My wife is an interrogator. Control freak for sure. And nosey when there’s no reason to be. Over the years I’ve learned to provide comfort. Dread (probably too much) and pass shit test from her.
A lot of the times she will be extra nosey about things that just don’t involve her or things I don’t want to tell her. Just because I feel like she’s asking for no other reason than to keep a tab on everything I’m doing. It usually is nothing too. But I get so sick of the bombardment of questions that I will try to avoid them completely either by Stfu. AA. AM.
when I do this she will say.
“Why can’t you just tell me. Why are you being shady?”
Or tell me I’m so shady. I know this is happened because she’s used to me answering all her questions like a good little boy. And since I stopped she doesn’t like it. I can see this as probably being a good thing and gauging I’m on the right track.
But any good advice to AM my way through this?