I'm a female that learned a valuable life lesson today.

balalasaurus · 2016-02-21T20:38:04+00:00

Don't know why you're being downvoted. You're a textbook example of everything we teach here.

nathanisfat · 2016-02-22T00:17:06+00:00

stonepimpletilists · 2016-02-21T21:11:45+00:00

If he's a quality man, chances are he never gave you a second thought, and still doesn't.

Most top tier men could give two shits about the 'have my fun, then settle down when older'

they hit their peak, and want a girl who is in her peak, not on the downslide. Your lesson is the "the dog with two bones"

Dog sitting on a raft in the water, sees another dog in the water with a bone, and reaches out to steal his, then drops his own in the water. Now the dog has no bone, because he got greedy and wanted too much.

0_fox_are_given · 2016-02-22T00:54:19+00:00

If I reject a man, I reject him. The book is sealed. No take backs, no changing my mind.

Yes from your point of view. But men don't really view it like this.

When you messaged that guy, all you really did was stroke his ego, he probably didn't care that you rejected him.

On a usual night out, an average guy may have 10 rejections, like the one you spoke about. But then we meet a girl that we get along with and forget all about the rejections -as if they never happened.

There is no ever lasting pain.

The jist that I get from your post is that you're actually more remorseful that you lost out on a good opportunity, then you are that you caused him pain.

You should probably take a good look at how you interact with people in general, or it'll be too late when you realise you've missed a whole lot of good opportunities.

We call it riding the cock carousal and then hitting the wall.

Focusi · 2016-02-22T02:32:05+00:00

Reading through this thread and the comments I can't help but be amazed. You seem to have learned a lot lf things but at the same time you're acting like you haven't learned a thing. First of all you seem to feel a need to defend every statement made towards you and most likely this is due to hitting a soft spot. You also seem incapable of taking criticism.

I will definitely say that the comments made towards you aren't exactly constructive nor goal oriented but you're still rationalizing a lot of things. Rationalizing is in your nature and so I'm not gonna blame you for doing it BUT you need to step down and listen a bit.

Also read more about the theory and /r/redpillwomen is most likely where you want to look

jdgalt · 2016-02-22T03:46:00+00:00

"If I reject a man, I reject him. The book is sealed. No take backs, no changing my mind."

Sure sounds like someone who can't bear to admit she ever made a mistake.

ramot1 · 2016-02-21T23:30:07+00:00

You're the one who re-initiated contact, so you are still playing games, trying to get orbiters. Thank you for demonstrating the correctness of the red pill theory.

RPAlternate42 · 2016-02-22T03:40:37+00:00

/r/RedPillWomen

TheRedStoic · 2016-02-22T12:30:52+00:00

Good you seem to be learning.

However, this is intended as a male space. Please endeavor to respect that abs maintain it.

I and I'm certain many others thank you for your contribution and point you to redpill women. That's a good sub for you to start visiting.

Thank you and good bye!

BrunoOh · 2016-02-21T23:15:06+00:00

Don't sweat yourself, chances are he'd never have developed like that if you hadn't rejected him.

[deleted] · 2016-02-22T04:27:57+00:00

I really respect you not beating around the bush. Keep at it!

randarrow · 2016-02-22T07:00:44+00:00

I think most women subconsciously know what you are saying, your conclusion isn't helping anyone. Most women hedge their bets by not outright rejecting people, they string men and women along passive aggressively. Other women reject people as some sort of test. Don't not reject people by ignoring them or stringing them along. Most women who are raped are raped by men they friend zone by not outright rejecting them and distancing themselves. A lot of women also speak in riddles in order to avoid confrontation.

Best life lesson to take out of this in general? Teach young girls to seriously consider the men around them. Super models complain men aren't interested in them, because they do not consider the people making passes at them to be men.

Best lesson for you to take out of this personally? Look around you are your peers. Are any of them interested in you? I mean, seriously consider who are your peers. Do you make $30k? Look at men who make $30k. Are you over the hill? Look at men who are over the hill. Are you overweight? Look are men who are over weight. I'm sure you have someone who qualifies as a peer who is interested in you.

EmDeeEx14 · 2016-02-22T10:31:18+00:00

....the red pill is dead fellas..call this "misc 2"

Smh

ecrvnr · 2016-02-22T16:17:03+00:00

I didn't reject him over being unattractive, I rejected him because I wasn't looking for anyone at the time, but time has been good to him

That's a lie right there. You're free to reject whoever you want for the reasons you want, but don't try to hamster up fake reasons for rejecting people.

MeatCurtainRod · 2016-02-22T16:52:34+00:00

If I reject a man, I reject him. The book is sealed. No take backs, no changing my mind.

The reason why so many boys in this world grow up thinking that they always have a chance is because they are told by their mommy's and every other women around them, that they can achieve happiness as long as they are persistent and just be the way they are, as their gentle cute little sweet baby boy.

So now we have a crapton of confused male adults who go around not knowing how to deal with women, because their mental capacity is that of a boy's. And this is the reason why they figure if they act like a boy, by asking again and again, and complaining again and again, that they will just get their way eventually. It has always worked on their mom, so why not for all women right?

FYI this is one of the many negative consequences of feminism. This, and actual feminism.

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-02-21T21:54:38+00:00

Rejecting men is what boosts a womens ego after all. You simultaneously prove you are worthwhile and not a slut. At least to your running hamster.

Like commenters have said, you totally will get back on your word of rejection if the situation calls for it. That guys SMV rose and became a plausible mating options for you in a time of distress. You're simply angry that a man indirectly rejected you offer to do the mating dance. All of this is understandable, that's how you work.

blackedoutfast · 2016-02-22T08:09:56+00:00

Let me get this straight. You posted this mopey, woe-is-me, omg what a horrible experience, as god as my witness i'll never do that again story on asktrp because you got rejected? By a guy you rejected in the past? A guy who politely rejected you because he is currently in a relationship? A guy who probably doesn't even realize he rejected you? lolz.

I don't see a question, so why did you post in asktrp sweetie? Do you just want RP advice or what? OK toughen the fuck up and go hit on 100 strangers to overcome your crippling approach anxiety and fear of rejection.

itsawomensworld · 2016-02-22T01:49:03+00:00

Don't feel bad for being rejected that comes part of being equal. Oh wait I forget women rather equality be a buffet.

WrensPens · 2016-02-21T22:47:19+00:00

So what? He asked you out, you weren't feeling it, and so he moved on. Why would his gf even care about some girl who turned him down back in the day? Do you think your that important? Or are you a man who likes to fantasize that all the girls that weren't into you will get their comeuppance? Does it make you feel better to not get over rejection and instead focus on how some woman is now miserable that she didn't jump on your dick back in the day?

Momo_dollar · 2016-02-22T00:08:34+00:00

Don't forget women will sugarcoat things to preserve their rep, hardwired into them so they do it even when posting anonymously online. Also she won't know why she rejected him, but its probably because he was acting desperate. Key to the story =

"I didn't reject him over being unattractive, I rejected him because I wasn't looking for anyone at the time, but time has been good to him"

So obviously something has changed about him, maybe looks or money situation or both. She sees him on their mutual friend's fb and she starts thinking about the boat that she missed and wonders how she can get on it. She thinks errrm can't be difficult he was so desperate before and " I'm still very attractive". But shock horror....what, the nerve of the guy, far from waggling his tail like a lil puppy he tells her no and that leads to

The funniest thing in all this she still spins/rationalises it so that he is the vindictive bad guy and she is the victim;

"I can't help but think of the sheer satisfaction he must be getting"

Who knows whether or not he got any satisfaction rejection and so what if he did, I hope he realised the irony and understood what her behaviour? Does anyone doubt she didn't feel any satisfaction when she rejected him multiple times.

[deleted] · 2016-02-21T20:44:24+00:00

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anotherreddituser69 · 2016-02-21T21:40:28+00:00

What's her angle here?

MrPillowTheGreat · 2016-02-22T03:34:29+00:00

you can tell which men itt have actually swallowed and which ones think that red pill is basically "imma tell women what's up! ya imma show this dumb broad, she once rejected someone WHAT A RETARD"

Surgikill117 · 2016-02-22T01:42:33+00:00

Bitch just did this to me. You're absolutely right that he is feeling satisfied, but you also have to know he's never going to take you, ever.

T0000009 · 2016-02-22T00:08:29+00:00

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Title	I'm a female that learned a valuable life lesson today.
Author	xorchids
Upvotes	52
Comments	92
Date	February 21, 2016 8:31 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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