why does everyone here try to talk like a drill Sgt?

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July 1, 2019

literally everyone here reminds me of my Phase 1 training.

fuckface fag bitch weak shit gay faggot

why, when someone asks for advice where they have done something wrong or are wondering what they did wrong do they get responses like something out of full metal jacket?


we're all here for the same thing, stop acting like you're better than everyone and help each other.

Some of these replies are just incels trying to be edgy and not actually addressing anything in peoples posts

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Title why does everyone here try to talk like a drill Sgt?
Author BradyBrosef33
Upvotes 354
Comments 121
Date 01 July 2019 08:26 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/244108
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/c7zo5j/why_does_everyone_here_try_to_talk_like_a_drill/
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[–]1TyroneTheDriver261 points262 points  (24 children) | Copy

Thick skin is essential to the red pill, and some men really need tough love. There are better ways to do it then calling someone a cuck with no advice though.

Personally, I dont care if someone calls me a faggot, but I'd appreciate some actual insight afterwards.

[–]BradyBrosef33[S] 69 points70 points  (3 children) | Copy

yeah thats what I mean, I find people care more about rambling shit trying to be offensive and have nothing to actually help your situation

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten60 points61 points  (1 child) | Copy

Most comment posters are fake reds. They put on a costume of masculinity behind the keyboard and type one sentence insults.

They're projecting.

We have the flair system for a reason. Doesn't mean good content is exclusive, but it helps point you in the right direction.

That 1 by the parent comment is an indicator. No wonder he made a quality comment.

[–]Naveos5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Glad to see someone mention this explicitely.

I find sophistication, self-control, and objective calmness (stoicism) to be a lot greater signs of masculinity (like James Bond), than vulgarity and excess use of profanity.

Whenever I see these "drill Sgts", I immediately think of them as either kids or neanderthals.

[–]Helmet_Icicle1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The easy majority of users are all theory, no experience. It's not a bad thing for lurkers to read the basic precepts but too many users get caught up romanticizing the "hard truth" characterization.

[–]boolDozer19 points20 points  (4 children) | Copy

And I mostly see comments that don't offer any advice getting downvoted anyway.

Over sensitivity is part of the BP man's persona which makes me really appreciate the tough love you'll see here. Learning to not take that personally is an integral part of unplugging.


[–]1TyroneTheDriver21 points22 points  (3 children) | Copy

Sir, I very OBVIOUSLY requested the faggot come BEFORE the advice!

[–]redblueninja10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Hey! There's nothing wrong with him signing his comments.

[–]1TyroneTheDriver5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hahahahaha clever

[–]QueenSlapFight15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

You sure are opinionated about when faggots come.

[–]guywhoisambitious5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

Facts bro. My last post everyone calling me a bitch with zero substance added to that. Makes no sense to me.

[–]FuckMichaelMcCoy6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

This is why I try to always offer substance and no insults. Anytime I feel the need to insult I don’t event comment at all, I think it’s prjecting negativity onto others. Just be the commenter u wish u get from others

[–]guywhoisambitious3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Respects bro.

[–]send_it_for_the_boys1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You’re who came to mind when I saw this post.

[–]TheRedPillRipper1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'd appreciate some actual insight

As long as it's constructive I don't care how the criticism comes at me.

In success complacency kills. In failure; lack of critical thinking.

Godspeed and good luck!

[–]FragrantDude1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

There are better ways to do it then calling someone a cuck with no advice though.

Some words of wisdom I once got about this is that there are two parts of good advice.

The first is to tell someone what they're doing wrong, and unfortunately most people stop here.

The second, and arguably more important, part is to tell the person how to do it right, which is in very short supply.

Seriously, pay attention in your every day life and you see this all over the place - people will gladly tell someone what they're doing wrong, but will never tell them how to do it right, mostly because they don't know themselves. They just want to criticize other people.

[–]Monkitail2 points3 points  (6 children) | Copy

hey faggot, ill give you some insight on your mamas kinks.

[–]1TyroneTheDriver5 points6 points  (5 children) | Copy

Go on....

[–]Monkitail-5 points-4 points  (4 children) | Copy

she's a poop chuter!

[–]1TyroneTheDriver-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy


[–]Monkitail-3 points-2 points  (2 children) | Copy

yardie lobo!

[–]1TyroneTheDriver1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy


[–]Monkitail-4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]a7000-a0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Most guys don't appreciate that there is no way but the hard way, and are looking for some soft way that likely doesn't exist (at least for them).

Our culture is soft and feminized, so some guys do go too far the opposite direction, but that's because that's what's usually needed.

[–][deleted] 79 points80 points  (3 children) | Copy

People are always tough on the internet, especially incels who are insecure about everything in their life (probably a good 25-50% of this sub), so they try to belittle others in attempt to feel superior. Just don't mind them, their lives suck and will likely forever suck.

[–]ChefCremeFraiche 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

That’s the problem with this sub: so many are nicels and neckbeards that are always in their heads for most of their day. Hats off to those that are using this sub to internalize truths to make their lives better, but we all know much of this sub is full of keyboard warriors; they speak truths to feel superior without any actual application. And SPEAKING IN ALL CAPS makes them feel more powerful. I hope this helps. Gtg, my mommy is making spaghetti tonight :) and she will be mad if I don’t come upstairs soon.

[–]nicyhasreddit2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

There are sadly some who never change their incel ways. This, is why we have to be so tough. Some males are just stubborn.

[–]XT3M348 points49 points  (5 children) | Copy

People here see the word alpha and automatically see it as trying to be a major dickhead and try too hard to be badass. see the people who give horrible advice or humblebrag in most of these topics.



shit like that isnt red pilled

[–]BradyBrosef33[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

exactly my thoughts

[–]FuckMichaelMcCoy12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

Anytime u ask for advice referring to a single girl it’s always overblown into oneitis. In reality it’s just details to give context for accurate advice

[–]BatsNightmares5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]dimmy6660 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, personally if I'm asking advice about a situation with a girl, it's because she threw me a curve ball which I don't know how to deal with. I'd like to know how to deal with similar situations in the future, hence the advice request.

It's real simple and doesn't have to be all "omg u got major oneitis brah!!!11!"

[–]nicyhasreddit6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

The more I read TRP the more I realise this is actually what old school fathers taught their sons back in those days. The same sort of old school fathers would also have, along with mothers, taught their daughters how to be women. The result, functional society.

Fathers nowadays are inept. That's why you have so much shit going on in this world. Badly brought up boys and girls thinking they rule the world because they graduated high school and are now in college and the workplace.

The beginning of the collapse of a country and society is the failure of parenting. Where the family moral values themselves are corrupted.

In the old days, teachers from primary (elementary) to upper secondary (high) school were much more liberal on the use of punishments such as detention, sending out of the class and lashing with implements such as rattan canes (UK and commonwealth) and paddles (US). The rattan punishment cane cannot be used for walking as it is a specialised lashing tool. Thin, light rattan canes (the ones used in Malaysia and the British Commonwealth) used for lashing people would sting like fire when used to cane boys (and girls), leaving characteristic red welts that lasted for days. Hands, asses, and in rare cases the entire body, will get lashed with one or multiple full force strokes of the rattan cane. In Malaysia the maximum is three strokes, in Singapore six. Pussies would howl in pain from the lashing of the cane even though they did not think of the lashing when they did what they did. Parents will be notified, and they would give a second round of punishment at home.

Nowadays, strict discipline was removed in schools and workplaces because we are so scared of traumatising the women, who otherwise ask for equal education with the men. That, when women with old school fathers (the good variety who were real men) are the ones who become the most successful women even in the old days! Feminists do not realise that the women they idolise, mostly, had old school fathers with methods that the feminists would heavily disagree with, including corporal punishment.

I know lots of young men who do not even touch Reddit, yet you could think they read TRP because their fathers taught them with strict discipline how to be a real man. Their fathers were good examples. There are also incels who read and talk in this subreddit yet are still incels. They are in TRP yet decide to take the black pill.

This goes to show that it is up to a man's will to take the Red Pill and what he does with it. He can decide to not change his incel ways and take the blackpill or be a nice guy, or he can change his ways, or he can give up on women and go his own way. His choice.

[–]throw_this_far_awayy11 points12 points  (5 children) | Copy

Some people respond better to orders instead of good advice. For difficult stuff I must admit I need the drill to get it thru my thick skull. I have to hear it over and over before it clicks and I see the light. Or I get tired and accept that for the time being I'll follow orders.

[–]FuckMichaelMcCoy1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

That’s literally daddy issues, pretty beta man. Work on fixing that and don’t ever tel this to a snatch she will go chapped

[–]throw_this_far_awayy2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

I don't know how to take that advice. Daddy issues? Please explain cause you lost me.

[–]nicyhasreddit1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Daddy issues.

Simple. Your father wasn't a good father and you know that. Now a lot of men are stubborn and need the hammer. A good father would have hammered certain values into you when he knows you are stubborn. Most fathers are too soft.

And now you need us to hammer it into you. Including this shit. It's a shame that instead of building each other up the positive way we need to do some hammering, things your father should have done and things I hope you do to your kids.

All men I know (maybe there are some who don't need this) have certain bad traits that need a hammer to straighten out. Myself included. My father has hammered me many times thoughout my life and although I hated it back then I have learnt it. Its better to be hammered than to learn the hard way. There are certain 'learning by the hard way' occasions where you will never recover from. This is why hammering is essential.

Start thinking about why you need to be hammered and stop being a cunt about it. Being a former pussy is fine if you are willing to change your pussy ways. If you decide to continue being a pussy and defensive about it despite being hammered, that's what's called a cunt.

[–]throw_this_far_awayy0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

OK I get where you are coming from but in this instance it does not apply. Some problems are unique with no clear path. I wish issues were all square peg or round peg and fit into their solutions. Life throws sh!t at people sometimes that require you to bend in ways the mind and body were not meant to conform to.

[–]nicyhasreddit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


And while learning the hard way is essential sometimes, even more so than a hammering from another man, there are times you never recover from it.

Some things carry lifelong consequences.

[–]AntiSharp 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

Agreed. Can only imagine what they’re like irl

[–]QueenSlapFight6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Look up some of the reddit get together group photos. They are both horrifying and enlightening.

[–]nicyhasreddit0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

All the men I have seen have some trait where the hammer might be useful. You and I included.

These men know how to trash each other ironically and unironically.

Learn to insult and get insulted. That's how men talk. Stop being a pussy, or worse, a cunt. Of course, don't be a dick either and go around talking shit without reason, because talk shit, spit blood.

[–]Benny7578 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

As Sonny Barger says, everybody thinks they’re a tough guy until they meet one. Lots of tough guys. All come seeking advice here on the internet. And all happy to shout you shit. Bottom line. Other than hard work and habitual dedication, hard knocks teaches a guy best. You have to go through some real hell in life to gain true perspective. Life for most is not easy street. So at the end of the day, the only person that really has your back is you. Choose how you are going to live...

And go read the side bar, bich! ;). No really, you know what to do. You knew when you asked the question.

[–]1RedPillFusion3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

This is most likely coming from guys that have absorbed juuuust enough content to feel the need to elevate further by speaking from some perceived authority. You don't hear the higher quality posters using ad hominem against those posting seeking help. Let it roll off and pay attention to those that provide substantive feedback.

[–]BatsNightmares0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Let alone a few of the older guys here do that. Just because someone might have a stigmatized post history they won't even offer advice but scold them or make fun. Sometimes it's hilarious, but makes people not to want to visit this sub anymore.

[–]nicyhasreddit1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's what sergeants do basically.

Or the rest of the internet.

Let's just say, getting shit on by men here at least the men say it out. Women won't even tell you what's going on.

[–]nicyhasreddit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

One has to remember sergeants are actually E-5 in the military.

A sergeant, like a private, never goes above a certain rank, usually E-8 or E-9. Any military can tell you that if you join enlisted you stay enlisted. Sergeants and above are NCOs in enlisted.

Officers on the other hand graduate college, and while an O-1 is higher ranked than an E-9 in theory, it takes an O-3 and above to hold any real authority over enlisted. An E-7 to E-9 has more military experience than an O-1 and the O-1 learns well in order to become the true, superior O-3 and above.

Same thing with the 'officers' here vs the 'enlisted'. But being enlisted doesn't mean you don't have knowledge; ask the E-8.

[–]therealbigoso4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’m one to mostly take advice, not to give it. But the way it strikes me is that AskTRP is about an amoral, logical strategy for attracting women. It’s like reading the how-to manual. Use the part of your brain that thinks to digest this info, not the part of your brain that feels. If you use the feeling brain to read all of this, it will immediately reject the important information being conveyed by the authors on Reddit. Instead, take it in with your thinking brain, then train your feeling brain with real life experiences using the facts learned by your thinking brain.

[–]ogkushinjapan4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

90% of reddit are white knights. So there’ll inevitably be shy insecure men posing as hardcore alphas here.

[–]Thizzlebot3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Most people here are autistic as fuck but more importantly they aren't red pill they are just role players.

[–]freekshow8843 points44 points  (2 children) | Copy

Why do drills scream at new recruits fresh off the block? If you think about it, you’ll see a lot of parallels between new recruits and new guys coming here.

Edit: Oh ya, forgot.


[–]AdeHMar25 points26 points  (1 child) | Copy

They try to feel edgy and above everyone else.

[–]BradyBrosef33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Chadster11337 points38 points  (6 children) | Copy

Yea we should really be more compassionate and caring and sensitive here

goochie goochie goo

[–]1TyroneTheDriver32 points33 points  (3 children) | Copy

Fuck you.

[–]BradyBrosef33[S] 10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

fucking maggot

[–]Chadster11310 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol but seriously some people won’t respond to to rationale. Especially the guy with the oneitis. Some of the theory reading is without the harshness. Which is good

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Little bit of two things: delivering the hard truth in plain terms (good thing) and trying to be a little faux macho (bad thing). I think the latter is typical of people who are recently discovering TRP.

[–]0io-2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I kind of agree with you. While it's true that we get a lot of whiny faggots, I see quite a few guys coming in and asking reasonable questions who get (in my opinion) a harsher welcome than what's called for. It's almost a "haze the new guy" culture here, but that's how it is.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's the same in real life though, most people are just cunts, simple.

[–]seducter2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Cue /u/gaylubeoil personally attacked

[–]HastaPronto902 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good post!

They think it's "alpha" to act like this online. Would like to see how some guys here look and act irl.

[–]BradyBrosef33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

i know I also imagine that the majority of guys that tell you to "go lift" have 16" arms or less, weak chest and shoulders with sub 120kg bench, sub 100kg ohp, sub 250kg deadlift and a non existent squat.

but hey! than sure can cheat curl those 7kg dbs

[–]revaforce3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Stop being a bitch about it you gay maggot sucking soy-boy cock sucker “” yea just eat less soy and you’ll be fine...

[–]BurnoutRS5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

"we're all here for the same thing"

Which means the majority of you are here unnecessarily. On any given day the same question is asked in a slightly different form by a slightly different manifestation of the same overarching cultural/societal problem. Its very hard to address anyone as a real individual when doing so through a virtualized aggregate that clearly outlines how the collective voices of the beta male population can essentially be treated as one, giant, lumbering beta male who needs to be shown his way out of the masturbation cave.

"wah, some of these replies are just incels trying to be edgy and not actually posting anything of substance"

which equates to

"wah I spend too much time engaged in reading posts on a self help reddit and the posts arent helping me help myself"

which equates to "wah! community do the hard work for me! spoon feed me the info that will make me alpha!"

[–]BradyBrosef33[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

its more like Wah, I cant read much of anything on here because the responses arent very insightful or thought provoking

[–]BurnoutRS0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Then perhaps one ought to... be the change they wish to see?

Stop relying on other people to generate your deep thinks for you. have some of your own. come back here and post them. Seriously I challenge you.

[–]diceblue1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you for saying this. I was just saying to myself that the poser keyboard tough guys here all use the forum to role play drill Sargeant fantasies.

[–]KonradCurze1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You better start asking questions in the front-leaning rest, private!

[–]360_no_scope_upvote1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Blue pill the post. Does your mommy hold your hand? D'aw

[–]magx011 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

most of trp is just a larp.

[–]communistcontrolact1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Some people here are straight up trolls.

Mods neeed to make use of the ban hammer

[–]YallmindifIhitthat1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Absolutely agree. People come to better them selves and some guys who are most likely losers in real life make them selves feel better by aggressively belittleing people on an advice subreddit without offering any insight. Needed to be addressed. Good job.

[–]salieri1451 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Probably because a large proportion of people came here after being super "beta". And they're still unsecure children so take it out on others to make themselves feel better.

[–]TFWnoLTR1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Late to the party, but I think what you're seeing is guys who read the sidebar and have a few brain cells to rub together so they consider themselves experts and regurgitate seemingly obvious sidebar info while making themselves feel superior by being a dick about it.

Some of these guys are probably insecure about their own failures and come here to bury the pain in this way. Others are probably just plain assholes.

A few are probably genuinely trying to help motivate OP by using strong language to emphasize the weaknesses they need to address. In some situations this is useful. Like if OP is clearly ignoring red flags with his oneitis and using redpill language to frame his issue as though he doesn't have oneitis and the red flag is just a minor misunderstanding he can fix if someone would tell him how to manipulate her more effectively and gets upset when people tell him things he doesn't want to hear.

That's my 2 cents.

[–]Matthias_Foley352 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Try applying General Patton’s philosophy: swear tactfully. He did when talking to the troops. That’s how he got his messages and directives to fucking stick.

[–]boy_named_su1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm one of those guys that talks like that. My answers are usually highly upvoted though

  1. you see a lot of the same questions on here, so you try to be curt
  2. you see a lot of questions on here from people that have obviously never read the sidebar, so they deserve some derision for their laziness
  3. millenials, men without fathers, blue pill simps have been coddled for most of their lives and need real talk to wake them up
  4. i'll call you a faggot, but also offer you good advice and am willing to answer questions and help you out

[–]redpilllogin4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're either posting dumb questions, things that have already been answered and people don't want to bother with, or things that would be obvious if you read the sidebar.

I have not encountered that treatment here yet. Sure not everyone is going to cuddle you and hold your hand but I haven't encountered anyone being purposely hostile in the way you describe.

... You fucking pussy.

[–]gpravda1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Jesus christ, are you serious? The answer for this question is so obvious that you should get checked for downs syndrome or some actual intellectual disability.

[–]nicyhasreddit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Autism. which, a lot of people have here. and can overcome.

[–]TheStumblingWolf1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

See it as a form of hazing. It teaches you to separate content/value from rhetoric. And if it doesn't maybe you're not ready yet. That said, I've never spoken like that and I think only a few people, like gaylubeoil, can pull it off without coming off as a complete try-hard. I didn't like the way he talked at first but now I think it's kind of funny. The value he provides speaks for itself.

[–]dukes19985 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

Gaylubeoil is the definition of try hard

[–]Ivabighairy1-3 points-2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Easy keyboard jockey, get out of your momma’s basement and get some sun. Most people on this sub know of gaylubeoil. NO ONE knows you. His stuff is read for knowledge. Yours, apparently, is read for comedic value.

[–]dukes19982 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Imagine sucking an online persona this hard.

His stuff is read because it strikes a chord with the angry incels and catches attention with hyperbole. There’s no knowledge you can’t read more eloquently from other users even just on this sub.

But your whole “get out of your mommas basement” comment just proves my point lmao

[–]Ivabighairy1-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I guess middle school is out for the summer. Does your mommy know your on the computer and not watching Sesame Street?

[–]ZenOfFool1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

At a point your understanding of game and trp you will just "get it". And most of us that completely understand it. We had to go through the sloughs of hell and make it out alive. Those of use who "get it" do not feel sympathy for those who don't. We earned our strips, so should all the newfags. So when you soyboys posts something whiney or why a girl won't do something. That means you haven't experienced or learned enough to have the mental fortitude to "get it". Nobody is going to hold your hand on this journey. The trp is real as it gets. Somethings can't be taught or told, they have to be learned through hard earned experience.

[–]nicyhasreddit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Either your father will do it or some other men will do it. But it will be done.

[–]FinancialThanks11 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

cos it feels good to act superior

[–]Eminencemiddle1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Tough love. So much panty waist shit. They are told proper information, yet, they cling to and boast of their actions, and fagginess. They need to see the infection, or they will not seek to cure it.

[–]wheresMYsteakAt2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sidebar until men speaking doesn't offend you. Then speak.

[–]MarvelousWhale0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'll give you the answer, a question I asked myself a few years back when this community went from a secret sub few knew about that had gold in nearly every post, to a overpopulated clusterfuck of reposts and ignorance it is today.

Some posts get replied to by senior contributors who start off with hard hitting name calling followed by sound advice, both parts necessary to thicken your skin and advice necessary to correct your actions in the future.

It's followed by fuckwits who get half chubs by pretending they know what they're talking about by emulating the senior contributors by again, starting with the name calling hard hitting come backs, but fail when they can't follow it up with the sound advice and reasoning skills that come only from true experience, analytical thinking and intellect.

When you make a post/question and it gets 100 comments, 80% are immediately worthless and you'll have to sift thru to find the gold nuggets much like anything else in life. Not everyone on this sub has a clue what they're talking about, including myself half the time.

Given time, you'll develop thicker skin and become aware that all the "lol read the sidebar faggot" posts that don't include any helpful material or direction are actually just faggots themselves who prefer to comment on a sub to neg newbies looking for answers to questions the commenter doesn't have the answer to begin with because they get more enjoyment out of negging others than going out, gaming women and developing their livelihood. They may have not even read the sidebar themselves.

Ignore these worthless cumstained t-shirt wearing basement dwellers. Learn how to identify gold and tune out the background noise.

Edited to remove my own pube fluffing

[–]StoneHurk0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Because it's funny

[–]FuckMichaelMcCoy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Powertripping, they feel alpha online. They also regurgitate and copy other posters who do the same thing because it gets heavily upvoted and sooner or later everyone does it

[–]E9er0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

you started whining... and now you’re gonna get banned... these mighty alphas mega kings... love saying sidebar or getting butthurt

[–]mikayla_rivera0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol there is a shit ton of incels on here, women are really not that difficult guys. You just need to stop telling yourself that you don’t care about anyone and that all that matters is sex.

Sex is better when you earn it by being romantic and kind. Go to meet ups or events and talk to girls, don’t try to fuck them, just talk to them and get to know them better. Ask them a lot of questions and be interested in their responses, you also want to make sure that you remember what they say.

Later, when you see them again (because you got their number or you just are going to) bring up the things you talked about before. Make girls feel special, like they are the only one you are focused on. Girls like respect. Tease them and make jokes, you also want to at some point say something that is vulnerable. Mention something to them that you don’t usually tell anyone, this will make them feel like you trust them and that you guys are getting closer.

Plan interesting dates where you go to multiple things, don’t just pick dinner and a movie or drinks at the bar. Take them to dinner, then go for a walk, then look at shops together or go do a fun activity. Lol that wasn’t really a perfect date idea, but you get the picture. Girls that are worth dating, you will have to work for a bit more. Plan your approach with women and don’t have expectations when you meet someone you like, I have found that being friends first is the best way. Don’t know what to tell you if you get friend zoned though, I’ve never had that problem.

[–]throwaway199913120 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

See a lot of people here aren't really redpilled. They are "beta" and saw how the "alpha" in their life bullied them and assume that being a dick is necessary to being "alpha".

At the same time its necessary sometimes with some people being so stubborn that you need to give tough love to them to get through (and even that doesn't usually work because to admit they are wrong makes them feel "beta").

A good example of tough love being met with over whelming stubbornness was this literal nobody who lost all his money on Bitcoin and still assumed he was a genius. Reading his pretentious replays to everyone giving genuine advice was fascinating. r /iamverysmart material.

[–]nicyhasreddit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Obviously being an alpha man doesn't mean you call yourself God. Alpha men know the hierarchy and know who to be a beta to and who to be an alpha to.

People who do not know what a hierarchy is, are betas.

[–]travlingsomewhere0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’ve noticed it too. Lots of young people here that think talking tough or being a dickhead to someone is “alpha” behavior.

They use the excuse “though love”... lol no you’re just being a asshole.

[–]fuckrbrasilmods0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Ppl here talk like men: no nonsense, directly, a bit harshly to drive the point home. You should ask yourself why it bothers you, and here's a tip: society has descended into an inoffensive, ball-less mediocrity desert of ideas. Tough lessons are much more valuable than participation trophies.

[–]nicyhasreddit1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's why failure teaches better than growth. Sadly society punishes failure and rewards participation.

The biggest true failure is not failing. Of course, the second biggest failure is making the same mistake.

[–]guywhoisambitious0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Another thing is that this sub is bipolar as fuck. One day everyone telling me I'm a bitch. The next day everyone telling me I took shit too far, when I literally followed the advice of 90 percent of the commenters. Both posts got hella hate comments and dislikes.

[–]mitchopatamus0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I always assume the ones that talk like that are in the early stages of the red pill. I remember for myself in the beginning I realized I was a people pleasing beta bitch, and so I did a complete 180. I feel like it’s almost a knee jerk reaction to overcorrect before you settle on being comfortable just being yourself

[–]felix044900 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Some people have inflated egos and feel like they need to prove something.

[–]Redditgoodaccount0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's the way of men and it's used in the military because it's effective with men.

Hitting the P (pride) spot can be very beneficial for a man.

So to me yes it's acceptable to go sgt drill when it's appropriate and also provide consistent advice.

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[–]Ivabighairy1-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hep, 2, 3, 4!

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[–]Ohboohoolittlegirl-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is Asktrp. Not everyone is here for the same thing.

[–]nicyhasreddit-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Real men know how to take insults in stride.

If its warranted, you suck it up and think about what you did for someone to describe you as such. A pussy or basically anything demeaning your masculinity means coward. You were cowardly when you should have stood up like a man. You demeaned your own masculinity and people see you as such. Same with all the other insults.

If its not warranted, you can make him spit blood. Talk shit spit blood.

But a lot of times, insults are warranted. Take the shit like a man and learn.

[–]1redhawkes-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

Because you talk like a bitch and have fragile ego.

Someone called you a 'needy bitch' in your last post, here you are bitching about it with a new shit post.

Tough love motherfucker. Noone is going to coddle your balls here. If you prefer feelz over reelz, head over to relationshits.

[–]BradyBrosef33[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I don't have a fragile ego, I'm sure I made this post before I even got that comment?

Maybe I do talk like a bitch? I mean I'm not gonna make a post trying to sound 'alpha' by swearing at everyone and trying to be offensive on purpose. Everyone that does this reminds me of GG Allin, trying to be edgy for the sake of it

[–]1redhawkes-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your post history says otherwise, that triggered you to post this.

Your post is definition of shitposting, let alone that it breaks the rules outside personal advice/theory clarification.

[–]mickey__-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

You should come up and check trp discord server, it's like everyone is keeping sidebar open and read it while having a simple discussion

[–]BradyBrosef33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

really? None of this "im better than you but I'm just gonna say that and nothing else" kinda talk?

[–]T-P-T-W-P-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

When I occasionally comment here I don’t do that because I tend to expect that if you post here you have a semblance of manhood/resolve/wherewithal/ etc. This is a forum of discussion. If you are someone who needs to be pushed super hard like that by strangers over the internet, you’re probably going to lose at whatever you’re doing anyway so why bother. It’s also rude.

[–]slip_like_space-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Redpill sidebar does not judge.

[–]TheRealMewt-5 points-4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Funny, I don't recall Sgt Hartman talking to his troops like some spergling faggot fresh out of /pol/ and I certainly don't see earnest advice here sounding like one either. But we can generally see who reads the sidebar and who doesn't gauged by reactions like "why does everyone here try to talk like a drill sgt" and other gay shit like that, so if you want actual advice maybe not try to generalize an entire community. Maybe read the sidebar. Maybe even lurk a little bit and see if someone else asked "how do I get my high school crush to notice me like the sand pie she is" before attributing to the noise.

Advice here is a public service. You get what you get. Nod and say "thank you sir, may I have another" and people might not think twice about helping you out down the road.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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