9 months out from 13 years.

fertilefeet · 2026-05-04T10:42:04+00:00

Get out of the house or pickup a new hobby. Just get outside and talk to people. Things will get better! ❤️

Alone_Recognition83 · 2026-05-04T10:29:20+00:00

9 months for me too! I stayed in the same building, consistently reminded of our 10 year relationship, battling for my life with all the damage and problems, feeling like I'm trapped in that world still while she and everyone else moved on 9 months ago.

LifeBeatsHard · 2026-05-03T13:20:56+00:00

Ouch... 9 months too after 12 years together and same deep sad feeling.

Seeing people close to or over 2 years and still missing and loving their ex-wives is not promising.

People promised time would heal and I will be okay... when??? I am very tired of this void.

t_odd_ · 2026-05-02T19:31:30+00:00

sorry man. 19 months after 30yrs here and still in the same twilight zone episode

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-05-02T17:16:01+00:00

22 months out from 13 years married (26 years together) Today was particularly bad for some reason. Hate this fucking shit.

Only-Presence2857 · 2026-05-02T14:31:27+00:00

I’m 11 months out. The end of May we make it official. I don’t really miss her but man am I lonely

LoveCrispApples · 2026-05-02T14:25:02+00:00

23 months out from 16 years. I miss who I thought she was...or, who she pretended to be.

TeddyPSmith · 2026-05-02T13:44:32+00:00

Same. I’m afraid this is going to take years

fiddsy · 2026-05-02T13:23:27+00:00

8 months.... today was a hard 1 for me...

Antique_Relief_804 · 2026-05-02T13:22:34+00:00

This is so hard to hear only being 1 week post. :(

Title	9 months out from 13 years.
Author	Ok_Industry3016
Upvotes	14
Comments	24
Date	May 2, 2026 1:20 PM UTC (3 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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