So as stupid as this whole situation might sound. I’m trying to figure out how to handle it.

Was at a party today with the wife and all was well I posted a video on Snapchat (I know you’re all going to say why do you have it. Because I do. I have no other social media other than this.) anyway. She noticed a friend had recently snapped me. It was a girl who I know through a friend and sell fitness meal plans to. Nothing going on but she sends me little stupid shit from time to time. Who cares?

My wife. I get why but it’s nothing and I’m not going to be a dick and block this girl who gives me money. Bc my wife is jealous.

So she had said something in the past about her. And I told her who she was.

Well when she saw it again tonight she walked away from me. Was all pissed the rest of the night. I literally just shut up and didn’t bring it up at all knowing she was still mad. I’d try to talk to her and she would give me attitude so I just stayed away.

I drove us home didn’t say anything to each other on the car ride. We get home I lay down and read. She goes in the other room to watch tv and sends me this through text. When she’s literally in yelling distance. Practically talking distance.

“I’m not going to put up with this shit. You wanna Snapchat some girl all the time. That’s fine but not while you’re with me. FUCKING RESPECT me! Jesus Christ how many times Should I be asking you this”

Well she asked once before and I stfu.

So how do I approach this now. She’s going to say “did you read my text?”

My response would be yes.

Her “well?”

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This is the part where I want to deer and be like. This girl is literally chubby and wants our dog and fitness advice. She hangs out with our buddy and sent me a video of him. Would you chill out.

But I know I shouldn’t. So how do I go about this.

And before you say don’t have Snapchat. Don’t have this girl on there.

I run into these scenarios with her a lot and here’s where I always get stuck when it comes to shutting the fuck up.

So I will take all advice but I’m more concerned on how to not escalate this current situation.