PSA

IF YOUR WIFE SAYS SOME SHIT TO YOU LIKE “YOU SHOULD LEAVE THE HOUSE AND WORK ON YOURSELF AND MAYBE WE HAVE A CHANCE”

anything remotely like this, call a lawyer immediately. Sleep in a separate room or tell her to sleep in a separate room and record every interaction. As soon as she approaches you, start recording.

No fighting. Keep your mouth shut. Your camera is your friend.

Now back to the main point, don’t leave the house until the divorce is finalized or the court tells you to leave

I think that’s pretty good advice

You should also try to implement a schedule with her where you have 50-50 custody of the kids. Put it into practice while you’re living in the house for example you get the kids Tuesday and Wednesday and every other weekend (weekend is Friday Saturday and Sunday night) encourage her to use an app with you like our family Wizard or just do everything by text so it’s provable

If you leave because your wife is actually a psycho, then make sure more than ever you stick to the schedule because the court will take note of that

Lastly, and my whole thesis of the post, when a woman says go work on yourself do this or do that and maybe we have a chance, that is the biggest fucking bullshit you’re gonna hear of your life. It’s completely over