We're told that you should initiate all the time and only accept hard no's. When you get the hard no you don't act butthurt but you remove attention (go and do something else).

This is great unless it's 9:30pm, you both jump into bed, it's a school night and you roll over with the "how bout it moves". You my Beta friend are in a no win situation if you get a hard NO now. If you get rejected you have 2 choices, lie there with a hard on brooding (which she will pick up) or "go and do something else" which she will perceive as a butthurt move unless you are really good at faking the "I just can't sleep now sweetheart routine" - and believe me you aren't.

You are you're own enemy doing this shit, you are painting yourself into a corner you cannot possibly get out of.

As you run the MAP sidebar and lift your woman will become more attracted to you so kino her and show affection constantly during the day, initiate only when you can legitimately go and do something else when/if you get the hard no. Every time you show butthurt at being rejected you take 1 step back for the 2 steps forward you have been working so hard to get, and there is only a small chance you can get out unscathed if you're rejected when you're cornered in the standard bedtime show.

If she initiates at bedtime beauty take it and show her how much you appreciate it but save the sexy eyes and kino for other times. If you truly are retarded and only know how to initiate in bed try first thing in the morning - at least you can say "Ahh well if he's up I'm up" and you can go have a cold shower.

The takeaway - Early in the MAP don't initiate at bedtime, you're only going to hurt your progress...

EDIT: This is advice for guys early on in MRP