CMV: Modern Feminism is a sexual strategy for women to minimize attention from unattractive men and maximize it from chads/studs

[deleted] · 2016-10-06T19:52:29+00:00

You're confusing feminism as an ethos with women's disinterest in unattractive guys. Women didn't want them any more pre-feminism than they do now. And if anti-rape statutes had anything to do with punishing low-quality men who dare to ask a girl out you wouldn't see so many athletes accused of rape.

COPCO2 · 2016-10-06T19:48:01+00:00

Maybe we should all read what third-wave-feminism actually is:

Third-wave feminism refers to several diverse strains of feminist activity and study, whose exact boundaries in the history of feminism are a subject of debate, but are generally marked as beginning in the early 1990s and continuing to the present. The movement arose partially as a response to the perceived failures of and backlash against initiatives and movements created by second-wave feminism during the 1960s, 1970s, and 1980s, and the perception that women are of "many colors, ethnicities, nationalities, religions, and cultural backgrounds". This wave of feminism partially destabilized constructs from second-wave feminism. It attempts to expand the topic of feminism to include a diverse group of women with a diverse set of identities.[1][2] It has been alleged that Rebecca Walker has become somewhat of a symbol of the third wave's focus on queer and non-white women.[3] Third-wave feminists have broadened their goals, focusing on ideas like queer theory, and abolishing gender role expectations and stereotypes.[4] Unlike the determined position of second-wave feminists about women in pornography, sex work, and prostitution,[5] third-wave feminists were rather ambiguous and divided about these themes (feminist sex wars).[6]

TL:DR; third wave feminism is an internal discussion among feminists about how previous versions of feminism left out ethically diverse and non-heterosexual women.

There is also sexual liberation in there, but it's not the main focus.

BluePiller1776 · 2016-10-06T19:50:47+00:00

Slut walks are about rape. The idea is that they should be able to wear anything they want and they are still not asking to be raped.
Theres a difference between entitlement and having sexual desire. If you hear a women say "you arent entitled to sex" its probably because you are having a hissy fit over her not sleeping with you.
Yes what a crazy idea that people should only be sexually touched by people they want doing that. What a crazy world we live in.
Theres a difference between saying NEVER approach women and saying "here are some times not to approach women because it makes them feel uncomfortable and probably wont end well"

[deleted] · 2016-10-06T19:59:07+00:00

Literally nothing wrong with any of all that.

Truecelacct · 2016-10-06T20:09:09+00:00

The view is incomplete. This is part of it, but it's not close to enough.

Modern feminism is a life strategy for unattractive women to live and be on par with attractive women, and with men.

It's a life strategy to empower all women to have sex like attractive men do -- at will, whenever and wherever they want, with whomever they want, without judgment or consequence.

It's a life strategy to empower women to access resources without earning them, to making it easier for women to access resources, and to enable women to take resources from men and government merely by dint of their gender.

ProbablyBelievesIt · 2016-10-06T20:08:51+00:00

In order for this to be true it would require that women are aware of their implicit biases. Most women like most men are not. Most women actually buy into the idea that nice guys are the ones who get women. Most women are just as blue-pilled as the average man.

Reed_4983 · 2016-10-07T00:44:53+00:00

The "approach women" article was written by a man and it says don't approach women UNLESS in social spaces, not don't approach them in social spaces like you put it.

ABCYZ · 2016-10-06T22:00:48+00:00

Why do unattractive men always think things are about them?

Fiveos2 · 2016-10-07T01:27:58+00:00

Modern feminism is nonsense. I agree with you there...

I simply don't believe that thee motive could possibly be sexual. It's a political movement with political consequences and feminists don't stop complaining simply because they started dating a stud. (I know this from personal experience).

Feminism is not the brainchild of most of its followers...it's fed to them in the form of lies and propaganda from other people...usually from liberal academia. Many feminists are in fact professional feminists and manage to be well paid for being victims and hating men.

There is a lot more going on than sex hormones here. You drastically underestimate how damaging feminism is.

[deleted] · 2016-10-07T04:54:34+00:00

If this were true, the following would be true:

All feminists would be sex positive.
Lesbian feminists wouldn't really exist.

Neither of those are true.

czerdec · 2016-10-06T20:07:46+00:00

Why would a hideous obese bluehair care about minimizing attention she never gets, or maximizing access to a Chad she'll never touch unless she pays him?

I don't get her motivation.

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[deleted] · 2016-10-06T20:08:31+00:00

Femenism existed to fake the moon landing.

What it's purpose is/was and what it's achieved are not correlated.

obstinatebeagle · 2016-10-07T04:41:33+00:00

It's not specifically about wanting attention from Chads, it's about wanting to be totally in control. There are lots of feminists who think that all hetero sex is rape, there are lots of feminists who are lesbians, there are lots of feminists who are misandrists, and there are lots of feminists who are asexual. None of them want sex with Chad.

Your second point is a great example of feminists wanting to be in control. Saying you're not "entitled" is a victim-blaming way for them to actually say "I don't feel like having sex with you and I am in control here, so despite whatever you may have done to build attraction or trust I really don't give a shit about what you want."

ifelsedowhile · 2016-10-06T21:53:17+00:00

no, I think modern feminism is about victimizing women as much as possible and profit from that victimhood status. the sexual aspect is secondary and probably an involuntary consequence of the first guideline even though it can often be employed: feminists can arbitrarily decide if they are victimized by male attention or not based on how attractive said male is. the average feminist activists, those purple haired tumblrinas, are not rational enough to carefully and intentionally craft a sexual strategy aimed at maximize their options with alphas and minimize the unwanted attentions from betas.

Title	CMV: Modern Feminism is a sexual strategy for women to minimize attention from unattractive men and maximize it from chads/studs
Author	oilpainter777
Upvotes	8
Comments	68
Date	October 6, 2016 7:40 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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