Did I do the right thing by calling this guy out?

Pasdepromesses · 2020-08-31T15:23:38+00:00

Read the handbook, seriously.

eveninghope · 2020-08-31T15:24:39+00:00

Gurl. He was trying to see which girl was free when. If he's not making plans with you after that, he's making plans with someone else. Just focus on yourself and be busy.

Thestral-glow6 · 2020-08-31T15:27:07+00:00

Please read the handbook, he sees you as a booty call, is lying to you and you are kind of excusing this behaviour.

quaintrell · 2020-08-31T15:26:34+00:00

Definitely not an overreaction. Block and move on. He won't "communicate better" and he doesn't value you.

nycgirlhere · 2020-08-31T15:37:47+00:00

Never say you’re free if he hits you up last minute! You are busy not entertaining people who have no regard for your schedule even if you’re “free” nope you need to be booked days in advance!

Summerisle7 · 2020-08-31T15:45:28+00:00

It's over with this guy, forget him. block and delete. Read the handbook before starting anything with anyone else and before posting here again.

billyg0at420 · 2020-08-31T15:41:01+00:00

In addition to the other comments here recommending the handbook, never ever confront during the dating phase. It gives them the power. The block and delete makes you unavailable to him, and will drive him nuts when he realizes he got rejected.

It’s been two nights since you heard from him, so you got ghosted. Next time, you’ll be the one that ghosts.

SavvyInNYC · 2020-08-31T15:53:48+00:00

No, you did not.

2 nights ago was Saturday. He probably was out but struck out with finding a new hookup for the night so was coming back to his backup plan (you).

Block him. And read the handbook.

billyg0at420 · 2020-08-31T15:36:04+00:00

The handbook is amazing, check it out. And I think this guy needs to be blocked ASAP.

vmuzondi · 2020-08-31T15:58:44+00:00

Are you wanting to date this guy because he can’t take you seriously if you aren’t going on dates and he’s not courting you. It seems like he’s just nonchalant about this arrangement and I would drop him. Also don’t communicate how you’re feeling with men. You’ll just look clingy and he’ll know you’re attached already. He’s already being lazy with you. If you haven’t read the handbook yet, you really should. It helps you realize all these things and it’s super helpful.

2020-08-31T17:17:28+00:00

Block and move on.

He wouldn’t text his boss at 11pm. He wouldn’t text his dream girl at 11pm. Guys know better. He chooses to treat you that way.

dntbfllikeidid · 2020-08-31T16:57:21+00:00

Read the Handbook. You are letting him play you, giving him what he wants and already acting needy and desperate. Basically you are doing everything wrong and that guy has already proved he’s a LV trash!

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