Cheaters of Reddit, Why do you prefer the other guy/girl? What are his/her differences from your SO?

[deleted] · 2017-05-26T02:23:13+00:00

Never preferred the other girl, I just used to be weak willed.

Ok, probably still am. Technically the only reason I don't cheat now is because nothing is"official" right now (even tho it's probably assumed

Kralee · 2017-05-26T05:07:06+00:00

Dated 2 girls at once once.

Reason: Wanted to see if I could pull off the double life like those guys with 2 families you hear about from time to time.

Answer: I could not. Surprisingly, one of the girls did take me back after I came clean.

WhiskersNT · 2017-05-26T05:17:01+00:00

Hey! This is one of those posts where I'll come clean

I've cheated on every girl I've ever been with. In recent years I guess it hasn't been cheating because technically we stopped doing monogamy, except, just for me.

In my most recent relationship it was nonmonogamy for just me for the first year, the second year the rule was that I could only see other girls that I was trying to bring back into the relationship. We dated a couple girls together, that was actually really interesting, having a little triad. Our little adventures and trips that we took with the three of us are some great memories

Now we are trying monogamy. Well see how it goes. In the past, when I got a few months in , something always sorta "just happened". But hey I really think this time will be different

Eastuss · 2017-05-26T08:55:58+00:00

Cheated once. Wasn't considering the relation so seriously. The only thing I prefer in other girls is that they're other girls, I'm poly sexual, I need diversity.

exit_sandman · 2017-05-26T05:22:25+00:00

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[deleted] · 2017-05-26T05:01:33+00:00

Not a cheater. I know some cheaters though. I've seen only two reasons for cheating thus far.

Their SO was cheating on them and they wanted to get back at them
They have shitty impulse control or are otherwise mentally fucked up

That's about it. Generally the person they cheat with isn't any better than their SO.

handklap · 2017-05-26T05:41:33+00:00

Strong fetish stuff you know won't go over or tried in multiple ways but was shotdown.

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DashneDK2 · 2017-05-26T02:12:02+00:00

I think everybody has had the temptation of cheating. It's not a question of preferring the other girl. Just wanting more.

[deleted] · 2017-05-26T15:14:30+00:00

Why do guys who practice MMA watch MMA?

Sometimes, it's good to see whats out there

cxj · 2017-05-26T20:17:55+00:00

I cheated on my first 3 girlfriends, but not the current one or the last one.

In my mind, my GFs were always just "temp wives" I had because they were better than most girls I'd hook up with in terms of personality, and I needed to look "normal" by having a girlfriend once in a while. But I never, ever considered any of them to be someone I could spend the rest of my life with, and when I was young other girls were after me, even more so when I actually had a gf.

I didn't "prefer" the other girl really, in fact I preferred the current girl I was with, but more importantly I preferred variety to monogamy. It would have taken a girl I could see myself with long term to change that.

Title	Cheaters of Reddit, Why do you prefer the other guy/girl? What are his/her differences from your SO?
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Upvotes	6
Comments	50
Date	May 26, 2017 1:56 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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