Why does this sub dislike no fap so much?

augger1 · 2019-12-07T06:17:12+00:00

On 7+ day steak I feel like fucking any gross female out there ...

UnbreakableFrame · 2019-12-07T06:24:41+00:00

Nofap gets way too pseudo-sciency for my taste. I'm sure not nutting every day has benefits, but people act like they've reached nirvana by just not jerking it. It's too dogmatic for me to take seriously.

Edit because I clearly need to clarify.

I am not saying that quitting masturbation is a waste of time. I quit awhile ago. My criticisms are of the Nofap community, not abstaining from porn and masturbation.

Also, to answer the guys asking if I've tried it, I have. I routinely go 1-2 months without doing it. Like I said, it has benefits, but I seriously think they are overblown. Quitting porn is much more important than quitting masturbation, as porn has been proven to mess your brain up.

TheGillos · 2019-12-07T06:54:36+00:00

So what works for you, but no fap reeks of placebo effect. Which can work. I could jerk off to porn hub in the bathroom, then come out and tell some drunk to kindly piss off. So could you.

I do think porn can fuck with your sexual performance though, based on many anecdotes. I've always considered porn as a treat. Choke it to your imagination. Porn is like a slice of cake. If you eat 3 slices of cake every day you'll be a diabetic fat fuck.

Alpha27145 · 2019-12-07T05:51:09+00:00

I hold your same view point. Nofap is very similar to The Red Pill. A group of people who shave against the grain to achieve a better life. However some things and mindsets are perpetuated by the nofap community that conflict with certain redpill ideas. The idea of a long lasting soulmate or "unicorn" is an idea that doesn't bode well with redpillera, but is commonplace among Nofap. I gladly partake in both communities and adjust my viewpoint where I see fit. Don't let some sperg tell you, that yoy have to wack off, fuck that guy

Yanggang-Drew · 2019-12-07T06:58:19+00:00

Used to frequent nofap. There was a lot of beta shit on there (me included at the time).

“If I don’t fap for 3 months then I can finally have the benefits I need to get girls”

slap2butts · 2019-12-07T13:08:14+00:00

For me, abstinence from fapping gives me a confidence boost, I feel much healthy and my gym strength increases. Fapping only led to negatives in my life and nothing else, it is not about the lens I observe NoFap from. Men should really avoid fapping. Fapping really fucks up your face, If you’re wondering how you got that new pimple or why you’re face looks dull,now you know the reason. (May write a long post with daily life facts why masturbation is bad for MEN. Let me know)

Tousen71 · 2019-12-07T07:33:48+00:00

Personally I subscribe to NoFap.

Benefits: Less anxiety, clearer head, higher testosterone, more sexual energy, greater discipline and willpower.

I’ve done NoFap for 90 days (50 hard mode - no nut at all), relapsed, then went again for another 120, relapsed, and now I’m back on a 34 day streak and counting.

There’s nothing wrong with jacking off...as long as it doesn’t become an addiction.

I’ve been jacking off since I was like 8. And I can promise you that that kind of conditioning not only has longterm effects on your sexual performance (you either can’t cum or your brain is prepped to cum as fast as you can) but also on your ability to persevere through obstacles (namely LMR).

We’ve all gone out and hit on a few girls, got a rejection or two, and said “FUCK IT! I’m going home to jack off.”

That alone should tell you that relying on masturbation to serve as a “pussy crutch” is a deep seated problem.

If you want to eat meat you gotta hunt—not forage for nuts.

serynada · 2019-12-07T05:52:07+00:00

it doesn’t. everyone has their own opinion. think for yourself.

hamagiclamp · 2019-12-07T07:35:49+00:00

Everyone is different

Me: I start getting really aggressive sexually and physically if I don't jack it for 3 days. I have no performance issues and I'm an overall happy human.

Other person: doesn't jack it for 3 days and suddenly is omnipotent

AttikusEUW · 2019-12-07T10:52:30+00:00

No Fap to quit porn is great, No Fap to not release the tension is not that good. But to each their own

huey764 · 2019-12-07T06:54:10+00:00

They think quitting porn is the solution to all their problems

DarkestShadeOfRed · 2019-12-07T07:31:50+00:00

If you have sex regularly, which is the goal of TRP, not jerking off makes no difference. I have sex a few times a week and if I get the urge to jerk off I will, then I go back to living the exact same life. If I were in your shoes OP with some drunk stinky guy sitting at my table I wouldn't have a problem telling him where to go even if I just jerked off in the bathroom at Wetherspoons 5 minutes prior. Nofap is very much a placebo, and some guys need that absolutely but it doesn't give you super powers like some seem to think.

mickenrorty · 2019-12-07T07:00:09+00:00

No fap has mental benefits, not just for attracting women but for asserting yourself in the world... Chris rock has some great stand up comedy about it.

I try to go 3-4 days without fucking a women/porn at a time. Or rather I try to go as long as possible and thats the time I land on without getting too horny to manage.. but I also blame weight lifting and the diet for that

putconfac · 2019-12-07T12:09:38+00:00

STOP WATCHING PORNOGRAPHY AND MASTURBATING BECAUSE IS HARMFUL FOR YOUR MENTAL HEALTH.

Get a real girl instead.

The whole habit of not masturbating is free and you don't have to subscribe to anything.

PatrickIIDX · 2019-12-07T15:19:11+00:00

I always listened to Roosh's advice: Limit masturbation to once a week.

Sometimes I think I should go every 1.5 weeks or 2 weeks before fapping.

I think everyone is different. I usually masturbate if I know I'm not going out let's say Sunday, where I keep my testosterone for gaming at a bar and club.

Truedemocracy5 · 2019-12-07T15:24:18+00:00

lol at anyone here saying it doesn’t work, is pseudo science, placebo, etc

Not jerking it for several days in a row clearly makes you hornier

supersonic-turtle · 2019-12-07T16:19:08+00:00

I don’t mind the five knuckle shuffle it’s the porn watching that fucks things up for me. Real women smell, have hair, aren’t that flexible, and generally don’t wanna do the shit you see in the videos. Not that some aren’t porn star level hot but the majority of women are just as gross as we are. In my experience porn messes with my perception not all dudes are like me but for me porn is like getting a cheeseburger when I should be hunting for a steak.

Heybuddyyyyyy · 2019-12-07T11:22:01+00:00

The problem is these fools jerk it like 10+x daily and do nothing else...of course they will feel amazing after they finally leave the house.

deathhandmachiavelli · 2019-12-07T13:54:02+00:00

I've always wondered why the "fap vs. no fap" issue is so big.

Does it really even make a fucking difference?

hoopingblob · 2019-12-07T08:16:52+00:00

Personally to me I see no difference when I don't fap. It doesn't really correlate to problems that I have and tbh I fap and still have sex which is really good. I think it just depends on the person.

SidMRP · 2019-12-07T07:04:24+00:00

What’s the problem with getting a quick nut in, and then going about your day? That sounds better to me then having that urge linger with me throughout the whole day and affect my work and thinking. With a quick nut, you get it out of the way then and there. Am I wrong?

SteveUrkel999 · 2019-12-08T07:23:41+00:00

Quitting porn was the very good choice and I did notice how my depression and desperation started to fade away. Stop masturbating if you don't have girlfriend to have sex with it's insane. I've tried it and wet dreams was killing me, sometimes I could get couple of them at the same night. I've tried it couple of times to see what are the effects and I only once lasted around twenty days. I was so tense, nervous and pissed off that everybody on my work was telling me wtf it's wrong with me.

For those who have girlfriend for a regular sex, you don't have to masturbate and quitting porn in this case it's a great thing, at least I can say it for myself. Masturbating less often, only once a week gets me just fine.

Another reason I don't like NoFap because I think that it's designed for the Beta male to even more suppress their sexuality. Al that mantra you have to treat women with respect and etc. If you work out and looks great, behave strong, masculine and dominant women expect you to be sexual with them, it's the nature thing. They will be more sexual toward you in this case as well.

genital-love · 2019-12-07T11:37:29+00:00

nofap is a buncha nerds who don't have sex

splash_water · 2019-12-07T07:37:13+00:00

sounds like you just use it as a crutch. But you could be who you want to be without it if you worked for it

Immuchtooawesome · 2019-12-07T15:22:25+00:00

Both TRP and nofap have some fans that proselytize to the point that it becomes annoying. The hardest pills to swallow must be taken willingly.

XXXMersenne · 2019-12-07T16:04:20+00:00

Cus it's a low level solution focused on mere abstinence, rather than going for the real thing: Become attractive; Lift, Game, Evolve paradigm for solid frame when interacting with chicks.

Then you don't need to fape cus you're in abundance with women, it doesn't even enter the picture. issa cope.

Become wealthy enough for coupons cuttin & skipping coffee looks dumb

Become so attractive that self stimulation becomes unintelligible

Terminal-Psychosis · 2019-12-07T16:19:42+00:00

/nofap has absolutely NOTHING to do with TRP.

The freaks over there brigade here regularly, but there is zero correlation whatsoever.

If you can't keep your hands off your dick for more than 15 min, TRP cannot help you,

and no other forum either, especially not the cult ideology bullshit preached on /nofap & Co.

They need professional help. That crap does not belong here, at all.

They're welcome to lurk and learn, but not when they start posting their insanity,

as if this 0.001% of totally deranged losers have the answer for all of humanity.

TheDopestPope · 2019-12-07T08:01:25+00:00

It's mostly teenagers and super religious squares. They all can't take a step back and realize just how hilarious and cringey their posts are.

Snowaey · 2019-12-07T12:16:33+00:00

Yeah man, I haven't touched my dick for approximately 93 hours and yesterday night like 3 bitches just came up to me and sat on my cock #nofap #preach

putconfac · 2019-12-07T12:47:51+00:00

people dismissing NoFap be like;

"LMAO I can go to the kitchen and eat 3 slices of Pizza and I won't be fat all of the sudden eating healthy food is placebo so people saying eating junk food is making us fat that just pseudoscience"

its-mystery · 2019-12-07T07:40:04+00:00

Once a week is fine as far as I know

PM_Happy_Puppy_Pics · 2019-12-07T09:29:44+00:00

If I go more than a few days without jerkin it, I feel horny af, and just about every woman looks appealing to me. I admit I have an almost renewed sense of energy, but it isn't profound or interesting, it is just about getting in the pants of a chick. Girls that I would usually never consider attractive seem hot as fuck when I haven't beat the snake for a week or so. I mean legit gross girls with greasy hair but obese bouncy boobs, seem sorta fuckable. And I have a type according to Reddit, I apparently only like skinny Asian girls if you ask my history tab (although I love all kinds of attractive women from all over the planet- just like you if you are still reading this shit.)

HotelMohelHolidayInn · 2019-12-07T10:22:24+00:00

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RevolutionaryPea7 · 2019-12-07T10:23:24+00:00

Nofap itself has a weird cult vibe to it in which people focus solely on a long streak to solve all their problems. But it's a bit silly. The real problem is porn. That can and will fuck up your brain. I do believe everyone here should be aiming to never fap again, though. I haven't flapped since since some time last summer when I wasn't getting laid. But now I cum with and into women only. The sex is so much better without porn and masturbation.

2019-12-07T10:48:19+00:00

Listen man, nofap started out great for me but turned out being hell and very obsessive.

This obviously varies from person to person and all the other variables but just dont take it too srsly and fap whenever you get the urge (dont restrict yourself just to keep the streak) would be my recommendation.

Also the "superpowers" aka benefits of a streak like confidence n shit gets less the more you do it for.

IXseed · 2019-12-07T11:07:48+00:00

With everything on this sub I say do you, boo boo.

I don't go for longer than a few days but by the 3rd day I'll put into fuck anything that moves, which is never good.

As for the science behind it, the only thing I've seen is that blowing your load just numbs your T receptors for like...3/4 hours. Nothing saying that even if you jack it more than once daily has anything to do with T levels at all. I'd pin that more to diet.

I tell ppl to fuck off regardless if I've blown my load that day but I feel you.

Truedemocracy5 · 2019-12-07T15:23:04+00:00

No fap works. That said - the problem isn’t that you shouldn’t jack off ever, that will lead to terrible decision making. But if you’re jacking off daily or more then that’s an issue

Fuktiga_mejmejs · 2019-12-07T08:04:35+00:00

I think jerking off is good to get your mind off stupid women and to withdraw attention, as for my dopamine system, that shits already pretty fucked from other stuff hehehe...

Title	Why does this sub dislike no fap so much?
Author	astonboi01
Upvotes	87
Comments	154
Date	December 7, 2019 5:39 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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Become wealthy enough for coupons cuttin & skipping coffee looks dumb

Become so attractive that self stimulation becomes unintelligible