[Discussion]The differences in the tones of TRP and RPW. Why does it exist?

drok007 · 2016-01-29T02:46:23+00:00

Because men and women are different. So they respond to things differently.

InformalCriticism · 2016-01-29T02:55:28+00:00

Women do not lose in western society when they buy into the lie.

RPW is just happy to know what's going on and play an informed role in their lives, rather than live in the cyclical hell of "I'm a princess" from dick to dick; they've known they could settle for the bottom 80%, they just didn't know they could make the top 20% work until now. It's refreshing to have better options. As men, they've been told they have had options, and now they realize they don't without massive overhaul of their lives.

Do the fucking math.

ThirdEyeSqueegeed · 2016-01-29T10:51:56+00:00

TRP is one of the few places that men are allowed to have a rant and let off steam. Women have loads of places where they can rant about men.

A lot of men are angry and frustrated. If TRP turns them away where do they go? Places like sluthate and puahate? The types of places that Eliot Rodger and the other angry incels go to before they shoot up a school. I'd rather they take their anger to TRP and try to work through their issues.

Also, RPW is smaller than TRP and the mods/community do a good job of keeping everyone in line and on point. It's more difficult to do that on TRP because of the number of posts.

exit_sandman · 2016-01-29T10:58:07+00:00

Lies and expectations.

Men are brought up to believe that women are these pure, deep and loving human beings who only want to bring good to mankind, and they are told so all the time - either explicitly by getting all their awesome traits pointed out (seriously, if I had a dollar for every stupid gynocentric article about how much more likely women are to be morally superior to men, I'd be rich by now), or implictly by articles that bash men with the simultaneous absence of articles that are similarly critical of women.

However, when the construct of these lies falls apart, it leads to two realizations:

Men find out that women collectively don't live up to these expectations - that they're as bad and often actually worse than men. That they aren't the havens of sanity, empathy and warmth in a cruel world they were constantly presented as. What do you expect? You can't constantly shove bullshit down someone's throat without getting some blowback.
By buying into the lie, they've seriously hamstrung their own dating life. Not only do they realize that what they were hoping for (soulmate-style unconditional love) doesn't really exist, but also that by behaving the way they did they wouldn't even get what came closest to it.

1 doesn't apply to women at all and 2 applies to them considerably less due to their privileged position on the SMP.

LordLeesa · 2016-01-29T04:57:38+00:00

Way back when I first got on Reddit, I glanced over both TRP and RPW, and I did indeed notice the strong difference in tone between the two. My guess is, each group has very different motives for pursuing their goal, and that a lot more of a feeling of choice was part of that for the RPW group as opposed to the TRP group--like, RPW feels like they're pursuing a pure and lasting dream entirely of their own volition as if they didn't like it, the rest of the world waits to welcome them back so no pressure. Conversely, the TRP group feels like they're pursuing a whole lot of fleeting, dirty pleasures and that they have to do this because the rest of the world doesn't want to welcome them back at all--that's why they fled it in first place--so, lots of pressure. Also, TRP preaches anger and aggression, thereby not unnaturally attracting people already of that tendency to form the majority of the group, and RPW preaches nurturing and submission, thereby not unnaturally attracting people already of that tendency to form the majority of the group.

Cyralea · 2016-01-29T20:08:35+00:00

The male experience that results in waking up RP differs from the female one. RPW discover that there is an active component in achieving their goals and that it's not up to fate and that their actions matter.

Men discover that they've been living a lie for decades. Not just a lie, but a pernicious one designed to keep them as useful tools in a woman's long-term mating strategy.

Guess which one is going to be angrier?

philomexa · 2016-01-29T15:56:21+00:00

I've noticed some women tend to feel relief when they encounter RPW, as if they could be themselves (submissive, feminine) in spite of cultural pockets (college campuses, etc) that demands they put on a 'strong independent womyn' performance.

Whereas TRP men are angry because they reach TRP after realizing (or amidst the realization) that they cannot be themselves, and that they must perform a willful version of masculinity if they want to succeed. Hence their overriding tone of frustration and angry.

PoopInMyBottom · 2016-01-29T03:17:33+00:00

/r/theredpill encourages dominance, aggression, frame control and never backing down. So, they come on purple pill debate and try to be dominant, aggressive, control the frame and never back down. Those traits are only considered attractive in men by the red sphere. Red Pill Women doesn't encourage that. Why would they? They are women. The result is they're a lot less afraid to show they are questioning their opinions.

And I mean, one is a female space and the other is a male space. They are going to encourage different tones anyway because of basic differences in social dynamics.

Interversity · 2016-01-29T03:24:49+00:00

Red pill men see the things that men and women and society do/does that negatively affect their personal lives, and they blame and hate women for all of this.

Red pill women see the things that men and women and society do/does that negatively affect their personal lives, and they do not blame and hate anyone. They just get on with it, as best they can, as they see fit.

Hence the difference in tone.

Apexk9 · 2016-01-29T03:39:44+00:00

Because they are women and they think different then men?

[deleted] · 2016-01-29T17:50:11+00:00

RPW focus their hatred inwards. TRP focus it outwards (on women.)

But both are very bitter and insecure. That just doesn't manifest in anger on RPW. That said, if a BPer ever comes there to burst their little bubble, they'll jump on him/her like a bunch of harpies.

betterdeadthanbeta · 2016-01-29T18:40:18+00:00

Men have more testosterone than women and are more prone to anger, aggression and violence.

Gnometard · 2016-01-31T01:30:40+00:00

Men communicate one way, women another, BP just yell about things that make them uncomfortable until someone else fixes it and then hands them a participation trophy

RareBlur · 2016-01-29T05:09:16+00:00

RPW is a cirlejerk to see who can woman harder.

rainbowbarfff · 2016-01-29T07:45:40+00:00

TRP requires submissive women for it to work.

RPW is a sub full of women who are happily submissive.

Title	[Discussion]The differences in the tones of TRP and RPW. Why does it exist?
Author	cron-nin
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Comments	56
Date	January 29, 2016 2:42 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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