My best friend growing up called me over the weekend to say that he had just found out his wife had been having an affair for close to three years. He is an absolute mess right now. I certainly know how he feels. He called me because he knew that I had gone through a similar situation. We have known each other since we were eight years old. We were also each other's best man in our weddings. I feel it is a duty as a friend and a man to help him.
I want to clue him in to this sub, but I know that the first rule of the fight club is to not discuss the fight club. I'm thinking that I may suggest a couple of books first.
I think that Rational Male will allow him to understand what has just happened. It did for me. I honestly think that this book should be a required read for any young man graduating high school.
I also think NMMNG is an absolute must for him. My buddy has always been the good guy. He was always good at school, sports and music. He is now a lawyer (after an engineering degree) and makes great money.
How would you guys suggest I introduce him to some RP material? Should I suggest some readings like discussed or should I send him directly to this sub?