I'm tired of us being the ones who have to always pass the shit tests. How can I make her jump through some hoops to prove herself to ME once in s while?

This post is pretty straightforward. What's the male equivalent to shit tests? It seems like things are a little one sided with women always being the ones to dish out shit tests and men having to pass them. I understand this is just their way of playing a game that tells them whether we're worthy of their sex. But how can I push her buttons a little bit and make her prove she's worthy of my time? Suggestions on these for a relationship role would be helpful, but not necessary. If we're playing the game right, shit tests will still come from outside of committed relationships.