Day 5 of cold approaching 10 women a day till i get a girlfriend

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refreshingface · 2026-08-15T16:47:46+00:00

You should stop and reflect. If you don’t, you will get burnt out/bitter from the rejections.

The fact that you are getting VERY little numbers is concerning to me.

Most girls are willing to give you their numbers even if they KNOW they won’t respond.

The fact that you got a single number after doing 52 cold approaches leads me to believe that there is either something fundamentally wrong with how you present yourself or the approach itself.

fuggetboutit · 2026-08-15T15:44:56+00:00

Keep going man, you are getting better by the day.

iNsomNia1302 · 2026-08-15T15:46:31+00:00

Keep it going man, I follow these every day!

SyreksDungeon · 2026-08-15T17:28:44+00:00

This is my advice. The place matters. I live in the US but i was born in Mexico and grew up there until i was 11. Im used to hanging out with low class hispanics, im used to hanging with the immigrants (mostly illegal ones), thats like my "status". Im the Mexican immigrant guy.

If i try to talk to white girls from the suburbs, im just a Mexican. Not even a Mexican-American, but an immigrant. We are not LOVED by white Americans at the moment as you might know. Therefore, im not at the status that these women are used to. So i get rejected a lot

Black girls tend to like me a little bit more because like i said, i came to the US at 11 to a somewhat low-class ghetto neighborhood, so i got a little bit of the street slang and mannerisms. Im not fully like that, but more black girls like me than white girls. My approaches with black women are a bit higher, but not perfect.

Mexican-Americans also dont LOVE me. They have a different vision of what a Mexican should be than what i actually am. I come from a City from Mexico, most Mexican-Americans have farm-Mexican parents. I dont wear boots, hats, and i dont identify as that type of Mexican

However, when i meet immigrants and native-Mexicans, everything is WAY easier. I started going to places that have MY culture, and my results are at leats 30%.

Id recommend trying different places with different social classes. Find your bar with the social class that fits the best for you and there you will have way more success.

United-Implement-382 · 2026-08-15T16:58:35+00:00

I’ve been ignored by a lot of women I tried to approach. That’s actually very common. Don’t let that get to you.

jackthehat6 · 2026-08-15T16:48:42+00:00

lso, today I decided to change things a little bit. I started testing funny pickup lines in several of my approaches

This is more what 'modern' pickup guys do a lot of. Today they called them 'rizzlers' instead of PUA's. They decided to drop 95% of what old school PUA's taught as they figure it doesn't actually work (and I agree with them tbh)

There's not much wrong with it. If they wanted too they could write books that make it sound like it's some amazing, complicated theory and give it a technical sounding name which is really what the oldschool PUA's done. So in 20 years time people would be saying 'you need to use a "A super powerful covert emotional engagement trigger protocol" (when we know it as a 'pickup line' lol)

It 'works' just as well as any other type of PUA opener. If you want to watch them working you cna look for vids by stephspeaks or even guys like thatwasepic etc.

flirty voice to make them feel sexually attracted?

Nothing you do is say is going to MAKE someone attracted. Otherwise we'd all be doing it and getting laid like Leo Dicaprio lol. And these pickup artists wouldn't have massive rejection compilations

At least so yall can critique my approach and tell me what I need to change etc. What do yall think of this idea?

Go for it, although be prepared for what happens in many other FR's one used to read here. i.e people just use hindsight bias to 'explain' the rejection (when teh real reason was just that you weren't her type and nothing you could have said would have changed it). What used to happen in FR's is a guy would post 4 detailed approaches where the girls ignored him. All of the replie would say 'Dude, of course she rejected you! You opened direct lolx. Never do that. Read the mysterymethod!!!'.

Then he'd come back a week later with the same results but he opened with an indirect open adn everyone says ''Dude! Why did you open indirect! Girls know why you are talking to them. Try opening direct! Read Mark Manson!!'

(and this would happen, not only for the opener, but for every nuance and stage of the interaction lol)

MettaKaruna100 · 2026-08-15T18:12:11+00:00

Keep these coming loving it

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-08-15T19:06:44+00:00

You're doing fine. When you're not out approaching, watch some Coach Kyle or Todd V. videos. Don't stop doing what you're doing, just study a bit if theory while you're doing it.

PsychedelicZebra25 · 2026-08-15T15:57:53+00:00

Yes record audio

GraniteNut · 2026-08-15T15:50:15+00:00

Good work. To help put your data into context, can you help us ballpark understand how you look? E.g height, build, race, face please

rishikchauhan · 2026-08-15T16:34:34+00:00

Keep going man! Rooting for your success!!!

kurt_85 · 2026-08-15T16:45:35+00:00

You are doing great! Keep going! I am just curious on the woman you approached on the job.. can you detail a bit more on how they reacted?

Special_Rice9539 · 2026-08-15T18:27:49+00:00

Are you just doing daygame? Nightgame will probably get more responses

Also those pickup lines are terrible lmao, you can just have an observational opener about the environment and transfer into a conversation about her

MettaKaruna100 · 2026-08-15T20:27:32+00:00

I struggle to approach so I'm wondering how are you able to take so do so many? What are you thinking before you approach and after? What are your thoughts and feelings on rejection?

esy_crux · 2026-08-15T21:13:26+00:00

Love reading this. If you want i have app for tracking progress. I can drop you an invite. It’s completely free

JPowTheDayTrader · 2026-08-15T21:48:42+00:00

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Is this a cry for help?

AisforArdvark · 2026-08-15T22:30:29+00:00

Yo, love to see this series. Question- have you seen any of the YTube vids from High Integrity Skills? One of the first rules he tells people is to NOT compliment women for something that they can’t control, like looks (saying she is pretty or beautiful) but instead compliment her efforts, like how she did her makeup. I thought I read one of your posts that said it was how you opened (the bad way) so it made me think of this.

This last weekend I did my 2nd cold approach ever and got an instagram, lol. But she didn’t respond, but still a nice success for me (I wasn’t that into her so it’s all good). Also I’m in the US, and it was night game.

Anyway, really appreciate these posts. Keep at it, brother!

KreddyFreuger · 2026-08-15T23:25:27+00:00

Definitely record audio and post it. It’s hard to give any advice without hearing how your approaches are going

ftdrain · 2026-08-15T23:33:53+00:00

I think you need to looks max bro, If I go for numbers of random women my hit rate is 80% minimum

CliftonTerrace · 2026-08-16T03:14:46+00:00

Keep going. I think you’re an inspiration.

Exact_Shoe_6009 · 2026-08-16T03:35:44+00:00

Bro maybe you can go with a wingman and try to be fully opened during cold approach

Tdriv-20 · 2026-08-16T03:45:25+00:00

Love these posts. I definitely recommend to keep experimenting with approaches and see what works well and what doesn’t.

herestobeingawesome · 2026-08-16T06:10:37+00:00

Dude keep going, I love this! 10 a day is insane - I do like 2-3 a day and have uninstalled hinge and am trying to get better at irl approaches - will keep following your journey, stay strong!

OkRecommendation1040 · 2026-08-16T06:52:21+00:00

I’m so invested

jhdz3138 · 2026-08-16T07:43:05+00:00

I love this.. keep them coming! So refreshing to hear over “how much easier is it picking up girls when you’re attractive?”
“Should I move to the other side of the globe to pick up more chicks because girls around me don’t give me any attention”
“should I pay 6x of what I pay now for a equinox gym membership to see if I have better luck there?’

This guy is actually out there doing the damn thing!

Keep going bro you’ll land something eventually and find/hone your process

SlimJimPaul · 2026-08-16T08:33:49+00:00

Hold on bro are you going right after the gym? Are you taking a shower before you leave the gym?

Imanuisance · 2026-08-16T11:39:34+00:00

May seem weird at first but this is strictly only for you to use to learn. When I first started cold approaching I’d record through my headphone mic and listen to the approach afterwards to breakdown an reflect on what I did good or bad. Being that you’re getting rejected 90% of the time I think this would help you greatly.

FunnyAway5973 · 2026-08-15T16:41:40+00:00

Just put the fries in the bag at this point bro 😭🥀

Impossible_Loan7551 · 2026-08-15T19:54:39+00:00

In chess you don't get better by playing 100 matches a day.

You get better by reviewing every match and trying to understand what you could have done better.

No-Forever-7283 · 2026-08-15T18:59:54+00:00

A couple points that might help. The whole asking for directions or asking questions approach comes off as low value. Also try not to go for a direct approach because the success rate is really low unless the girl likes u a lot. Maybe try observational openers or situational openers? Ask for the number of you guys are already talking about plans. Search Diego Day on youtube. He may have some pointers that could help u out.

goongoblin113xc · 2026-08-15T19:05:48+00:00

I saw in one of your comments your only approaching women in the street? Try to go to raves and events like that where there’s a bunch of people having fun and socializing u have confidence which is good don’t ever let the rejections get to u keep on approaching but change the location up at times

PatientUpstairs4862 · 2026-08-15T19:50:17+00:00

Please stop. If you're not even getting pity numbers from girls, it's time to go back to the drawing board and re-architect your entire mindset.

Efficient_Shift_1960 · 2026-08-15T20:53:02+00:00

Buenas!! Estoy buscando alguien por CABA que esté en la misma de salir a practicar Day Game y Cold approach de forma constante (Parques, bares, cafés, etc.). La idea es armar equipo con alguien con buena onda para salir de a dos, darnos una mano con la calibración/feedback y meterle ritmo sin dar tanta vuelta.

Title	Day 5 of cold approaching 10 women a day till i get a girlfriend
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Date	August 15, 2026 3:37 PM UTC (3 days ago)
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