“I’ve been with my boyfriend for seven years and we’re on our way to marriage. However, Chad found me attractive and I’m considering risking it all.”

kevin32 · 2018-07-20T02:48:53+00:00

Thanks for posting OP. Next time, either take a screenshot of the entire post, or use archive.is (instructions here).

We want our readers to be able to see the whole post.

stephcurryftw · 2018-07-18T18:23:46+00:00

A month later: "omg where did all the good men go?"

JamesMercer1 · 2018-07-18T18:37:05+00:00

Who can bet her boyfriend calls her beautiful and tells her she’s fun to talk to everyday?

freckledfox01 · 2018-07-18T18:32:10+00:00

Yes ,throw away 7+ years because a cute guy said something nice to you . If she doesn't cheat now she will eventually .

thearmchairwarrior · 2018-07-18T18:36:05+00:00

If the boyfriend pays attention, you can generally know if a women is interested in another man. By just talking/asking oh how is your day and oh how is your friend etc..... They'll be stupid and let it slip Chad was there and talk about them.

Most women tend to let things slip and talkative. If not your women, one of her friends. There is always a drunkie around them. Give them some alcohol. They'll start yapping.

I hope he finds out. Whores like this should be kick far far away.

randomvirus · 2018-07-18T19:04:21+00:00

Spoiler, you don't love him if you're planning to cheat.

You love attention.

Ghustgan · 2018-07-18T19:05:39+00:00

What a fucking waste of 7 years for the guy.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2018-07-18T19:36:18+00:00

What she doesn't realize is she's still not desirable, Chad has her targeted as an easy lay. Once she gets pumped and dumped she'll go crawling back to the BF.

Westernhagen · 2018-07-18T18:31:22+00:00

She's getting ready to hop on the Chad Express to Pump and Dump Town...

weebkilla · 2018-07-18T18:27:36+00:00

7 years?

Lol, honey you should have known whether this one was a keeper by year 2 at the latest.

She needs to stop dating and go back home to momma while she straightens her foolishness out.

ozenmacher · 2018-07-18T18:43:09+00:00

These thots are insatiable. With no social morals intact regarding slut shaming, it looks like we have a new CC rider. We know she is gonna go get pumped and dumped, will swoon and chase Chad, get ghosted, and here begins the next thousand cock stare thot who will be depressed and worn out at 30. When she comes to her senses, her ex boyfriend she cheated on will be well on his way to success in life with a family of his own, and she will be fraught with jealousy for life for letting the “good man” go for her tingles. Another spinster in the making.

Blissbynature · 2018-07-18T19:56:56+00:00

Notice she doesn't talk about monkey branching to this guy, only about cheating on her BF with him. She intends to keep the boyfriend because she's merely being played and she knows it, but she still doesn't want to exercise the character it takes to let this opportunity of riding some prince for a while to slip her by. Yeah lady, you "need to take a break" alright.

Every hamster is always the same.

Would sure be poetic if the BF cheats on her for the same reason and then confesses, "But honey, she was so much better than you and she wanted me, I couldn't just waste that chance. But don't worry, I'm not leaving you. A woman like that wouldn't want me forever, so I'm staying with you. Who loves ya, baby?"

BaldManlet · 2018-07-18T20:40:50+00:00

“We exchanged numbers (just as friends)”

TheonlyINFJ · 2018-07-18T18:15:01+00:00

It will be you're loss lady 😎 but don't get mad if your bf/ex finds another lass and gets married off.

62mexicans · 2018-07-18T18:46:24+00:00

Classic Chad move.

KingRobotPrince · 2018-07-18T20:14:56+00:00

Can't believe that she wants to risk it all to have sex with one guy. Further can't believe that she seems to think she can take a break, fuck another guy, then get back with her childhood sweetheart.

I hope she does ask for a "break" and her boyfriend does what any sensible man would do: realise that she just doesn't feel the same way about him as he does about her, say she can have a break, let her go off and fuck some other guy, tell her to fuck right off when she comes crawling back to him, go find a decent girl.

Guaranteed she'll fuck up her relationship and be back on here asking for advice on how to get her childhood sweetheart back who she now realises she cannot live without, crying that she didn't realise that she couldn't have everything she wanted.

AllahHatesFags · 2018-07-18T19:21:47+00:00

After Chad pumps and dumps her and her boyfriend leaves she will find plenty of feline companionship.

Cissnowflake · 2018-07-19T02:40:30+00:00

“I need to see this through.”

Christ she’s not even Alpha Widowed yet and she’s Alpha Widowed.

jljohns60 · 2018-07-18T19:50:57+00:00

She's 22 and has been with the guy for 7 years so they started dating when she was in junior high? WTF? Is she living during Laura Ingall's time? No wonder she's looking around, he probably is too. Most people have grown up since junior high.

nicethingyoucanthave · 2018-07-18T21:12:05+00:00

OP, consider using archive.is instead of taking screenshots. This is the second time you've done this. It's odd.

ThePlague · 2018-07-18T19:32:20+00:00

Heartening the reaction she's getting at that sub.

ClockworkOrange92618 · 2018-07-18T20:40:41+00:00

It's stuff like this that make me thankful I wasn't obsessed by women in HS; even at age 23, 7 years of life wasted on an ungrateful skank would break my heart.

[deleted] · 2018-07-19T02:26:34+00:00

What you guys are forgetting to consider is that she's only dating him for 7 years UNTIL she gets a shot at a better guy. That's precisely why she's feeling so conflicted right now.

kmacmillan93 · 2018-07-19T13:24:11+00:00

“I have a good man. I really want to screw that up and take a flyer on sex with a hot guy. I just HAVE to sleep with this guy. But I don’t want any bad consequences and I shouldn’t have to suffer. My boyfriend will understand. If he doesn’t, he’s just immature”

One month later.....

“Oh no! My boyfriend found out about me sleeping with Chad! He broke up with me. Chad hasnt called in two weeks and he’s not responding to my texts! Whatever shall I do? Wherever shall I go?”

[deleted] · 2018-07-19T00:57:21+00:00

Wow I'm surprised how anti-cheat that sub has become. All the comments are grilling that hoe for her obvious desire to branch swing.
Clap Clap

Overkillengine · 2018-07-19T01:18:31+00:00

Lol I had a coworker (I'll call her Scarlet Letter) that was 22 when she cheated on her LTR with a 35 yr old Chad. (who had a history of making bastards and dodging child support, and infidelity)

The ex moved on with his life, got married to a smarter woman, had kids, etc.

Scarlet Letter is now over 30 and a single mom. But she was sure she knew better than everyone giving her advice to not have anything to do with Chad! Derp Derp!

A tale as old as time. After Chad got done seeding her with his bastard (he sent her packing after she swelled up and spawned) she of course got all hyper religious to try to build repentance cred (too old for party girl to work anymore). As far as I know, no men have been dumb enough yet to fall for her scam.

frikabg · 2018-07-19T02:24:47+00:00

All it takes is for chad to look her way, and she is already more than ok with throwing 7 years of relationship down the drain because she needs a break. Mind you not a break from her abusive boyfriend. No she needs a break from her boygriend who she admits that she is happy with and is a good man know she needs a break from this boring 'existence' of hers where nothing is happening and everything is great.

This! This right here is why scum like this don't deserve happiness! Because the moment they find it they throw it away because of boredom and then cry 'i was stupid and young and it just happened! He seduced me!' and other meaningless crap. I hope she gets her cats so the guy can get rid of this garbage of a human being.

jrmyster7 · 2018-07-19T15:26:27+00:00

“I’m so entitled and self-important that I believe I should be able to cause pain to someone that cares about me without remorse or consequence.”

u_dwg · 2018-07-18T21:58:51+00:00

She will end up leaving. Foreign cock is to tempting to the unsuspecting woman. She’s probably only ever kissed him, only natural to see what else is out there. Dating for 7 yrs?? That sounds horrible

TomahawkSuppository · 2018-07-18T23:36:39+00:00

Oh look another reason to never get married.

DarthCallidous · 2018-07-19T04:29:15+00:00

/MGTOW

You won't regret it.

wolfeerine · 2018-07-19T09:41:02+00:00

she's right this is pathetic. I'm in a 5 year relationship myself, i'm not stupid, women look at me and vice versa. but if it ever got to the stage where she's finding it hard not to cheat she's be kicked to the curb. honestly what the fuck is that, how insecure do you have to be not to realize what you have is good enough not to be faithful and that you don't need anything else. Dude needs to get rid of her, his only saving grace is that if he leaves her now he's still only 23

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2018-07-19T13:34:40+00:00

She's doing her boyfriend favour. 7 years doesn't mean shit when they start at 15 for fuck sakes. Did they meet playing Pokemon?

This is a gift for the young man.

Someone get that boy a red pill suppository ready.

Turist0AT · 2018-07-19T18:51:58+00:00

Monogamy is a joke like marriage made up to go against our nature. We're are not evolved for that life style. Both her and him should just cheat on each other. Ppl stick together because it's safe not because "muh löve is eternal".

electric_sheep451 · 2018-07-24T08:12:51+00:00

I love the "just as friends" caveat when she mentions them swapping numbers. You aren't fooling anyone love.

AndyKrause · 2018-07-18T22:29:09+00:00

I can't find another word for it... just disgusting. Will never understand what goes on in their heads.

Narcissist456 · 2018-07-19T04:51:41+00:00

lol this is exactly why WE PUMP N DUMP BABY.

BrawndoTTM · 2018-07-19T12:06:32+00:00

this is very stupid

Why would you consider doing something that you already know is “very stupid”?

trevmon2 · 2018-07-19T15:40:09+00:00

awalt

dustman83 · 2018-07-19T16:13:09+00:00

I've seen guys do this too. I generally agree with hypergamy theory, but men can also do same shit. Example is a dude getting cut while LTR is content w being fat. Dudes will get a side piece mad men style. Good for the girl if get LTR is an unmotivated slob playing xbox all day.

Robin2Fast2Furious · 2018-07-18T22:28:26+00:00

Can you post a link to the original post?

[deleted] · 2018-07-20T21:59:16+00:00

Once "Chad" is done with her she will never orgasm again with a man she deems "below" him like her BF. She is going to be "alpha widowed".

Hope he finds this out and dumps her ass.

“I’ve been with my boyfriend for seven years and we’re on our way to marriage. However, Chad found me attractive and I’m considering risking it all.”

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Title	“I’ve been with my boyfriend for seven years and we’re on our way to marriage. However, Chad found me attractive and I’m considering risking it all.”
Author	parheticpathetic
Upvotes	289
Comments	114
Date	July 18, 2018 6:06 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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