How much "danger" do women like in a man? What is "danger?" How do you cultivate it if you lack it? Do they like a man who COULD be dangerous or COULD "break the rules" IF he wanted to, but he CHOOSES not to?

oita · 2020-01-25T10:11:43+00:00

Most women don't like dangerous men; they like daring men. Dangerous men implies stupidity, negligence and violence. We don't want that.

Daring implies that you do things that require thought, resilience, skill and passion.

It's not about breaking rules just for the sake of it. It's about setting the rules and values to your own life and rejecting the ones that don't sit right with your gut. I admire when a guy sticks to his beliefs.

If you are single and under 30 just get a motorcycle dude. Buy a leather jacket. Get a tattoo or five. But if you want people to love and respect you, then they should never have to feel physically threatened or scared of you.

dylang92 · 2020-01-25T07:27:14+00:00

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NockerJoe · 2020-01-25T07:29:54+00:00

Beauty and the Beast was a metaphor for arranged marriage interpreted by a bunch of tradcon white dudes working out of a compound in California. I'm not saying it's the most or least unrealistic thing in the movie but you gotta be aware who's writing the material.

2020-01-25T11:26:27+00:00

Hmm, I like a balance really.

Most women don't want a man who's too compliant and respectful of authority, questioning it and breaking rules every now and then is healthy IMO.

I don't want to date/ fuck someone who's directly caused another person harm (robbery, GBH ect) but I don't care if they've broken some law that I didnt agree with in the first place (drug possession, swimming naked ect).

XtoDoubt · 2020-01-25T07:10:49+00:00

Peterson sucks at sexual strategy advice. His own daughter divorced her baby daddy and fucked Tate for Christ's sake. He can't even enforce monogamy in his own family.

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Pola_Lita · 2020-01-25T10:06:00+00:00

I don't think we need yet another poorly defined term to apply wholesale to one gender or another. What we do need is to accept that even though doing that takes much less effort and lots of times can provide a greater feeling of moral superiority, it's hardly ever accurate as reality.

87AudreyHorne · 2020-01-25T15:35:30+00:00

For one I dont want a guy who will bitch to me about the rules I break.

PapaPinyun · 2020-01-25T16:57:33+00:00

RP gets this wrong all the time and it's fundamental to attraction.

There are men who rattle and quiver when other men are angry, and there are men who do not. Men who do not are found attractive by women, really, regardless of what they look like. It's why fat bikers and obviously-fetal-alcohol crackbabies get laid.

I think that "danger" just means, "demonstrates that he is among the, 'doesn't quiver' class." Which implicitly makes the rattle men quiver/threatens them

GreenSatyr · 2020-01-25T17:50:03+00:00

I think many (maybe not most) people like a daring aesthetic, a little superficially edgy flair, but unfortunately if someone is actually rebellious in any significant way then they do ultimately get cast out and rejected by most people.

Westernized people in their celebrations of individuality often claim they don't like boring conformists but actually if you examine behavior and not actions most people are conformists and like other conformists.

Caligerius · 2020-01-26T09:55:03+00:00

I personally like super innocent, moral, pure-hearted men

Also ones that wont kill and assault me

Workaholiconew · 2020-01-25T07:23:18+00:00

How much "danger" do women like in a man?

Who knows? Not them that is for sure. But they sure like to put themselves at danger's way.

What is "danger?"

No idea. Probably being controlled like a resource but not in life threatening situations.

How do you cultivate it if you lack it?

Being a threat and/or a mystery. Maybe?

Do they like a man who COULD be dangerous or COULD "break the rules" IF he wanted to, but he CHOOSES not to?

Whats the difference in the feelings?

2020-01-25T07:45:44+00:00

Women love danger as long as she's not in the crosshairs. There is no higher limit.

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