This is an idea that's propagated by a lot of manosphere circles. The idea is that women will will treat men they are attracted to differently and in a sense are the ones making the first move in romantic relationships. The claim is that women are not subtle at all in their attraction to a man and will not only make it very obvious, but will make it easier for you two to be together.

In practice, this is what happens...

If a woman is attracted to you, she will:

  1. Smile at you more.

  2. Pay more attention to you in groups.

  3. Laugh to most things you say, even if they aren't funny.

  4. Respond to your texts quickly.

  5. Find excuses for you to be together.

  6. Take the initiative to inviting you to places where you two can hang out.

  7. Be comfortable with being in close proximity to you.

  8. Touch you often as you two interact.

Conversation with her will feel free-flowing and easy, and you feel like you can truly be yourself around her because she's already attracted to you.

On the other hand, if a woman is not attracted to you, she will not do any of these things. Socializing with her feels awkward, and you sense that she's detached from it. She doesn't laugh at anything you say, even if other people in the group find your joke funny. She takes hours to respond to your texts and she avoids contact with you because she doesn't want you to get the wrong idea. She will avoid doing activities with you if she can, and will always provide excuses when you invite her somewhere.

The important part about this idea is that once a women decide whether or not she finds you attractive, it doesn't matter how your personality is like or what else you have going for you. You will never be able to win her over through game or whatever it is Redpillers think of.

The implications behind this idea is that male sexual strategy should not be to pursue, but to focus your attention on the women who already are giving you signals that they find you attractive. If you aren't getting any of those, then you need to become more attractive.The idea of chasing becomes meaningless, because it's actually women who chase first, and the man that chooses to respond.

What do you women think of this? Is there any benefit in a man showing you interest when you have already decided you aren't attracted to him?