Man comes home to to find his wife sleeping with another man. Has an unusual reaction...

Wallstreet3 · 2017-04-27T05:26:32+00:00

He had every right.

SilentLurker666 · 2017-04-27T09:02:59+00:00

1) What else can the guy do? especially in this day and age?

2) "Misogynist", "MRA/Trump supporter", Blah Blah Blah...

3) It shouldn't get to this point, but I'll take the photo as evidence for the eventual court proceedings, following by talking to lawyers to see how valid the prenup is, and what else I could do to protect my assets and get custody for my kids (If there's any)

4) Nope

5) Nope

6) "Should have hid in the closet?" Alternatively, "What? she was married?"

7) Has you had no sense of irony when you are literally posting this on Reddit, and meanwhile someone just got doxxed for being outed as the "founder of RP"??? Or perhaps it's only wrong when guys started to catch on regarding "virtue signaling" that women has been doing on social media for years that it suddenly became bad?

8) People cheat, Surprised Surprised. Nothing everything is RP/BP, AF/BB. The more important question is, what happening to society when you cheat, but then blames someone else/society for you feeling shame?

sublimemongrel · 2017-04-27T14:27:21+00:00

That's his girlfriend, not his wife. Big difference.

IIHotelYorba · 2017-04-27T07:47:18+00:00

Sort of. Any version of just walking out is basically the right thing.
For this? Yes.
I hope so.
Not that I know of hahaha
Nope. I assume it's feel pretty bad since reputation is key with women
Pretty happy. He's probably the only one who wins in this situation.
Social media is here to stay. It exists and people are aware of it, they will use it.
Sometimes girls just want to fuck or are whores.

I could say dude made an amazingly bad choice picking his sloppy careless slut for a wife. But anyone who would marry someone like that seems like redneck scum anyway.

midnightvulpine · 2017-04-27T10:26:48+00:00

Right or wrong? Not sure. But the guy should take care, if she decides to sue the local regulations on posting images of others without their consent and related laws will become important.

At a glance, I don't see anything positive or negative in this to comment on. Shaming others is certainly a way to react, but I don't tend to prefer it in some cases. Of course, given she's a cheater, I have little regard for her and think he should divorce her and find someone more loyal.

As o the dude in bed, are you really going to judge him and bring up RP over a single image of him? Sure, he's an asshole for cheating with her(assuming he knew she was married. Probably did), but outside of that you don't know word one about this guy. Tattoos don't make you a bad boy. Being fit doesn't either. So speculation on his bad boy-ness is pointlessly stupid.

despisedlove2 · 2017-04-27T10:59:47+00:00

Anyway I have a ton of questions about this:

1) Do you believe he did the right thing?

Can't see what is wrong on it, even if it wouldn't be my choice.

2) Do you think it is ok to shame someone online?

Ask feminists. It is their primary way of working.

3) Would you react the same way as he did if you were in that situation?

No.

4) Have you ever been cheated on before? How did you react?

I suspect I have been. By that time, we were already breaking apart as a family.

5) Have you ever cheated? How would you feel if you were in the woman's position and saw all the news articles?

No.

I would consider it just if I did.

6) How would you feel if you were the guy in the bed?

He doesn't matter.

7) Have we become too open with our lives in regards to social media? Should Duston have dealt with this in a more private way?

Yes.

Maybe.

8) The guy on the bed gives off a bad boy vibe with his tattoos and build. Just from my impression. Does this mean that the AA/BB thing has truth in it?

Obviously.

funny_lyfe · 2017-04-27T06:03:44+00:00

1) Yes, why not. If you don't want to see someone anymore, break up. Don't cheat. At least not in a LTR.

2) I have mixed feeling about this. Not sure.

3) Yea, probably not selfie but completely cut the woman out of my life.

4) I have I just felt kinda numb. It was a huge turning point for me, I cringe so hard when I remember how blue pill the "the right" woman had made me.

I just came to her apartment, and her "friend's" bedroom(some guy coming from out of town to visit her) that was newly made on Friday, looked the same on Tuesday. He spend 4 days fucking her. I called her out, she denied it, but started crying 10 minutes later about how she made a mistake. She also told me that she couldn't have kids because of some abortion. Complete lies seeing she has 3 kids now.

5) Naah. Don't cheat, however I do date around, and let the women know that I am dating more people.

6) Wouldn't care. Not like they got his face (or did he).

7) Yes, probably.

8) Yes, I am above average, some might even consider me attractive. When in college I definitely have seen some really stupid shit. Like one time a buddy and I were hitting on a girl, she wanted to go home with us. Turns out her friend was her LTR, and he didn't know what was going on. He starts crying in the bar about how she is gonna go home with some random dudes before we caught on. Few other times older married women have also hit on me, guess I give enough of a bad boy look. Women cheat men cheat, and women often cheat with guys that give the bad boy vibe.

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Eastuss · 2017-04-27T07:30:58+00:00

It's always nice to gather evidences.

adrixshadow · 2017-04-27T09:41:07+00:00

If he doesn't take a gun and shoot both in Texas then I guess they got off easy.

Alth12 · 2017-04-27T10:04:27+00:00

1) Yes 2) It happens, I think debating the right or wrongs of it now is pointless in many ways. 3) Probably, I learnt in my first break up that keeping quiet about the reasons generally leads to the guy being painted as the bad one. 4) I was cheated on by my first girlfriend, with my best school friend at the time too. 5) No, not in me to do it. 6) I don't care tbh. In my eyes the guys not done anything wrong. She's the one in the relationship, the buck stops with her. 7) I'm not sure, I think you should be as open as you like. The issue to me is how judgmental other people are, not what a posted. 8) I don't think anyone doubts that for a ONS that is most women's type.

prodigy2throw · 2017-04-27T14:15:04+00:00

I get it. Your girl cheats on you and has the balls to take a nap in the bed too then that's on you. No reason to get mad at the guy.

reepbot · 2017-04-27T12:58:40+00:00

I wouldn't expect anything good from a girl who buys bedding that looks like that.

[deleted] · 2017-04-27T10:51:39+00:00

1/ yup 2/ do you think it's ok to put people in locked rooms? cause you know, that's what the prisons are. 3/ probably not exactly the same, but the same ballpark 4/ not or didn't find out 5/ no, and I would feel I deserve it 6/ depends if I knew the woman was married, but likely I would have felt I deserved it 7/ this isn't about social media. I keep my privacy very strictly, but this is not relevant. 8/ it means the girls in the bed is a bimbo

Entropy-7 · 2017-04-27T11:34:59+00:00

When I was younger, I would let a lot of these things slide. But now I take things much more seriously. If I found my wife in bed with another man, I think the technical term would be. . . ."attempted homicide".

reepbot · 2017-04-27T13:33:31+00:00

1) Do you believe he did the right thing?

Yep.

2) Do you think it is ok to shame someone online?

For this? Yes.

3) Would you react the same way as he did if you were in that situation?

I don't know. I hope so. After taking the pics, I'd make sure to post them and then text both people with the pics.

4) Have you ever been cheated on before? How did you react?

Not that I know of.

5) Have you ever cheated? How would you feel if you were in the woman's position and saw all the news articles?

Yeah. I'd feel pretty embarrassed, but I'd know deep down I brought it on myself.

6) How would you feel if you were the guy in the bed?

A little embarrassed.

7) Have we become too open with our lives in regards to social media? Should Duston have dealt with this in a more private way?

Yes we have become way too open. But I can't say Duston should have done it some other way, because this is actually better than kicking the guy's ass and does a lot more damage. An ass kicking lasts a few minutes and the bruises a few days. This will last forever. Plus, this is modern life. We all know we can be photographed or videoed literally anywhere doing anything. Everyone's a photographer and videographer now.

8) The guy on the bed gives off a bad boy vibe with his tattoos and build. Just from my impression. Does this mean that the AA/BB thing has truth in it?

You mean AF/BB? Of course it does. AFBB is one of the most enduring, pervasive, always-applicable truths of The Red Pill. It's just what women do.

buartha · 2017-04-27T16:01:25+00:00

1) Do you believe he did the right thing?

I wouldn't say he did the 'right' thing, but his actions were understandable given the stress of what he experienced (assuming the story is true.) I'd only really object if there was nudity.

2) Do you think it is ok to shame someone online?

I think it should be subject to the same restrictions as print legally so people have recourse if they're lied about or harrassed, but if you keep it on your own space (i.e. your own Facebook) and stick to the truth I'm fairly neutral.

3) Would you react the same way as he did if you were in that situation?

I'm more the 'screaming and crying' type, or possibly the 'destroy treasured possessions' type.

4) Have you ever been cheated on before? How did you react?

Not that I know of since my partner and I became exclusive.

5) Have you ever cheated? How would you feel if you were in the woman's position and saw all the news articles?

No.

6) How would you feel if you were the guy in the bed?

Depends on whether people knew I was close to the people involved. If I was, I'd be ashamed. If I didn't know the person was in a relationship I'd still feel embarassed but not bad about myself.

7) Have we become too open with our lives in regards to social media? Should Duston have dealt with this in a more private way?

I think it's up to him how he deals with it. I think it's a little classless, but I wouldn't expect someone to be in their right mind in this situation.

8) The guy on the bed gives off a bad boy vibe with his tattoos and build. Just from my impression. Does this mean that the AA/BB thing has truth in it?

Impossible to say without knowing more about them. I've met plenty of tattooed pussies in my life.

DashneDK2 · 2017-04-27T06:43:50+00:00

It's the best reaction. Cheating bitches aren't worth getting worked up about, and certainly not anything like going to prison for starting some violence against her or the dude. Out she goes.

The Brazilian in the video below has a spectacular ass.

wub1234 · 2017-04-27T11:22:16+00:00

7) Have we become too open with our lives in regards to social media?

I wouldn't say it's so much a case of being open, people are self-obsessed and want to broadcast every aspect of their lives to others. I'm not sure that this guy's motivation was, but it strikes me as immature and stupid to publicise something that should be a private matter.

purpleppp · 2017-04-27T15:50:49+00:00

1) I don't think it's wrong but I wouldn't do it

2) I don't think it's wrong but we should refrain from it because it breeds toxic culture

8) I don't see anything appealing about the guy. Maybe he has a big dick?

alreadyredschool · 2017-04-27T08:14:58+00:00

I guess in the end the guy gets sued and has to pay her tons of monies.

IamTheWalkingMenu · 2017-04-27T13:40:47+00:00

is it his wife or girlfriend? OP says wife, but article says girlfriend.

1) Do you believe he did the right thing?

i guess? seems like he thought it was the right thing. depending on reach, i don't think of the pictures as wrong even if i may not make the same choice there.

2) Do you think it is ok to shame someone online?

depends on what they're being shamed for.

3) Would you react the same way as he did if you were in that situation?

don't know. probably not; i don't think i'd be able to make light of it so quickly (and some of the guy's messages and replies make this seem staged). i think the only thing i'd be able to do is first will myself to move, and then just get away and go somewhere to calm down and gather my thoughts.

4) Have you ever been cheated on before? How did you react?

yup. i broke things off once i had time to process it.

5) Have you ever cheated? How would you feel if you were in the woman's position and saw all the news articles?

no, i haven't. i'd be embarrassed as that woman, at the very least.

6) How would you feel if you were the guy in the bed?

i doubt he gives a shit, so i guess if i were that man, maybe i'd feel the same.

7) Have we become too open with our lives in regards to social media? Should Duston have dealt with this in a more private way?

i would have been more private, likely; others would not have been. i don't think this openness is necessarily a new thing though; people used to just get billboards, if those few stories are true.

8) The guy on the bed gives off a bad boy vibe with his tattoos and build. Just from my impression. Does this mean that the AA/BB thing has truth in it?

can't see enough of either of them to tell.

edit: duston looks cute-ish for not being my type; didn't see his picture in the video thing at the top. still not sure it's enough to tell though.

EliteSpartanRanger · 2017-04-27T14:13:01+00:00

No.
No.
No.
No.
No.
Honestly don't care.
Yes.
No.

wtknight · 2017-04-27T14:33:10+00:00

As much as I hate cheating, I dislike even more people's private lives made public on the internet. So no, I don't think he did the right thing.
No.
No.
I've never been cheated on more than a woman who I was involved with flirting with another man behind my back.
No. I don't even flirt with other women when I'm in a relationship.
I wouldn't be that guy in the bed, but if I were, I'd probably just have to live up to what I did and try to get on with my life and hope that most people didn't recognize me.
Yes. Social shaming has always been a thing, but you can ruin another person's life with the internet. I would be forgiving of someone who was shamed like that if the incident happened long enough ago and I felt like that person had learned his or her lesson from it.
I don't think you can prove AF/BB with one woman. But yeah, a good portion of women fit this dynamic, especially when they are younger and more likely to want sexual adventure.

[deleted] · 2017-04-27T15:00:40+00:00

Beta numale reacts passive aggressively to the biggest possible slap to the face to the applause of the Internet what a surprise.

If that happens to me he's leaving my house that second at gunpoint

Title	Man comes home to to find his wife sleeping with another man. Has an unusual reaction...
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Date	April 27, 2017 5:18 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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