Why Women Are Rejecting “Perfect” Men

Kepaso · 2014-09-20T13:05:53+00:00

It wasn’t supposed to be this way. We men learned how to change diapers and cook risotto. We learned to watch for barely perceptible nods of approval before opening doors for women. We even learned to manscape, for goodness sake. Women were supposed to be happy with the new variety of men

And this is why the Red Pill exists guys. I guess our old motto ''watch what they do not what they say'' would be useful here.

HS-Thompson · 2014-09-20T11:18:19+00:00

That is an excellent article, one of the best jobs I have seen of wrapping up some basic concepts of The Red Pill in a package that is able to be read by a mainstream audience.

franzois_ · 2014-09-20T11:17:07+00:00

Women behaving like women. Nothing new here.

"perfect" men are too predictable and thus boring.

Imperfect men give feels and feels (good and bad) is what bitches dig, you dig?

Problem is, that eventually imperfect men are often (not always) too unstable to build a family with. Same old dilemma for women... yawn Thrill vs security...

Improve yourself sure, but also embrace the imperfections you cannot change, own them, that is where confidence and self-respect are born.

JohannFriedl · 2014-09-20T13:42:13+00:00

"Jen would frequently goad him into arguments in the hopes of rousing a spark of life" - been there, never again.

RedPill115 · 2014-09-20T16:10:21+00:00

when a woman has a man who is a badboy, she wants him to be sensitive to her issues, to her feelings, she wants him to care.

when she has a man who truly, genuinely cares, she leaves him for the badboy.

its this kinda cognitive dissonance why i stopped giving a damn about what women say. they say they want one thing, but they really don't know what they want from others.

all i can say about "what a woman wants," is, she wants the world to bow down to her every whim, she wants men lining up for her, a whole society built around her.

A woman wants to be the only one who's wishes and whims are fulfilled.

she is incapable of empathy.

in short, if you give her an apple, she wants an orange. when she gets the orange, she runs back to her apple.

i say take both the apple and the orange from her and make her cry.

AmazonExplorer · 2014-09-20T11:50:48+00:00

Notice how the articles looks to men to solve the problem, even though it's women who are the cause of divorces. No agency for women.

leodoestheopposite · 2014-09-20T13:53:20+00:00

What a great endorsement of TRP concept by Science.

kanaduhisfruityeh · 2014-09-20T13:08:53+00:00

TL; DR: Women say they want faggy men, but when they get faggy men they get bored and divorce them- LOL.

The funny thing is, after middle aged women get divorced their options in men probably aren't that good, although they may enjoy the benefits of continued financial support for the ex-hubby minus the responsibilities of marriage.

Wish_I_Was_Savvy · 2014-09-20T16:55:36+00:00

Roosh was right western men is nothing but a amusing clown to western women.

Bitch gets 'bored'. No appreciation for anything. What a Joke.

Meatclap · 2014-09-21T03:08:48+00:00

The concept of the constant shit test is tiresome to me from the outset. If some woman wants to be a wasp or spend her nearly every action in pursuit of chinks in his armor she'll find them, it will happen, she's already made up her mind and is just looking for some flimsy justification to hang it from. A man will be weak and reason things out, excuse himself, say he's sorry, but worst than all of those things he will do what he can to stick with her. Male loyalty is more akin to the loyalty of the ordinary dog; his love and companionship are a comfort and not a test.

All I'm saying is that if all a woman has to offer are shit tests and vagina rewards what's the effort really worth? Why hang sanity, family, and financial security on that dagger's edge if all she's looking for is a reason to call him a pussy and dump him for the alpha?

Every time I see something like this, regardless of the angle or where it's directed (for or against supporting the feminist lie and the hypergamy game) the conclusion comes down to how the men have to practically babysit these churlish bitches. Fuck that.

PeteMullersKeyboard · 2014-09-20T18:50:54+00:00

Wow, great read.

Really not surprising per se, but always nice to see someone in a professional field so clearly communicate the issue. Thanks for sharing.

[deleted] · 2014-09-20T19:06:45+00:00

I think husbands and fathers would be wise to read this article and think long and hard about how things are going in there homes.

deadlee_ · 2014-09-20T16:37:14+00:00

another result of the pussification of america

bautron · 2014-09-20T19:42:28+00:00

"Jen would frequently goad him into arguments in the hopes of rousing a spark of life, "

This would be a shit test. In this context, it doesn't seem so bad. Its not the girls fault for shit testing him. It's just that the guy is being a wimp.

It's in women's nature to not respect men that are weaker than themselves. And it's not wrong. Men should be strong. These levels of respect are not inherent. One has to earn them.

Want to be a wimp? Just make sure that the girl you marry is an even wimpier wimp than you.

OFF_THE_DEEP_END · 2014-09-20T22:01:29+00:00

This article sounds like some undercover blue pill shit to me. It's the same catch 22 feminist BS, "be more entertaining or your wife will leave you" That's horse shit. I'm not your dancing bear woman. If you want to leave because you're bored I'll show you the door.

alyons108 · 2014-09-20T15:29:58+00:00

Good article. Age 54. I can relate.

crazydave1979 · 2014-09-20T20:28:17+00:00

everyone tries to blame others, but does it occur to anyone that some people simply just get bored in long term relationships and look for reasons to get out??

[deleted] · 2014-09-20T20:44:46+00:00

"I will walk to the ends of the earth if it brings you happiness. I will adopt new behaviors if it eases your burden and feeds our love. But I cannot relinquish my masculinity or my purpose."

Fuck that

[deleted] · 2014-09-20T21:46:13+00:00

Excellent read. Thank you for posting this. I've been reading alot on this subreddit but this gave many ideas that are more on the constructive side than many other posts.

Red_Shirt_Blue_Pants · 2014-09-20T21:58:42+00:00

They don't leave men bc the men are boring, they leave because they get bored. That is why it is so important to always be changing and bettering yourself, you can't get bored with something that is always on the move.

cooltrip · 2014-09-20T22:08:33+00:00

“The women I have treated who have left their husbands for more ‘masculine’ men believed that their new relationships would be able to both excite and nurture them.”

So the article considers a man is "perfect" if there exists some other different man out there who is more "masculine" than him. That is, the "perfect man" is just a beta.

So the question "why women are rejecting perfect men" translates into "why women are rejecting betas". Stupid question. It's 2014.

Chadbrochill2 · 2014-09-20T22:18:41+00:00

The perfect man is constantly improving himself which is why he's achieved so much in his life. Women are intimidating by that as in most cases they want someone who helps them look better rather than concentrate on self improvement. A perfect man will make anyone look bad. It's the best women that see this man as a way to improve themselves. Unfortunately I feel more often than not, women just want a mate that they can compare themselves with everyday to advance their feeling of self worth.

If you meet a woman who does not take the time to improve herself, she is absolutely not a keeper.

myschadenfreude · 2014-09-21T00:05:32+00:00

Why? Because women are opportunists not loyalists.

Doomsday_ · 2014-09-21T02:49:24+00:00

If you read the article closely the author actually makes a few useful points:

unmoderated accommodation [by the man] eventually damages relationships.

RP truth.

Men should not strive to stay out of trouble. We should strive to be the best men we can be.

RP truth.

Something astonishing happened on a Saturday morning when Jen instructed him to accompany her to a baby shower: he declined. “No thanks,” he said. “I’m going golfing. Give my best to the mother.”

RP example.

Title	Why Women Are Rejecting “Perfect” Men
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