What's next?

SBIII · 2019-04-28T12:04:30+00:00

I made another post but the mod said I needed to post the full story of my life before getting anything approved

You haven't posted your full life story - just a snapshot of it. However, I've been here long enough and seen enough of these stories to be able to fill in most of the blanks and it's not pretty...

I've been RP aware for 5 months but I'd say I was trending the RP direction for the last 5 years.

Practically everyone who comes here first claims something along these lines.. "I'm red pill aware / I have alpha traits / I used to be alpha"... etc. Forget it. You're Beta. If you weren't, you wouldn't be here. Get that into your skull right now... you are Beta to the core.

How do I know that? Well, here's the evidence..

she has two daughters from a crazy ex-husband.

You hooked up with an alpha widow with kids. You vetted poorly.

When we met she had a good job but was poor because single mothers always are. I had a successful business and a decent amount of money.

An alpha widow who was looking for a Beta Bucks who doesn't mind being cucked. You vetted very poorly. Lemme guess... the sex was great at the beginning, so you decided to marry her, didn't you?

After a year or so we moved in together and then 6 months later I bought a house. Six months after that we got married.

Bang! Captain Save A Hoe to the Rescue. You signed over half your assets to an alpha widow who was looking for a Beta Bucks. So what did she do? Did she keep up her side of the bargain?

When I bought the house she quit her job because it was too stressful and she wanted to work on planning the wedding.

Did she fuck. Legal contract signed. Time for her to put the feet up and let Captain Save A Hoe be the plough horse for her and her kid.

Over the years I've heard all of the standard stuff including ILYBINILWY.

After a while, she realised that Beta Bucks wasn't doing it for her. Yes, you were providing for her and your cucks, but what's missing? The lifeblood that females cannot live without - feelz and tingles. So what did she do? What does ILYBINILWY actually mean?

Well, it means there's another man on the scene. Every single time. Women NEVER say this unless they have a branch ready to swing to. Someone who gives her the feelz and tingles she craves. Did she fuck him? Probably. Is she still fucking him? No idea. But she waved the biggest red flag you could get right in your face and what did you do, Mr. Red Pill Aware Man? Did you use your Red Pill awareness to your advantage?

She bitches a lot about stuff and likes to shit test and demean.

Did you fuck. You can't even handle a basic shit test, Billy Beta boy.

The sex used to be great but has slowly dried up. Every now and then we'll go through a hot spell but overall I'm not satisfied with our sex life.

So, as time went on, she became less and less attracted to you. She wasn't really attracted to you in the first place of course, but being red pill aware, you probably knew this. However, she's not stupid. Occasionally, when she's ovulating, she'll get horny enough to let you throw a lazy fuck into her just about often enough to keep her around and keep the money coming in.

Contributing to her low desire is the fact that she gained a lot of weight.

She doesn't have a low libido. She just doesn't want to fuck you because you don't turn her on.

When I met her she was a little chubby but went on a diet and did some exercise and got down to 130 lbs. She looked amazing then.

Yep. When she met you, she was on her best behaviour. She had a job, she took care of herself, she fucked you. She had to - she was an alpha widow with a kid, looking for a Beta Bucks provider. She HAD to be on her best behaviour. And you fell right into the trap. Once you signed the contract, she dropped the pretence and became fat, lazy and stopped fucking you. You accepted that and guess what? She has zero incentive to work, to not be fat or to fuck you.

Just trying to figure out where to go next.

You're married to a fat, lazy woman who has two kids that you are paying for. My guess - and correct me if I'm wrong (but I doubt I am) - you are either fat or fat skinny (either way, you are a weak fucker), you do not lead yourself or "your" family, you are lacking any real goals or mission in your life, you have poor social skills, you don't have any other options in the sex department, and basically - apart from your Beta Bucks provisioning skills - you don't have a whole lot going for you.

I'll also hazard a guess that you have some hidden problems you aren't telling us like porn addiction / gaming and are shit in bed.

So where to go next? There's only one way, dude..

OYS, Lift, STFU and sidebar.

simbarlion · 2019-04-28T07:46:36+00:00

all of the standard stuff including ILYBINILWY.

That's not standard stuff. That's game over stuff.

FereallyRed · 2019-04-28T03:57:57+00:00

You wifed up a wall hitting single mom who needed resources.

Then when she got you the sex and work ethic went away and the fat came back.

I have a really bad sense that she has been using you this entire time. Unfortunately unbelievably common.

The only thing you can do is decide to stop being a beta bucks, look inside yourself and wonder why you got suckered, then turn yourself into the man you want to be. Just like every other man on the planet.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2019-04-28T04:43:02+00:00

Just trying to figure out where to go next.

The fuckin gym with a copy of the national male in your hand.

Quit bitching and start acting, that's page one chapter one around here so put some tape over your fat mouth and get started.

Welcome to the party, your story is cleche around here.

screechhater · 2019-04-28T16:58:28+00:00

Married to a non working land whale.

Fuuuck. Nooooooo.

Give her the house and move on.

No fucking way

HerukaArisen · 2019-04-28T11:35:17+00:00

There is nothing, absolutely nothing in your story we haven't heard hundreds of times before. Yes, your wife has been using you. But she has not been doing this because she is bad or evil. She has done this because she is a woman. It is in her nature. In a way, this is what she needed to do in order to protect herself and her children. And you have let her use you because you thought it would benefit you.

Now you are "Just trying to figure out where to go next." Guess what? Exactly where everyone of us has gone. You are not the least bit special.

So, start lifting, STFU and read the sidebar, several times. Do not expect quick results. Then, start building a frame and get abundance by gaming other women. Ramp up your SMV by every possible way because, let's face it, it's not worth much. And then finally, accept that women are, by definition, not like men and it is not your job to try to change her. Kill your oneitis, start living your life the way you want and see if she is a woman you want to share it with.

Anything unclear?

themerovingian01 · 2019-04-28T14:01:35+00:00

Just a few more details here.

I don't game or watch porn frequently.

I'm 5' 10" and 165 lbs.

I've been lifting for 3 years and have been getting good results. So much so that my wife's cutest friend was like damn...you got muscles. She also joked about wanting to give me a BJ and my wife was seemingly cool about it but promptly befriended her...we haven't seen her since.

In our home life I lead, handle all the finances, and make all the important decisions. I bought a brand new truck and she didnt know about it until I drove it up the driveway.

She likes to be lead and submissive but also likes to buck the trend every now and then.

When we worked together she would sometimes say she doesnt like me being the boss at home and at work.

I'm confident there's no cheating and she's well aware that's a dealbreaker for me. Her shit would be in the front lawn and the locks would be changed.

I need to work on STFU and DARE. Up until recently I would always engage and DEER her shit tests and tantrums. Sometimes it's easy to fall back into that pattern.

I also need to work on not being needy in the sex dept. That's an issue we fight about a lot. I have a high sex drive so its hard sometimes.

What's interesting is she's said things like why dont you get a younger girlfriend to meet your needs? She says that but when other girls give me attention or vice versa she goes batshit crazy. A few months ago we were at a nightclub and this cute blonde was talking to me for awhile. There was laughing and a little flirting. Little did I know wife was across the dancefloor watching and steaming. After the girl left wife promptly walked over and slapped me across the face. We did fuck like mad later that night.

Then there was another issue. I follow a local model on social media and she posted some lingerie pics and I commented something like "super hot." Wife saw this and completely lost her shit. Like I've never seen before. She was screaming and crying and was basically acting like I fucked this chick.

SBIII · 2019-04-28T17:18:44+00:00

Just a few more details here.

Excellent

I don't game or watch porn frequently.

So you DO play video games and watch porn. I knew it.

I'm 5' 10" and 165 lbs.

I've been lifting for 3 years and have been getting good results.

3 years lifting + 165 lbs = very average results. Very telling. Coasting it in the gym means you're coasting it in all areas of your life.

So much so that my wife's cutest friend was like damn...you got muscles. She also joked about wanting to give me a BJ and my wife was seemingly cool about it but promptly befriended her...we haven't seen her since.

She cock blocked you.

In our home life I lead, handle all the finances, and make all the important decisions.

Well seeing as she doesn't work, that's the least I'd expect.

I bought a brand new truck and she didnt know about it until I drove it up the driveway.

Good boy. What did Mammy say when you showed her your new toy?

She likes to be lead and submissive but also likes to buck the trend every now and then.

So you sometimes let her lead while you be submissive. Ouch.

When we worked together she would sometimes say she doesnt like me being the boss at home and at work.

Nobody likes to be bossed around by a Beta.

I'm confident there's no cheating

LMFAO. ILYBINILWY means cheating. It's 101 stuff, mate.

I also need to work on not being needy in the sex dept. That's an issue we fight about a lot. I have a high sex drive so its hard sometimes.

She has a high sex drive too. Probably higher than yours. Just not for you.

What's interesting is she's said things like why dont you get a younger girlfriend to meet your needs?

She wants you to kill the puppy.

She says that but when other girls give me attention or vice versa she goes batshit crazy.

But she doesn't want to see you killing the puppy in front of her.

A few months ago we were at a nightclub and this cute blonde was talking to me for awhile. There was laughing and a little flirting. Little did I know wife was across the dancefloor watching and steaming. After the girl left wife promptly walked over and slapped me across the face. We did fuck like mad later that night.

Proof that dread / pre-selection works.

Then there was another issue. I follow a local model on social media and she posted some lingerie pics and I commented something like "super hot." Wife saw this and completely lost her shit. Like I've never seen before. She was screaming and crying and was basically acting like I fucked this chick.

She wants you to kill the puppy but she doesn't want to see you killing the puppy on social media where other people will see it.

Fuck dude. You have a lot of work to do. You don't understand the basics because you've not even glanced at the sidebar, let alone read it. And you're a long, long way from internalising it.

No one here is going to do the work for you.

Stop being such a lazy cunt. Start reading, start lifting properly, stop DEERing, STFU and stop living your life as if you're floating around aimlessly on a dingy. Build yourself a ship, sail towards a destination.

ReddJive · 2019-04-29T14:34:58+00:00

I've been RP aware for 5 months but I'd say I was trending the RP direction for the last 5 years.

I stopped really paying attention right here. I read your post, but it was all meaningless. I don't really give a fuck about your wife. It's all the same women want to be better, they want to be like him, for him and with him.

Still your statement that I quoted. It's meaningless and it's your lie to yourself. you really don't get it. you hope that if you do X, Y, Z that you will get what you want or that you will hopefully FINALLY get all the pieces together. In your beta brain you are thinking...

gosh darn it, I am doing all these things for a long while now, but she just won't fuck me. I KNOW! I will ask the sub. I have been around a while they can show the iching of it all.

Only there isn't one. It's daily work. It's a grind. It's realizing that you have a purpose in your life and you make that happen every damn day. All I am reading is some schlub that goes about his day with nothing really happening. Where is this going? What is your mission? What passion do you have that wakes you the fuck up at 3am ready to face fuck the day?

All I see is a corporate drone going about his business complaining about a woman that lives with him. replace her, try to fuck her, get a plate or two. Doesn't really matter because there is no fundamental change going on in your life. Play dress up all you want. Nothing note worthy but another dude trying to get his dick wet.

themerovingian01 · 2019-04-28T14:09:01+00:00

She didn't get fat and lazy (causing her low sex desire). You just aren't the husband that makes her want to better herself.

My wife never got fat but she wasn't beach ready. After 9 months of my journey she was rapidly trying to catch up because she had a husband worth keeping up with.... Not a husband to let go with

Title	What's next?
Author	themerovingian01
Upvotes	8
Comments	41
Date	25 April 2019 11:37 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	askMRP
Link	https://theredarchive.com/post/236505
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/bhfitb/whats_next/