In my last post I present the argument that the red pill's misogyny prevents it's users from achieving strong healthy boundaries. Something that is essential to all healthy relationships to prevent you from being a door mat and to enable you to negotiate with your partner. You don't need strong healthy boundaries if your partner is just a child to be commanded and who must obey or be punished. There is no negotiation. There is no need to learn how to do any of this.

Now I will claim that the red pills absolutist misogyny leads a certain set of fragile men into a dead end of hopeless despair. You'll note in that thread I linked above several mgtows showed up and they did what mgtows mysteriously always do. They tried to get one of us to convince them to stop going their own way. They asked us to convince them that committing to a woman is worth it.

Perhaps you fine folks did not see but the very next original post after mine was yet another mgtow, also basically begging some of us to argue with him to convince him that it's not hopeless. It was literally titled, "convince me women are worth it". That committing to a woman and "going back to the plantation" will lead him to a happy life. And this happens all the time. "Convince me that it's worth it to try", please, please, says every man going his own way. They never learn all these red pill secret truths of life and happily skip off into the woods to their cabin filled with porn and video games. They slink off to their mom's dark and lonely basement filled with porn and video games. Where they frequently poke their heads out and see guys like me and many of our other amazing ppderps talking about how much we love our wives and our lives. How much we love our lovelies. And they frown inside, as they put on a smirk, and force themeselves to think, jokes on him. Before saying to one of us, "convince me that all I now believe isn't true" please, please

These vulnerable young men have some bad experiences, maybe they get cheated on, maybe they get rejected in embarrassing painful ways, maybe they just struggle to launch in the first place. And then they find the terposphere. Where they are taught AWALT, that all women are the same. Basically one giant hive mind and if you find the absolute worst examples of behavior from any woman in the world, that's all of them. They post the worst examples of female behavior the entire world over and shake their heads at how all women are like that.

They are taught that a relationship only works if you recognize the truth that women are actually children who must be controlled and punished, not a partner to share life with. That if you ever show any vulnerability she will rip your heart out of your chest and throw it in the trash. You can never relax around a feral child-woman.

Countless men gather in these echo chambers to reinforce nonsense like divorce rape, like crippling alimony, like men never see their children again post divorce, that child support will leave a man destitute. None of these things are true anymore, but you'll hear it non stop in these echo chambers.

They are taught that women literally can not have empathy for a man. That they are like praying mantis' that only see as man as a walking ATM and will discard his husk after they are done withdrawing all his sweet cash.

They are taught that the only value in a woman is her vagina, cause you can't fuck her personality. And the only goal worthwhile is to "spin plates" and never ever commit like a beta male. A male to be laughed at and pitied. They are taught that the juice just ain't worth the squeeze.

And they are miserable living this filthy lie. How many times have each one of us told a man going his own way to just stfu and go already? Hundreds? Because they keep coming back. They keep coming back desperate for one of us to convince them to try. To climb out of their pit of despair and get back on the plantation. The cognitive dissonance drives them back, time and time again, to try to find someone who can convince them that they took the wrong pill.

Even when I do respond to them and tell them to just go away they still try to get me to engage. They still want me to convince them that all is not lost.

Oh but if you try? They will repeat all the misogynistic talking points they have absorbed. They are stuck in a loop that is reinforced daily by the toxicity of the manosphere.

And yes I know terps will say that they are not mgtows and that they encourage lifting weights, taking steroids, and stoicism so that you can engage in an endless series of empty emotionless casual sex. Because their is no point in anything else in the red pill world view. How could you have supportive commitment in marriage with an empathy free AWALT child who must be controlled at all times lest she fuck Chad and divorce rape you?

Why even try?

But somewhere in the back of their mind they know something is wrong. They see a glitch in the matrix. They see a happy married couple holding hands and they stop and think, maybe I took the wrong pill? Won't someone convince me that this steak right in front of me, that I can see, smell, and even taste is actually real? Maybe I was only convinced that the world is fake, but it's actually real. And they didn't wake up, they went to sleep.

The thing is that there is just enough truth in every piece of terp misogyny to fool a fragile young man. But if the red pill would drop the hyperbolic misogynistic extremism and present the real world, a nuanced world of shades of gray, where some women are like that, some women lack empathy, some women are immature and childish, and even that some men do indeed get a rough end of the stick jammed up their ass in divorce. But not all. If the red pill dropped the edge lord misogynistic larping that they claim they are not doing, then these fragile young men would be able to equip themeselves with the tools to navigate the dating world. Rather than believe there are no tools. Only AWALT.

The misogynistic absolutism of the red pill is severely stunting these young guys. This in no way helps these guys, despite TRPs claim that they are the only hope to help these young men. They don't help. They leave these guys trapped in a hopeless dead end of despair.