 · 2025-11-21T03:51:23+00:00

Trip to Medellin

pinegap96 · 2025-11-20T00:26:57+00:00

Rizz

WebNew9978 · 2025-11-20T18:34:49+00:00

I didn’t.

Tribestar95 · 2025-11-21T02:03:24+00:00

I stopped caring and soon the drought ended. I quit cold turkey any investment into women/dating and let things flow naturally. I’m happy with or without and don’t care

2025-11-21T14:17:30+00:00

It's been 4 months for me. Every date since then sucked and it was 100% on me. I felt a sense of urgency with every date and I'm sure the women picked up on that energy. I'm pretty sure three women would have gone home with me had I gave off better vibes. Two months ago, I took a break. It helped that life got busy and I didn't need to date to fill the time. During my break, I enjoyed life more.

Now, I'm back to dating. Though I have yet to score, I feel like I'm out of my drought emotionally if that makes sense. My recent and current interactions with women feel more relaxed and authentic. I feel less of a "I need to make this work" mentality if that makes sense.

Cybion_ · 2025-11-19T21:01:07+00:00

Define "droughts"

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-20T16:41:22+00:00

Had to get out of the cult mentality. No it's not a numbers game. Compliment openers suck . Learn subconscious attraction, then make it conscious.

Title	How did yall get out of your worst droughts?
Author	Low-Gift-6236
Upvotes	19
Comments	42
Date	November 19, 2025 8:48 PM UTC (8 months ago)
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