FR - Got hit on pretty heavily randomly. I saw insight into the hamster...Details inside

Appleseed12333 · 2015-09-26T22:33:40+00:00

I've had a woman hit on me when she was the teller and I was making a withdrawal. I was a young guy, around 19 years old, 5'8, 140 lbs, nothing too striking in looks. She was 28 yrs old (or atleast looked like it), 30 lbs overweight as I could tell by her hips, no wedding ring, with a cute face and long blonde hair. About a 6.5/10.

As I approached the desk, everything was normal. Standard why are you here today, how can I help you, etc. That was until I actually put my card in to bring up my account, which had $250,000+ (inheritance).

OMG did her attitude and facial expressions change. I couldn't get her to stop talking to me. I'm not talking about the usually "let me just count this" or "nice day out today", no. Shes bringing up what I do (student), where Im going (university), and I'm responding with one or two word answers cause I'm in a rush.

I turn around to walk out, and she continues to bring topics up leaning over the counter. Im there standing thinking WTF I gotta go and shes trying to talk to me (completely unrelated to banking) when im already 5 feet from the desk with one person waiting in line to get to her. I turn to her after she asks me another question, say "bye" and keep walking.

Just so unprofessional. To this day, I think about blanking out my balance to the teller, but usually its not that bad.

RedPillJax · 2015-09-27T02:47:59+00:00

One of my favourite TRP phrases is, work on yourself until you're pursued by women the way ~~women~~ men pursue ~~men~~ women.

EDIT: Don't Jim Beam and RP.

cheeky_throwaway101 · 2015-09-26T22:51:57+00:00

Good for you sir. It does feel good to get validated, that's why it is so damaging for anyone to enter into a relationship with someone with BPD. For the uninitiated, these pathological fuckers, build you up, compliment you to the high heavens so you think you are the shit. They do this, because they expect the same in return. But then they leave you, or cheat on you. Creating a confusing sense of you wanting to chase them, to get more of the positive feelings you had when they idolised you.

A little advice for anyone entering into a new relationship, do some ground work to discover if they have any BPD tendencies or not. And especially the ones with "Quiet BPD." These ones will fuck you over the worst.

On a side note, and as we are sharing anecdotes. My friend and I recently went out to a different City for a day out. Needles to say, my friend is a phenomenal dresser. £500 Italian Loafers, Tailor made coats and suits from Saville Row, using the finest English weave and Italian cuts. He knows his shit when it comes to dress wear, as it's his passion. It's a little over the top but I digress.

So we go into a bar and start talking to the waitress, who looks to be the head of the place. She's all over my friend like a rash. Saying how she's had to leave London to go back to school, and will be starting next year while she works for a year to save. She takes his business card and keeps complimenting him and is practically gushing.

Around 4pm we ask her for the menu to eat. "Oh sorry guys, the kitchen is closing for two hours." So we finish our drinks and go for a walk to see if there is anywhere else. She keeps telling my friend as we're walking out the door, "Oh do please come back another day, please, please, come into see us again when you are down from London again!"

Obviously not being from that City, we were unfamiliar with the establishments and just ended up talking and walking for two hours, taking in the sights etc. Anyway so 18:00 has been and gone so we decide to go back to the location we were in before.

When we get there, we try to sit at the same table as we were drinking at before. The same girl comes over, who we didn't see before as she was in the opposite corner talking to some guy."Oh hey guys, I'm actually sitting there, I'm just about to have my dinner myself."

So we grab another table and thought nothing of her being somewhat cold at our return. As time progresses we realise the guy who she is with, (is a somewhat well dressed guy, albeit in a casual country style way, herringbone weave blazer and horn rim glasses kinda guy), is her fucking boyfriend. And she can't keep her tongue out of his mouth. Literally snogging the shit out of him, almost in an over exaggerated sort of way.

All we could think of was what a poor poor fucker.

TLDR: AWALT, women be nuts.

OneInAZillion · 2015-09-27T03:25:55+00:00

Oh tellers.

When I was 19 years old I was cashing $1000-$5000+ checks weekly, and every time I'd go into into the bank I'd hear the tellers say "that's the guy" and they'd all look my way. The manager introduced himself, all the cute young tellers were extremely and overly friendly, going into long conversations that I didn't really care to have. They knew me by name. They wanted my life story. I just wanted my money. Some would even come over and say Hi and smile and giggle and stuff even when they weren't dealing with me.

It was nice at the time but now through a TRP lense I see it a lot differently.

Fun times.

xray777 · 2015-09-28T20:13:14+00:00

Jeez.... Did she take her panties off and toss them at you wet-spot first?? That's about the only way she could have been more forward.

Its always fun to see how fast women's Machiavellian pro-game crashes and burns the moment the FEELZ short-circuits 90% of her neurons. After that its just a very obvious moaning for "diiiiiiick...."

Neroky · 2015-09-28T09:58:25+00:00

Hey OP I have a short off topic question: What kind of assistance workout are you doing for 5/3/1?

I´m doing big and boring right now and have my doubts that for example the chest will look aestethic.

a233424 · 2015-09-27T13:10:11+00:00

AS someone new to work out, what is the 5/3/1 plan?

-Quotidian · 2015-09-27T03:56:26+00:00

Some of my most cringe-worthy moments with women have been the times when I was plugged in, being complimented or gamed by women, and failed to notice or respond. It was a handful of persistent gay dudes who allowed me to get better at handling that kind of attention, and you're right--it was remarkably uncomfortable to be hit on by people you weren't attracted to.

I wasn't offended in the way most women seem to be when this happens, but I definitely wanted it (the gay attention) to stop. With women (who were remotely attractive) it was a heady boost to the ego whether or not I was interested. Thanks for the post.

PantsonFire1234 · 2015-09-28T21:45:47+00:00

Women will appear to be a taint on society from time to time. Once you put off the blue colored sunglasses you start noticing all this stuff.

They live a life so jaded, compartmentalized, sophistic and fairy tale like that it's impossible to grasp them at times without turning insane.

afroose · 2015-09-29T01:18:56+00:00

Getting hit on is addictive, but what's interesting is to see how women game, they are usually awful.

DwightWolftail · 2015-09-26T22:31:21+00:00

The funniest part of this story , is that it makes you feel like a woman . And then feels you are getting from this woman are that she is really hungry . Now if I was a woman I would clearly find him(her) disgusting . I don't know , it may be only me but if women hit on me daily like that and they had that lower SMV I would develop exactly BB/AF internalized mentality for them too , just like they do for us .

Truthseeker92 · 2015-09-27T02:54:06+00:00

Most women don't get hit on as much as you would think. But yes, they certainly love/crave validation.

MyReddit4 · 2015-09-27T06:30:26+00:00

Hey man - you need to re-read your whole post and look into your mindset. It reads of omg I'm soooo used to never being validated for all my hard TRP work, that when it finally happens, I'm easily swayed by a post wall woman

Sure, she maybe thought your outfit or style was cool or whatever. But she was doing this for HER - not you. I'm convinced she complimented you because a) that's the game she HAS to play now & b) she wants to know she still has power to influence men sexually.

All that was needed from you was a polite "thank you" and a smirk.

Honestly, the best thing you can do when women compliment you is accept it playfully and move on. Chat more if you like, and just appreciate them for the feral creatures they are.

Most compliments trip guys up because they aren't used to it. By being tripped up, you prove you aren't as attractive as you'd like to present. It happens, been there. Typically, I get a fair amount of compliments from very attractive girls - I'm grateful for it and it makes meeting women easier - but I don't let it define my day.

moneyandsexislife · 2015-09-27T11:06:31+00:00

Get used to it. I'll support feminism when hot chicks come right out and ask me to fuck.

fingerthemoon · 2015-10-01T09:30:37+00:00

Getting compliments from random women can be an ego boost if it rarely happens but when it's a regular thing it can become annoying.

I've had many situations where It just made me feel awkward. Like coming from a friends wife or being called out in front of a group. That's probably my own insecurity though in not knowing how to handle it properly. Another thing, compliments always come from old or unattractive women and never from someone I'm interested in. I can understand why hot girls complain about this.

reddit_sucks2 · 2015-09-26T22:25:04+00:00

Hey buddy. Nothing personal but this post should probably be deleted as it provides nothing of value here.

That said, congratulations on your hard work where you are hit on like that, it means you're doing something right.

fundude12 · 2015-09-26T22:24:46+00:00

Wow you are that happy because some older woman complimented you?

Betas gonna beta.

mikeshinobi · 2015-09-27T11:35:31+00:00

Ya'll are making me feel bad for dressing like shit. I just don't have the money to get fancy clothes right now :'(

Meowry9 · 2015-09-27T12:36:47+00:00

Flattery from men is really cheap though so it doesn't feel good. More extravagant displays of adoration grab my attention (flowers, etc.)

Dr_HoaxArthurWilmoth · 2015-09-28T09:09:06+00:00

Yes, I had a dark athletic fitted t-shirt with a loosely triangular logo shoulder to shoulder, accentuating my shoulder width and accentuating my form.

"You got the hair, the beard, the glasses, the 'look'."

I also have pockets and pockets of spaghetti that I am going to deposit at the spaghetti store. Do you want to enjoy some chicken tendies with me in my car? It's my lunch break and I was going to use some of my beard oil for lubrication to accentuate my penis.

Title	FR - Got hit on pretty heavily randomly. I saw insight into the hamster...Details inside
Author	myschadenfreude
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Date	September 26, 2015 10:10 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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