Does the existence of men who women are sexually attracted to and take care of disprove hypergamy on some level?

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2017-03-30T16:12:32+00:00

Some men inspire women to just, take care of them; gifts, money, attention, affection, etc.

men who inspire this AND maintain sexual attraction usually have some pretty strong pimp hand or are like artists, writers, musicians, something like that

DeathByBeelzie · 2017-03-30T16:25:29+00:00

Of course they exsist and women lose attraction to them at some point. Its not attractive to need to be taken care of,not in man and not in women.

DrunkGirl69 · 2017-03-30T16:38:46+00:00

Could have just as much if not more to do with the women who loves these men as it has to do with the men.

Ercole-- · 2017-03-30T17:46:39+00:00

Some men inspire women to just, take care of them; gifts, money, attention, affection

And some men instead inspire a woman to want to more or less, hitch her star to him.

Has anyone observed this? Played both roles? Etc.?

I play both, I guess. I find that they go hand in hand. If she wants to show me affection, give me gifts, and provide me with funding; she want's my dick. And vice versa.

I think if she only wants your dick and not your affection, well being, and approval; she's playing the field. If it's the opposite and she's affectionate, but doesn't put out, I think you're in the friend zone.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2017-03-30T16:12:32+00:00

Some men inspire women to just, take care of them; gifts, money, attention, affection, etc.

men who inspire this AND maintain sexual attraction usually have some pretty strong pimp hand or are like artists, writers, musicians, something like that

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cxj · 2017-03-30T17:42:34+00:00

Imo the future will be more and more of high earning women paying to get good genes and official public commitment from guys they are attracted to. Tons of those guys will probably sleep around anyways on the DL and it will cause problems and end some relationships and other wiser women will just look the other way.

Human society will devolve into lion society where the women do all the hunting (resource acquisition) and child rearing, and the men just sleep 20 hours per day and spend their wake time eating, mating and fighting each other.

Justapasserby557 · 2017-03-30T18:50:48+00:00

I like to take care of my fiance, and at times feel pretty protective of him. When we were first dating, a friend of his (who wasn't a very good friend it turned out) I guess got jealous that my guy had me while he had no one. He started bragging a lot around us about how he's lifting and he's so fit and making stupid comments towards my guy (like mean put-downs disguised as joking around) and the whole time I was just rolling my eyes and making witty comebacks to his put-downs.

There have been a lot of other times where I've helped my fiance stand up to people, or even offered to fight his fights for him, because I know he's less open to confrontation than I am. The idea of someone taking advantage of his sweet heart just gets my blood boiling.

blametheboogie · 2017-03-30T22:32:14+00:00

I have a relative who has basically been a kept man by high earning women for as long as I can remember. He's probably worked for 4 or 5 years out of the last 20.

He's movie star handsome but kind of dumb and can't keep a job. He's pretty masculine looking, imagine a black 1980s Tom Selleck.

I think that there is something to the hypergamy thing but I think rp overstates it. I think a lot of what people are calling hypergamy is women leaving unhappy marriages with dull betabux guys for richer betabux guys or more alpha guys. Women here have mostly agreed that they want men on their level of accomplishment in life or higher, that agrees with the hypergamy theory in my opinion. I don't think many relatively happy women leave a marriage because a richer or better looking man shows interest.

A few exceptions don't make a theory completely invalid.

IIHotelYorba · 2017-04-01T07:11:40+00:00

Female investment is the highest form of hypergamy. It is women literally doing all these things to be with a man, to try to win him over.

Some form of investment is the goal of ALL game. For example, her spending time with you is a major form of investment, sex being another.

ClarityofDisaster · 2017-04-02T01:23:18+00:00

Has anyone observed this? Played both roles? Etc.?

I've never been provided for, but I can confirm that being the provider is an excellent role for a female to be in IF she's comfortable with it.

Wouldn't this pose a problem for hypergamy, because in the first type has the woman stepping into a role TRP says only men should occupy?

Lol. That's been my argument for a long, long time. How can I (or similar women) be labeled as hypergamous when we pay for everything and have equal social status to our men? I'm willing to believe EWALT, but not AWALT regarding hypergamy. I know that some of us do not have it at all.

wholesomedude · 2017-07-16T15:20:39+00:00

Yep!

Title	Does the existence of men who women are sexually attracted to and take care of disprove hypergamy on some level?
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Date	March 30, 2017 4:10 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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