As we all know, dick is abundant and low value.

Men get more pleasure from casual sex than we ever would, even with strict boundaries and expectations are conveyed, they rarely give a shit about getting us off if they are a LVM.

When you start leveling up, there are going to be points where you are feeling frisky and want some type of sexual release or body loving. That's totally human and normal! What is not healthy, is allowing those feelings to dickmatize you into entertaining LVM or having them swindle you with sweet nothings and BS words to get into your pants then have you realize the mistake you had made because you are craving that feeling.

Knowledge is power. So I want to encourage ALL OF YOU to spend at least a full month (30 days) of pure self-pleasure on your own accord. No other parties. Just you. Even if you are in a relationship, it's okay to love on yourself! After 30 days consistent of this shit, you will be less inclined typically to entertain LVM because you will start increasing your sex game on your own and really see how worthless most men are once you get that inner confidence with your own body!

If you are "hard to get off" try it a bunch of different ways and get creative! Each day try something new. You will find out more about yourself and your body! It's very empowering. If you are going on a date and are fearful of making a learning moment of allowing a man to try anything beyond a kiss, take some time before your date to work on you (self-pleasure amirite) so you won't touch the forbidden fruit of a LVM. We often want what we can't have as an unconscious self-sabotage attempt when we want instant results and are feeling low, but you deserve to have an amazing dream love with a HVM (or a happy live on your own as a vibrant Queen! whatever makes you fulfilled!) so don't settle for 5 mins of a pump-n-dump situation...that's not you anymore!

Any man who tries to shame you or make you feel bad about caring for your pleasure and enjoying that is complete trash. If they are threatened by a sex toy, they are trash...they should worry less about the equipment and more about why they are so fucking lazy and selfish in bed.

I also want to share some sex toy resources that I found AMAZING. It helped me abstain from sex with LVM once I started committing to FDS fully and I hope it gives you similar success or confidence to keep being selective and never taking shit from LVM/NVM.

I promise that once you get the hang of self-pleasure and leveling up with your past triggers, finding support, and affirming your worth--you will unleash a new realm of sexuality within yourself! I hope you all find that because you all deserve it.

Sex toy recommendations (all can be found on Amazon for cheaper too):

Queens feel free to share tips and recommendations....