Just sharing some observations from 2025 about introducing people I knew to 'game' or briefly letting them know how transformational it was for my life and how it really didn't serve much. Part of it was ego-based, but I also wanted to set up a network of wingmen. Only managed to get 1 guy really on board.

1) Unless you're really good at it, your acquaintances will see the low success rate (most approaches don't get a number) and your value will just go down in their eyes. I took some guys out for day game and night game and whilst they saw some benefits, nobody stuck with it and I lost most of those contacts. Obviously if you are really good at it, then its a major bow in your arrow.

2) Why add extra competition? - the value of cold approach in 2026 is that nobody is really doing it. Yeah people hook up at clubs, but really nobody is approaching at the bookstore, the street, even the bar, or if it does happen its all purely incidental merging of groups type 'approaching'. Keep standing out and don't add extra competition, especially if you're in smaller areas of <100,000 people. Let the average man continue in his social atrophy.

3) Part of wanting to help other guys out for me I realised was rooted in deeply ingrained 'nice guy' behaviour - if I could show them this, they might respect/admire me etc. Nonsense. Nobody helped really me with PUA. I did it all mostly myself, why should I help others without them asking for it. Sure you might want to help people you know break from the matrix/brainrot that approaching women is creepy, they will come to you etc, but at the same time your not dealing with children, you're dealing with grown men. They can work it out themselves, or not. Their choice.

4) If you're looking for wingmen, build a decent friendship first. Trust, support and judgment free is required for what we do. There are lots of posts on here and telegram channels about meeting strangers to do pick-up, its all a bit wierd. The girls can sense if you're not really freinds anyway.

5) You may not need wingmen anyway - it can be hard to co-ordinate time to go out together, you might have completely different tastes in girls and style of game. Besides, some of the best approaches I've done are where I open 2 or 3 girls solo.