If i think that my virginity is the only value that i have is it a bad thing?

I saw a post in trp about how women looked at sex and how men think that sex is way more meaningful then women do , but i think the same that i treasure my virginity bc i think its not something that i can just give away. I wanna know if the women in TRP that they are talking about are just white females bc i dont think (as asian female) that im like the women they're describing, i work out, had a great grades, havent been a club , havent drink any alcohol other than gin that i tried once in my 20 years of living , only kissed 2 guys and had 4 exes.

And im telling u all my girl friends have the same view as i do. Is it bc im a christian and my culture have a diffirent traditions ? And divorce is illegal in my country (philippines) and adultery is a crime in both gender.