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[–][deleted] 126 points127 points128 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
The guy will most likely come back anyway. They all do. And when they do, curve their asses. Those kind of guys do more harm than good
[–]libraliaFDS Newbie60 points61 points62 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup, seeking validation. Seeing how much the can torment us after gaslighting and darvo.
[–]Twolipz_78FDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Or they just drive by your work and stare at you, too chicken shit to come talk to you ‘cuz they know they’re wrong!
[–]Solid-LiquidFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My ex, once he found out I went back to my old job, came back 3x and even walked down the same aisle I stand at, just to quietly stare at me 😒
[–]Twolipz_78FDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
...and you work at Home Depot, too..I wonder if it’s the same dude.
[–]fetchingmorbidFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They love to try it tho. They got less will power than a can of just hair for men. Ask Guilliani.
[–]FirePreferredFDS Apprentice100 points101 points102 points 5 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
I had one once that "wanted to be friends" but also get the benefits of a girlfriend. FINALLY, I said, you know what I'm out. He said "you're just going to throw this all away?". YES. Bye. You're not worth it because clearly I'm not worth it to you.
And THAT is when I finally learned my value, and my power.
edit: spelling/grammar
[–]repurposedschleemFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ugh did we date the same dude? He was all like “I wanna be FRIENDS first” and I was like “wait I don’t have sex with my friends?” and his response was to inform me that he slept with all of his female friends but “he wanted something romantic with me too (but no label)”
...dude gave me BV (or rather, one of his pickme harem, gross!) and smoked all of my weed (I no longer partake).
LESSON LEARNED
[–]FirePreferredFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thankfully it hadn’t gotten that far before I left and blocked him on everything. Each previous relationship/situationship was a step in the right direction until this one finally turned me all the way to a 180 from the start.
Sorry that you experienced all of that!! Glad you are now free of him! Remember your worth, always.
[–]spicyspaFDS Newbie93 points94 points95 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
My ex broke up with me by email. It shocked and upset me. I wanted to discuss it but I decided f*** it, and just agreed to it. I haven't spoken to him for over a month. Going strong. it's not necessarily a bad thing when a guy breaks up with you in a bad way. If it pisses you off it makes it easier to cut him off.
[–]Revy_Ur_EnginesFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bruh what? I’ve would have missed that shit because I don’t even check my email frequently 💀
[–]spicyspaFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I almost did miss that message. I get a ton of spam. I was looking for an email from the company I was applying for a job at and there it was. And I was like what the hell? I'm glad I saw it though because otherwise I would have been messaging him and being more upset that he didn't respond. this way I was just able to cut him off cold turkey.
[–]ComprehensiveAmoeba9FDS Apprentice69 points70 points71 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I once had a guy tell me he doesn’t know if we should break up or not. I made it easy for him by going ahead and calling it quits and he seemed surprised like he thought I would beg him to stay
[–]spicyspaFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It feels so powerful when you don't beg, doesn't it?
[–]ferociouslycuriousFDS Newbie43 points44 points45 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I tried too many times with my ex. Wasn’t worth it. Didn’t bother to try the last time. Much better choice
[–]BasieSkanksRuthless Strategist33 points34 points35 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I learned very quickly that no man is ever worth begging, pleading or crying for. The men I used to cry over are not worth shit, and even they know this. If a guy is lukewarm about you/wants to leave, wave him goodbye. If anything, it will catch him off balance because these Scrotes actually expect women to beg them to stay.
[–]guacamole1987FDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Hold the door open” yassssss
[–]ChocolateBiscuit96FDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
😩I just started talking to this guy last week and we hit it off so well, or so I thought. Long story short he hasn’t opened or replied to my message in over a day , now I gotta block him. Self respect is leaving me dickless 🤣 oh well, I’ll just focus on my studies then.
[–]funky_wormsFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
girl i feel you and i swear its so fucking annoying. The lukewarm interest ruins it every time. study it up queen
[–]husheveryoneFDS Apprentice1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good for you for blocking him and putting the focus on your studies. 💖
[–]ms_monquisFDS Disciple13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve always been very easy to break up with.
Not that I won’t “work” for my relationship — I love it, actually: compromise, supporting/uplifting my partner, etc. And I understand that sometimes we go through periods of questioning and being unsure about the relationship.
But I am not going to talk anyone into being or staying with me. Especially if you take your unsureness to a stunt vagina.
[–]AdisssaFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg I needed to hear this!🥰
[–]queendorkusFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
👏👏👏
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