"Men love better then Woman"

Mrs_Drgree · 2020-08-20T09:16:07+00:00

Removed for low effort

misiepatysie · 2020-08-20T06:44:38+00:00

Tking into consideration that men are more likely to leave a terminally ill partner, or opt out of marraige when a disabled child is born I highly daobt that men love better.

pdrt3 · 2020-08-20T07:04:41+00:00

Love is inversely correlated with attractiveness. In other words:

Betas love the most

Women love somewhat

Alphas don't love at all

People saying men "love more" are imagining relationships between betas and women. People saying women "love more" are imagining relationships between alphas and women.

nemma88 · 2020-08-20T07:20:01+00:00

Men and women love differently. Women wish men loved like them and men wish women loved like them. Individuals within both groups are prone to either leaving when things get a bit tough or clinging on and being a doormat. Both can be abusive.

Mimoxs · 2020-08-20T04:34:11+00:00

She never gives a good explanation.

"If you give them space to show it I think men love better." Ok... how?

("Immediately proceeds into talking about how bad men fake it and why the message persists and never goes to explain")

I would disagree. I've never seen a man go to the lengths for which I've seen women go to prove their love.

Most men are fairly calloused and apathetic to the feelings of the women they are partnered with. They don't really ever think about making her happy or doing little things to make her day brighter, the way women do. I'd say most men are honestly very resentful and mean spirited towards their female partners.

As for the comments I'm sorry but I spent a lot of time on that incel sub that recently got banned and the comments on the video could easily have been from that sub and I wouldn't have known the difference. It's basically just the same FDS-esque circle jerking in a woe is us poor (gender) fashion.

Also you know she literally talks about holding bad men accountable for their actions? Something most men are vehemently against?

SteveSan82 · 2020-08-20T04:37:18+00:00

Men and women love differently. Men value love. Women love value.

lilastr · 2020-08-20T07:01:46+00:00

If men love better than women why are they still abusing women domestically

nik6979 · 2020-08-20T04:51:58+00:00

Yea some men love deeply So deeply they annihilate their wife and kids for their mistress .. lol

CatchPhraze · 2020-08-20T04:27:31+00:00

No, woman score higher in everything we think love is: Charity, empathy, more likely to take care of a sick partner, remember important dates, give more thoughtfuly ect.

They are in every age bracket besides one less likely to lie and less likely to cheat. Woman "love" as much if not more then men.

Men are more likely to move on faster as well.

I don't think either gender loves more presay but maybe differently. I think men internalize their love but the reality is that it just comes across as low value to a lot of women hence the disconnect.

I notice with my guy I love him so I take an interest in his hobbies and choose plans around him but his love is internal, he only displays it when forced to (for instance men are probably more likely to die saving their partners then the reverse) or prompted like holidays.

TheBookOfSeil · 2020-08-20T05:13:35+00:00

Well I think it would be a bit dishonest to compare the way that men and women love. We love differently, but the way that we love can come across as "better" or "worse" depending on how we're qualifying both of them.

Men are always going to be the doers, so it might be that men will typically express feelings through action. I show my love for people through remembering birthdays or things that they like, giving gifts, going to visit and talk with them/ask how they're doing, and showing up.

Women's love on the other hand, I've observed, is more like fuel for a fire that only she experiences, and is the basis for her actions toward someone, whether they be acts of kindness, words of affirmation, or just positive body language. This fire needs to be stoked and/or started by a man through his actions of adding fuel and helping her ignite it. Without fuel being constantly added, that fire dies down to embers and slowly turns to a cold, dark, cast-iron oven, and stays like that until another one comes along.

Sometimes, all that a man needs to do is be hot to get that fire going, and a woman may try to keep the fire going herself and wait for a man to add fuel to it, but if he doesn't, she'll stop adding fuel and the fire will die again.

Men, however, tend to keep a fire going on our own, and will put it out ourselves if we have to. It's not really necessary for another person to add to it like it seems to be the other way around.

This has held true for most of my life in the people that I've met. Me and my male friends all keep a fire going for each other, but women always tend to need someone to bring them wood (giggity).

tnais · 2020-08-20T06:20:18+00:00

If you're getting your information from a YouTube channel called "TRP Clips," you're going to be getting lots of biased information which presents a heavily distorted view of how the world works.

SaBahRub · 2020-08-20T04:33:39+00:00

YouTube comments, really? You want to use that as meaningful discussion? That’s lowest common denominator, man

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nik6979 · 2020-08-22T06:07:53+00:00

Then you have Christopher Watts . He actually murdered his 2 young daughters and shoved them in oil containers then buried his pregnant wife . Which he did all this for a mistress too .... I'm just saying . He appeared very well liked ,normal , accomplished etc ....

aoeusnth48 · 2020-08-20T04:45:55+00:00

Don't overcomplicate it.

Many women will read "men love better than women" and scoff in disagreement.

Likewise, many men would be nodding their head in full agreement.

Well, isn't that interesting?

The difference comes down to pre-marriage vs. marriage -- or more generally, the level of commitment of a romantic relationship.

Women can get far more for sex than a relationship. Far more for a relationship than marriage. For men it's the exact opposite.

Women that are younger and not married, as said above, will likely scoff at the statement, because women are busy getting/trying to get with the best they can attract at the lowest levels of commitment. At low levels of commitment, there's almost no limit to what a decent looking, young woman can get. That means while they can get with very attractive guys for low commitment, they'll have problems getting into more commited relationships. So... not being able to get this commitment they want, their own experiences will indicate that men certainly cannot love better than women. In fact, the opposite is true. How could anyone think otherwise...

However, at the highest level of commitment -- marriage -- women are the least loyal, overwhelmingly more divorcing compared to men. And here you have the men in relationships and marriage (i.e., higher levels of commitment) that would be nodding in agreement.

So, in fact, both sides are right in a way. However, it's overwhelmingly men that can love who they can get at the highest level of commitment, not women.

Today, women have overwhelmingly compromised their ability to fully love and desire the best they can attract at the highest level of commitment, i.e., who they can get for marriage.

For some context, have a read of this comment.

Title	"Men love better then Woman"
Author	Thanos25
Upvotes	1
Comments	77
Date	August 20, 2020 4:05 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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