I came to fix my relationship and I learnt how to be a better man. I now see that where motherhood makes a girl a woman the same is not true for men, and we need a kick in the ass to grown the fuck up. Getting too fat, being cheated on or realising those IOI looks are actually IODI looks (i.e. dis-interest), are the kick you need; you should be grateful you finally got the message, motherfucker. The regulars here keep handing out that message fyi.

MRP for me is now ~30 - 40% about relationship and sex and the rest is all benefits to the rest of my life. Physical health, career, wealth, confidence, bravery - it all goes together, and as you know it is this stuff that leads to the solution to the problems that brought you here.

One of my favourite side effects of this process is the impact i have had on my two boys - they look up to me anyway but now i am a better version. Both of them strive to be strong and confident, both of them at 8 and 6 have the attention of the girls at school. I gently tease them but we both secretly know that little dude muscles on the side of a tank top and an aloof attitude is getting them that attention. Those same little dude muscles get ME that attention from the mum's too. In short, basically everyone in your family and everyone you know wants you to be that man you could be.

This is not intended as a long post, so my message is its time to grow the fuck up. Stop blaming her, stop blaming the world. Be the man you want your sons to be (or daughters to marry). Watch the doors open in all avenues of your life once you get your shit together.

End Rant.