Approach 1: Stunning woman (probably early-mid 30’s) in the grocery store. Very nervous and went straight in with a compliment followed by “are you single?” To which the answer was a no. Asked if we can be friends and ended up getting the number but got a HR text an hour later saying “thank you but I was caught off guard and didn’t know what to say”.
2: Worker at a shop in the mall when it was empty. She was stunning (18 but looked mid 20’s) but had a bf and offered to set me up with her single friend (showed me her IG and everything).
3: Same day as 2, approached woman in parking lot on way into a different mall. She told me she was married (no ring) and said it wasn’t right to be friends.
4: On my afternoon walk, crossed paths with a 40 year old ecuadorian woman. On the way back saw her again and approached (different setting which worked better as I felt less self conscious without other people around). Talked a lot slower and with more confidence and got the number. Hanging out with her again today after we went for a walk last week and ended up kissing.
5: Approached a woman in the clothing section of a department store. Mid 30’s and married again.
6: Different day, same store. Mid 30’s and engaged.
7: Grocery store yesterday. 30ish Hispanic woman who took the compliment but was married.
8: In the mall after approach 7, worker at a shop who told me there was too much of an age gap between us (23 and 28).
Overall I’ve seen a lot of improvement in having the balls to go up and approach. I can rush it sometimes if there are other people around and I am very sick of women being married/taken 😂. Is there a point where this stuff becomes second nature? Or should
I be happy with the rejections?
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