So short version my wife and I have been together 3 years married for 8 months. Right before the wedding I caught her texting a dude inappropriate shit. I have no concrete proof that she was fucking but knowing about awalt and rp she likely was my gut tells me. I broke up with her but BP me got back with her and then married her.
6 months later I found RP and I am now questioning everything. I look at her now and where once I saw a unicorn now I just see red flags and work. So much that it would be easier to just start over fresh but marriage and the following makes that tough.
She responds very well to game and dread. The sex is amazing and she cooks and cleans and does things for me. She can be very submissive. It makes it hard to shake the BP disney feel of maybe it just may work out...
My plan so far has been to concentrate on myself and let her decide if she wants to follow or not. I am still going through the different phases of swollowing the pill. Today its depression.
Depression has got me thinking that if this goes bad for me im likely going to waste 5-10 years and get fucked over in the end.
When I am in other moods I think fuck it enjoy the ride until my times up. We have alot of fun together may as well enjoy it while it lasts just make sure to have a solid exit plan.
I guess my question through all of this puke is how do you know when to fix it or when to just say fuck it? Its different when your married...