Being good in bed: of a woman is a virgin and an alpha RP man typically wants a girl that's good in bed, how can she be a quality woman if she hasn't had sex?

BrodinsOats · 2017-03-02T00:58:11+00:00

All she has to do for me to enjoy the sex is (1) be attractive, and (2) enjoy herself.

I'm the one conducting the show. As long as she's turned on, I'm turned on. That's about all there is to it.

Abadalt · 2017-03-01T23:19:56+00:00

Quality sex is the last thing men look for in a Quality Woman.

As a guy, I literally could not care less if a virgin woman is good in bed for a long term relationship. I actually prefer that she isn't any good because, ideally, that means she hasn't been with many other men. The sex is something we can work on long term.

Your statement is like saying a guy should have had as many previous marriages as possible for practice so that he really knows how to treat his real future wife well when he finally meets her. And that's what women should look for in men.

Kalidane · 2017-03-02T00:11:26+00:00

Everything you do with her is new and 10/10 exciting for her. It's fantastic.

Jaded whores are the complete opposite and that's why they get the ONS.

Docbear64 · 2017-03-01T23:30:45+00:00

You can teach a virgin to be good at sex. In fact who better to create and form a strong sexual bond with ? You can become an expert on your partner sexually .

SexistFlyingPig · 2017-03-02T02:51:56+00:00

The archer needs practice to be good at it.

The target doesn't.

7Fig · 2017-03-02T00:24:58+00:00

I know this community is nuts about getting themselves a virgin, but actually fucking one (as an adult post college world) is a fucking nightmare. However there is a double edge sword. Men become intimidated by a women who is likely their superior sexually which really plays into a woman's SMV.

After a certain age if a women is still a virgin I don't trust her. She is either a habitual liar(not a virgin but tells men she is one) or I feel like she may be damaged in some way... i.e. why hasn't she found someone to have sex with yet.

Now there is a whole section of society that does the wait until marriage thing but that's not for me either.

Men generally want to be the dominant one in the bedroom and the easiest way to achieve that is to have your partner be an inexperienced noob :).

Your question is a good one, and it honestly would have many men shaking in their boots... IMO an alpha man isn't too worried about being out done in the bedroom because he knows how to knock her socks off regardless of her experience.

Juan-San · 2017-03-01T22:08:41+00:00

Having a virgin girl as a LTR or as a plate for a long time would be the best scenario. Being good in bed is a skill, and as any other skill, it can be trained and perfected. Having a girl with no previous experience could and will most likely suck for the first couple times, but if you train teach her how to do what you like, you'll have some of the best sex in your life.

If she has experience, she might be used to doing things that you're not into, or could be plain bad. If all she's ever done is starfish sex, you'll have starfish sex for a long while until she drops the "bad sexual habits" for new, good ones, but it is on you to reward her for her good behavior in bed.

balalasaurus · 2017-03-02T03:33:08+00:00

A quality woman is one who knows the value of her femininity and is good at safe-guarding her currency i.e. sex. She is someone worth giving my currency - my commitment - to. Such a woman doesn't have to be a virgin, but she should be in no means a town bike.

I can train my girls to be whores in the sheets. I can't train them to not be whores in the streets.

Edit - I've also seen this post come up on RPW a few times (since you've said you are one). The answer almost all the time is that you're projecting your own insecurities about sex into your relationships with men. We don't care that you're inexperienced. We look for other qualities in a mate; qualities that drastically diminish when the number of partners you've had increases (and your ability to pair-bond correspondingly decreases).

Luis_McLovin · 2017-03-02T01:10:56+00:00

What do you think it means to be good in bed? Fondle my balls and stick a finger in my ass?

I'd much rather a woman be passive and feminine when we're having sex. That's all it takes.

mksu · Thu Mar 2 2:57:35 2017 UTC

What you said is certainly true for the general population of men. Many will fuck a virgin and not stick around because the sex was bad, they place no value in it. These are the same men who don't care about how many sexual partners their wife had. I am not part of that population so I will tell you how I act.

I categorize girls in 2 groups: girls to fuck and girls to commit to. Since the latter is rare, I assume all women I meet are the former unless they prove me otherwise. If I meet a 'girl to fuck' and she sucks in bed, I will move on fast.

If I met this hypothetical virgin, I would try to have sex with her just like the other girls. It would be up to her to stop me or not. If she told me she were a virgin, I'd value that. It would be an indicator of potential long term relationship material. Notice I said potential, a virgin who is a bitch is still a bitch. I would be willing to wait to have sex if that's what she wanted. And when it happened I would definitely not be concerned if it was good or not.

It's up to you to decide what kind of man you want and screen for them.

11-Eleven-11 · 2017-03-02T03:05:52+00:00

*not going to date a virgin because she has never had sex.

Are you retarded?

mismm · 2017-03-02T11:14:55+00:00

Let me guess, you are in college, you really want to have sex with a hot dude and make him your boyfriend, but you are worried he won't stick around because you will be bad in bed.

You are exactly right! But guess what, he wouldn't have stuck around anyway! He has many potential girls to fuck, why would he stay with you? Welcome to the post feminism world, where blow jobs are plenty and rivers flow with pussy, commitment free!

But don't worry, there's good news, you can hop on that cock caurossel and when you are 30 there will definitely be a dude around that will want to wife you still.

[deleted] · 2017-03-02T06:51:28+00:00

80/20 rule: attitude/sexperience

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