I just remembered something my STBX said when we were trying for a baby and she had a miscarriage.

I really don't know how this didn't ring any alarm bells.

After the miscarriage she said that she was hoping that once we have a child this would help me to love her more 😳

Who would think it's normal to say something like that?

And this was back when things were still good. But how do you get to this idea "if we have a baby he will put me on a pedestal and worship me"?

Just tell me what you guys think but to me this just solidifies my understanding that she's a full-blown narcissist.