When it comes to relationships and sex, how much advice from women should I listen to and take in?

OfSpock · 2018-11-25T02:08:57+00:00

How socially intelligent are you? If you're not very socially with it, you're not going to understand the nuances that most people get anyway.

anon1moos · 2018-11-25T02:29:32+00:00

If you’re a man 0%

SmurfESmurferson · 2018-11-25T01:07:04+00:00

Spend time around your friends, both male and female

The ones whose advice ends up mirroring what happens? Give their advice more weight going forward

Karakal456 · 2018-11-25T01:54:17+00:00

Watch what they do.

If someone “cares” enough to give you advice, they probably care too much to tell you the harsh truths you need to hear.

_Neon_Shadow_ · 2018-11-25T08:32:39+00:00

Z E R 0

PhoenixMDL · 2018-11-25T00:45:12+00:00

Zero

ifelsedowhile · 2018-11-25T01:17:22+00:00

I reckon their advices might be good for beta bucking.

Barely-moral · 2018-11-25T01:07:12+00:00

Listen to their actions. Words are useless.

People usually don't know what they want... or how to say it. Maybe they are not hypocrites... just the run of the mill stupid.

[deleted] · 2018-11-25T12:38:33+00:00

None. Watch what they do. Not what they say.

bonusfruit · 2018-11-25T22:05:48+00:00

0%. They don't date women. Even lesbians experience is so different from straight men that they have nothing to offer in the way of insight. You will hear 'be yourself, pay attention to her, treat her as an equal'. Proof that all women would immediately become incel if they had to suddenly be men.

[deleted] · 2018-11-25T02:11:17+00:00

Do not listen women's advice at all. See around, even women say they should not be trusted.

Get information by yourself, and maybe look at the likes of sucessful men and try to emulate them (like TRP tries to do).

But never trust anyone's words. Only experience, as everything depends on where you are and who you are with.

I have a tip, ask lesbians about sex. The masculine lesbians to be precise. They will tell you some useful tips in sexual performance.

And they will have no reason to lie to you, they have no interest on what you think, or on you at all. So you can trust their advice better than most.

BleuBird18 · 2018-11-25T00:42:58+00:00

Why would anyone be more qualified than you to figure out what you should change? Do you not learn from your experiences and make observations about the people around you?

If you read advice that sounds worthwhile, who cares if it comes from a man or a woman?

What is going on in your life that you need endless dating advice? People always know the answers before they ask for feedback, they just might not want to face it until someone makes them.

ElonMuskForPrison · 2018-11-25T00:46:39+00:00

None. Listen to successful people of your own sex. Not women, not TRPers.

MMDT · 2018-11-25T02:03:53+00:00

If you want to learn how to catch fish, who do you ask? The fish or the fisherman?

[deleted] · 2018-11-25T09:06:26+00:00

you can listen to it, just don't take it up as truth, as most posters here say: see if her advice is what she follows in her own life.

[deleted] · 2018-11-25T11:46:41+00:00

The only advice I accept from women is fashion advice. And even then, only from my sister

killallthenarcs · 2018-11-25T15:51:39+00:00

Advice from women is much better than advice from highly unsuccessful men of the types both men and women don't like, and advice from successful men who you do not wish to be like because you feel contempt for them.

Advice from women is on a par with advice from men who have had highly limited success. Both have major blind spots in terms of what you want to learn.

What you want most of all is advice from men who are successful AND are the sort of men you don't feel contempt for.

krishnoo · 2018-11-27T23:30:29+00:00

there is no overarching coherance in feminist literature for a good reason

sadomasochrist · 2018-11-25T00:47:44+00:00

If their actions don't match their words
Then their words are useless
Then you should listen to 0%

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[deleted] · 2018-11-25T02:48:15+00:00

Just learn from your mistakes. Women are mostly right to advices of people around them unless it concerns themselves or a group they belong to or is a projection of their insecurities.

TL;DR listen to women unless they're biased because they're good at judging others but their own bias.

tuesdayrain · 2018-11-25T06:05:48+00:00

What kind of question is this lol? Are you some kind of robot? A percentage answer is totally fucking useless. Just evaluate advice on a case by case basis.

[deleted] · 2018-11-25T06:15:30+00:00

Just take the advice with a grain of salt and pepper

dylang92 · 2018-11-25T13:50:23+00:00

For sex you should take their advice, but not in the direct way of them telling you. Watch what they do, look at the men they hook up with, see what they are like, how they act, what they look like. You’ll find it’s never really the same as the advice they give you.

Relationships only a bit, but after every tip, make sure you add “only if the woman is attracted to you”

Rasterbate_My_Junk · 2018-11-25T14:58:10+00:00

Relationships: 50% Sex: 90%

xx-Rain_Maker-xx · 2018-11-26T03:40:46+00:00

None, if you're a man.

[deleted] · 2018-12-19T23:30:48+00:00

None.

If you want to catch fish, who should you ask advice from? The fish or the fishermen?

There's a huge difference between what people say and what people do..

poison-fang-blade · 2018-11-25T01:17:28+00:00

Let me ask you a question: supposing you want to get better at fishing, who would you go to for advice? The fish or the fisherman?

321PK · 2018-11-25T01:45:58+00:00

None! Believe your own eyes and your intellect. Erryone one else can f off so ya.

Mr_White119811 · 2018-11-25T01:21:31+00:00

Watch what they respond to.

Would you ask a fish how to catch a fish.

[deleted] · 2018-11-25T00:40:18+00:00

Just the stuff that makes sense.

Edit: which to be fair is probably not very much.

Title	When it comes to relationships and sex, how much advice from women should I listen to and take in?
Author	Whodunnit88
Upvotes	7
Comments	77
Date	November 25, 2018 12:39 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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