We have been together for 2 years and it's our anniversary today. She said she has something special for me and when I got it out of her, she revealed that she wanted to buy me a ring and propose to me.
Now, I have been telling her since the beginning of the relationship, that I am not looking for marriage because I don't like the idea and because I don't want to give half of my shit away.
She confirmed that she is fine with it but she would like to marry. To which I replied, that it's okay if you want to marry but it's not gonna be me, you are free to leave the relationship if you it's a deal breaker for you.
So as the convo went on with her yesterday, we have been going a little back and forth and I told her that if she is going to propose to me, I will decline, even if it's in front of my mom or in public. She said she still wants to do it, to which I replied: "Well, I warned you, the rest is on you"
After the convo, she tried to hold back her tears and pretended that everything is fine. I told her: "Look, I still love you and appreciate you. Idk what the future brings to this relationship but I know that I would be happy if you were in it"
She got a little agitated but calmed down afterwards and we went to sleep after that.
What should I do now and how did handle the situation? Is there something I can do better in the future?
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