RPW reaching out to non-RP women

girlwithabike · 2019-09-12T11:36:32+00:00

It used to be that TRP took the stance "you don't talk about fight club". People don't listen until they are ready. That is true with advice in general, I'm sure most of us have listened to friends complain about their lives and then watched them ignore all the advice people gave them.

Unless you are speaking to a wide audience (like a YouTube channel), it seems to me this would be a lot of work for little payoff.

[deleted] · 2019-09-12T13:23:06+00:00

I tend to deliver RPW truths to people online and in real life when people have problems they can't figure out how they are contributing to...I am tactful and don't use the lingo used here. But, I will convey the same message. And, I have been able to see people become more empowered and content with their life paths when understanding. Strip away the controversial movement title and specific terms, and a lot of it is just good, sensible advice for a functional relationship.

my_chopin_liszt · 2019-09-12T13:26:00+00:00

I’ve seen some YouTube channels that provide RPW advice to women. I think it’s good that there’s women out there trying to help other women think more traditionally.

Now, here’s the issue, I’ve watched at least couple of TRP channels that warns men of RPW strategies and question our motives and intentions that it’s a bait-and-switch trap!

I’m in a really happy marriage and I’ve applied a lot of RPW into my marriage and it works, my husband and I are both happy... what (bad) intentions do I have? It’s a win-win for all. I don’t know, my goal is to teach my daughter to be RPW, whether she’s taken seriously or not, well I’m not sure in another 20 years.

diotimasimha · 2019-09-12T08:24:42+00:00

Unfortunately not the extand we should have. I love Mrs Midwest in this matter. Because she tries to redpill as many dear women as possible.

Personally, I try to rp my female friends, too. Because Im interested in a society with many happy marriages and happy children.

AndJellyfish · 2019-09-12T20:32:15+00:00

I think really you will only truly embrace a mindset, whether it's RPW, a religion, or any other lifestyle choice when you come to it yourself.

Think about your life- have you ever been convinced by a stranger to make a major overhaul to your life? (I don't know about you but I certainly haven't). It usually seems preachy, uncomfortable, and puts you off whatever they're trying to sway you towards. Perhaps with family and close friends it's a different matter.

The best way to make someone want to "join your side" is to openly showcase the benefits of your lifestyle, bonus points if it's something universally appealing (I first found RPW through a tutorial on how to get shinier hair!), and without coming on too strong towards people just getting their first impressions.

That's from my experience anyway.

jellyear · 2019-09-13T19:30:57+00:00

Not a redpill woman, just a heavy lurker. I'll share my thoughts however as I feel that they fit with the spirit of this conversation.

I love RPW for the focus on self development, traditional values, submissiveness etc. However, there are two elements I personally do not vibe with. I find there's an element of red pill theory that's basically "women have been treated as little snowflakes for so long, so let's turn the tables and treat men the same". Another element I dislike is that the men on red pill subreddits are absolutely NOT the sort of men that I think any women should be aiming for i.e. bitter and desperate.

There's also an assumption that RPW and feminism are incompatible. Maybe they are but I don't see it that way. Feminism gave us voting rights, abortion access, politicised women's solidarity. Where I live it was feminists taking action that got the police to give a fuck about a prominent serial killer of women. Yes a lot of feminism is about the daily trials and tribulations of white middle class women who don't think they need to improve themselves, but that doesn't mean that there aren't feminists out there with good values. Just a classic squeaky wheel with the oil situation.

TheBunk_TB · 2019-09-12T17:57:23+00:00

Many modern women are not warm to the idea of helping other women, even women that are near their "circle". It is hard to break through the competitive angle.

Zegiknie · 2019-09-14T08:08:01+00:00

I once lost a good friend because I informed her of her boyfriends cheating.

Lesson learned... People don't take kindly to info they weren't looking for.

I've been conscious about setting an example when other women seemed curious, but I'll never give unasked for advice (IRL).

melitele3 · 2019-09-12T09:15:28+00:00

If Red Pill men (many times MGTOW) are against marriages and have negative views on most of women, isn’t this against what Red Pill women want? Why is there such a dissonance between groups that should share same values?

THE_ANGRY_SHARTER · 2019-09-12T16:34:45+00:00

I recommend you all check out r/FemaleDatingStrategy

Title	RPW reaching out to non-RP women
Author	JBurger58
Upvotes	19
Comments	69
Date	September 12, 2019 7:24 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/d34doz/rpw_reaching_out_to_nonrp_women/
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