Don't talk about fight club

murroc · 2019-07-24T03:47:58+00:00

Why the FUCK would your buddy talk to your wife? What the fuck is going on there?

bowhunter857 · 2019-07-24T03:46:50+00:00

Jesus definitely next that “friend”

BobbyPeru · 2019-07-24T06:58:36+00:00

Well, you learned don’t talk about fight club. I’ve had similar shit happen in my early RP days, but it was with men who had a vested interest in my wife (her brother, son... etc). I question why the fuck your friend would do this. I’d next him for sure.

I mean, cool, if you don’t like TRP, but for him to sabotage your relationship with your wife? That’s total fucking BS

The_Litz · 2019-07-24T03:50:54+00:00

I'm voting for option A.

Go sleep in a hotel if she did lock the house without engaging her any further tonight. Alcohol and all you know.

Start a separate subreddit for men with spicy latina wifes....

simbarlion · 2019-07-24T04:33:21+00:00

It's only Tuesday

Nice play....

My guess is that he provided context to a long period of her feeling 'unsettled' with the new you.

It all points to the same thing (again). Chill out. Play the long game. Work on yourself. Dial the fireworks show down to a campfire she can get comfortable around.

SBIII · 2019-07-24T14:22:43+00:00

Just when you think someone is making progress.

Well, at least you're living up to your Flair tag.

IncitingDramah · 2019-07-24T03:45:06+00:00

Theres a reason you dont talk about this stuff...

Anyways, my approach would be maintain coarse. Keep working and building yourself. As far as wife goes, I'd take it as a shit test that shes ensuring that this isn't a facade.

Finally I say "bummer.

I personally would have fogged here, bold strategy. Let's see how it plays out.

However....

Long story short, back in Jan I told my good friend about RP. I thought he would love it. He did not. Got pissed at me and told my wife I was going to manipulate her and all kinds of things.

This is why you let BP guys COME TO YOU.

Also, You're playing some seriously stupid shit here.

Plan D is a woman not my wife. I'm at a bar right now and gonna smoke weed with the bartenders.

Yeah... dont be a stupid faggot. IF she is serious and catches wind of any of this, you're ass is grass in court. I'd avoid doing either of those since YOU CANT KEEP YOUR FUCKING MOUTH SHUT.

FoxShitNasty83 · 2019-07-24T07:23:28+00:00

Sleep in a hotel if you can't get back into your house.

Someone once told me "bitches be bitches" that was you.

Where did your feelz come from all of a sudden? You on your period? I liked angry daddy better

umizumiz · 2019-07-24T12:16:45+00:00

Hey Daddy, can you clear something up for me? I've been reading you mention these "check ins" and I haven't been able to clearly visualize what exactly this is, how it is implemented, and what benefits you've received from it. I'm curious to know if this is just something you and the wife have talked about, like a 15 minute "breakdown" of the day or what.

umizumiz · 2019-07-24T13:31:42+00:00

Just read your edit.

"we can have a check in"

Fucking love it, hahahaha

The funny thing is it's fucking obvious... she loves the damn "check in".

ReddJive · 2019-07-24T18:30:46+00:00

What the fuck? You were making some serious progress then?

Here’s the thing. I know most of you unplugging guys think you want a RP women, or RP “aware” women. But do you know what that means?

It means they just confirm what you know. It’s not like you are going to get access to the kingdom. AWALT is AWALT. RP aware or not.

Your post reads like you have some frame going on. Maybe, in tiny pieces. First up.....WTF about the kids? Look some of you are all gangsta about wimmen in their place. Alphas dont the wimmens job. Here’s a news flash for you geniuses.

I am a second gen American. My grand parents were right off the boat....NEVER became US citizens. Back then it wasn’t a big deal. So much so my grandfather was the county Sheriff. Believe it. So any way he as a sheep farmer in the old world. He taught his sons, who also taught that a man needs to know 3 things.

How to do laundry
How to cook
How to sew.

Why? Poppa said it was because when you are out in the fields, possibly for days, no one was going to take care of you. You had take care of yourself. Add this to Frame and Dread? You don’t need her. At all. You are a man you can do it all. Cut her out of things if she isn’t and doesn’t want to do it. Because as a man the only thing you NEED a woman for is to drain your balls.

Now the game for her is to prove her worth by taking these things away from you. This is where you lead her. Show her where can add value.

What Daddy Thunderfuck is doing is in a contest of Frame with her. Who is right and who is wrong. She loves a strong man When he acts like one she responds. She’s desperate for it she falls for a weak act.

See past her temper tantrums.

HER: I am not up for this ALpha male thing. I don’t’ agree (I see her hands on hips, tapping her cute little foot)

ME: Baby girl, I love you and I love tacos. Some days I love you more than tacos. Now put your hair back the way I like before I replace you with tacos.

————-

HER: Can we can talk tonight?

ME: Honey, yes is for women. So when I get home you will not be wearing panties.

——————-

So while OP won in the end he did it because his girl is hot tempered and wants a strong man. Like I said I think she’s even willing to be with one that pretends to be. There is something to be said about stirring up a brat, but OP is not in his frame. He is way too worried about her and what she thinks.

useful_stranger · 2019-07-24T09:38:19+00:00

Option A - act like nothing happened. It’s a tempest in a teapot until she actually does something. Don’t be the one doing / reacting to shit she says - just watch if her actions match her stormy language . If you act first you fail the shit test.

andyturbo2000 · 2019-07-24T13:02:46+00:00

Hey OP, keep us updated on this will ya? I kinda agree with the comment on saying nothing and watching the whole thing blow over. Although it seems like a main event, I think after a night’s kip she’ll be crawling back like a naughty little girl absolutely dreading the punishment to come. Who the duck barricades you out of your own house? That’s pretty big escalation. If you go back, full of smiles and with a “baby finished umber tantrum”, she won’t know where to turn. Her hamster will be spinning like a motherfucker and it won’t be too long until her hamster gets the best of her and she wants to know where you were, what you where doing. Of course, goes without saying STFU. Then, sir, you may have the start of your main event or she’ll start to understand that beta bucks is disappearing and she better fall in otherwise she’ll be off the team.

-Acta-Non-Verba- · 2019-07-24T15:47:46+00:00

Your wife thinks you might cheat. From what you said, she's right. It's not a good recepie to keep a happy, functioning marriage. I'm all for some dread (she realizes you are an appealing option to other women and realized she need to work at keeping you), but in your case, you seem to view cheating casually. That destroys her confidence in you and your marriage.

SuperCrazy07 · 2019-07-24T20:02:04+00:00

Do you not have keys to your own house? I find it confusing how you were locked out of your home.

That friend thing is really weird. Even if I didn’t agree with TRP, I wouldn’t go telling my friend’s wife about it.

Short of someone planning on murder (or something similarly awful), I would not intervene on behalf of a friend’s wife. I don’t get it.

ObjectionTrue · 2019-07-24T20:14:34+00:00

Don't talk about fight club story: 8 or 9 months ago I shared a lot of RP materials with 2 friends who were in a Bible study with me; one hadn't had sex in 9 years with his wife (call him "Niner"), the other (call him "Doc") was on IV drip and very frustrated. I printed 100+ pages and put it in a notebook for them. I told them, 2 rules: 1. Don't talk about fight club, especially to your wife, and 2. if you share this with anybody do not tell them it came from me. They both agreed. Well, Niner took it to heart and has been lifting ever since (but being married over 30 years he has a long way to go on Dread levels and still no sex); "Doc" never really took to it, said his wife is NAWALT and RP doesn't work (I told him BS, AWALT and he can't say it doesn't work when he hasn't tried). Niner and his wife started counseling with the pastor at my church. A few weeks ago I get a text thath the Pastor wanted to meet with me, I asked him what about and he tells me its about the RP stuff I shared with Niner. Seems Niner's wife found the materials and shared it with Pastor. Well, funny thing is this: of course the materials, mostly articles from AskMRP & Marriedredpill, had all kinds of profanity (and I told the guys before I gave it to them about the profanity, would that bother them, would they have a surgeon save their child's life if he used profanity, etc., and they all were fine). So it was first the profanity that got to Niner's wife and Pastor; Pastor was concerned that I, a leader in the Church, was giving this out. He was also offended by the whole dread concept ("I don't think it's Christ-like to be making your wife feel insecure"). Long story short, we had a long discussion over dinner where I was able to explain in detail the various RP concepts (he and I had previously discussed hypergamy). At the end, he said "Well, the way you explain it I PRETTY MUCH AGREE WITH EVERYTHING YOU SAID." Later I sent him jacktenof hearts "What we Talk About when We Talk About Dread".

Well here's the point: I talk about fight club with a friend, get assurance that they won't mention my name--and he does!! Sure will make me reticent about ever doing that again. But the good thing is I think the Pastor is converted. (BTW, "stupid" Niner, who is a Nuclear engineer, left the notebook sitting out on his desk at home; at least Doc refused to take the book out of fear his wife would find it). Men, be very careful about letting other people, especially you SO find your RP stuff--they're in the Matrix and cannot understand).

Follow-up. Just had lunch with the Pastor and he is 100% in on the Red Pill!

SorcererKing · 2019-07-24T22:34:08+00:00

He did not. Got pissed at me and told my wife I was going to manipulate her and all kinds of things.

I hope this guy is now an ex-good friend. What a fucking dick.

Edit: Correction, what a white-knight bitch.

arm_candy · 2019-07-25T03:46:03+00:00

Shout outs to modafinil. 5 hours of sleep and I feel like a fucking champ ready to destroy the day.

Off-topic, but where do you get your modafinil? I seem to recall you referencing some site but now can’t find that comment.

Cmvplease2 · 2019-07-24T03:51:28+00:00

It's 4 o'clock and you leave work a bit early for a quick game of golf with two old college buddies. You say good bye to a few of your employees while thinking it's nice to have such good and trustworthy people help you manage your business. Before you make it out the door one of your employees let's you know there's a client on the phone and they're pissed. You over hear someone say they messed up the order and shipped the wrong size windows. You think to yourself, "they can handle this". You go and enjoy your game. When you get home you see a chain of emails. The client has escalated the issue and is threatening to not renew the contract.

You reply all "bummer, that's really unfortunate to hear." Needless to say that doesn't go over well...

You're not owning your shit. Those kids are your responsibility. If the FO can't handle it then the captain needs to step up.

She deserves an apology. You fucked up and lost your frame. She knows she's right about this and she won't let you get away with it. Make it right and avoid this in the future. Letting the ship sink is not alpha.

Edit: I re-read the post. "I get home and she's mad" confused me. He may have meant "she got home and was mad". In the first paragraph he was owning his shit with the kids. I thought he was saying he got home and the wife had been taking care of the kids. And then he left. Big difference.

If he was taking care of the kids and wanted her to take over while he went to the gym then she's being a bitch and she should apologize to him.

Title	Don't talk about fight club
Author	Daddy_ThunderCock
Upvotes	22
Comments	66
Date	24 July 2019 03:05 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	askMRP
Link	https://theredarchive.com/post/246413
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/ch2kce/dont_talk_about_fight_club/