How do i gently tell her to get the fuck out of my house

Andramoiennepe · 2017-04-07T13:01:56+00:00

No need to be gentle. Be direct. Women prefer their man to be decisive. Tell her your rule: no sleep overs. She wants boundaries, and she wants you to set them. You have many many important things to do anyway. If that's not the truth, you're doing it wrong. Your priority is to accomplish those things, not laze all day in bed.

walawalawa · 2017-04-07T12:58:21+00:00

I usually offer them something before: "Let's finish our drinks, then unfortunately I have to kick you out because tomorrow is a school night..." They get it.

I like how in Japan if the host wants you to leave they serve tea...that is code for please leave.

Republic_of_Ash · 2017-04-07T12:47:36+00:00

Fuck them at their place if you can. Always aim for that, but if you absolutely can't, then you need to just be straight down the line with the girl and say honestly, "I'm sorry, but I've got work in the morning. Do you mind leaving?".

You shouldn't even have to ask. It's common curteousy - sounds like a crazy bitch.

Cunt_Robber · 2017-04-07T12:48:34+00:00

Tell them it's getting late and you'd like to get ready for the next day. They will get the hint. If they make stupid attempts to waste more time at your place it's a reflection of how well you set and stick to boundaries, as well as the quality of girls you pull (I've had some tease and whine about cutting time short, but never ones that throw a fit or get hysterical over it because I can't help my time is limited).

Why did you entertain her by participating in the argument? Was this something that could not be avoided by diplomacy and reinforcing boundaries?

trpjnf · 2017-04-07T15:45:05+00:00

"I have to kick you out at 10. Sorry." Said this to a plate. She didn't want to leave but acted like she did. Overstayed her welcome by like half an hour "b/c uber prices are really expensive rn", so eventually I took her phone and pulled up the Uber app for her.

Being direct works.

IRideParkCity · 2017-04-07T12:56:03+00:00

I had to order a female out of my house last weekend. As in "Michelle, get the fuck out of my house right now."

When I got loud and demanding her demeanor totally changed and she started being super compliant and agreeable.

But it was too late by then, so she still ended up leaving right then. My advice, just kick em out bro.

savagedealer · 2017-04-07T13:15:09+00:00

Why are you arguing with plates in your own home to begin with ? This bitch thinks she runs you to have that kind of audacity to even conceive the thought of arguing with you in your own home shit is crazy . She's pushing power plays and you better shut that shit down or finding a way to get her to leave gonna end up being the least of your worries .

CumForJesus · 2017-04-07T16:04:35+00:00

Tell her in advance, like "you can't stay after 10pm". Maybe it will cut down on the drama

Peter_B_Long · 2017-04-07T20:19:30+00:00

Tell her you have an early day tomorrow and that you're going to bed in 15 minutes. If she had started the argument after, you could've ignored it and told her you'll talk about it some other time.

BlueAdmiral · 2017-04-07T21:06:59+00:00

She pays rent, she gets a say.

IVIaskerade · 2017-04-07T22:38:16+00:00

A water fire extinguisher usually does the trick.

TheRedStoic · 2017-04-07T22:41:45+00:00

Be direct my friend. Also it's good to form a habit of setting limits up front. "Yeah we can chill until x", or "oh I don't do sleep overs, not my thing."

You can still be spontaneous about your adventures and have specific boundaries.

In your case to kick her out, be firm, if she creates problems she's just pushing for more, withdraw attention for a while afterwards. You don't need that crap.

mrpoopistan · 2017-04-07T23:06:43+00:00

Is dat bitch payin rent? If not, then tough titties for her.

What's this gently horseshit, son? ZFG means ZFG, and in this case it means GTFO.

MattyAnon · 2017-04-07T23:15:15+00:00

How do i tell plates really REALLY gently to get their stinky ass out of my apartment?

Start before they get there. "Come round but I've got an early start in the morning, no sleepover".... then stick to it.

Occasionally let them stay over if you like, but only when you want to and never because they whine about it.

idkhowtomakeaname212 · 2017-04-11T06:53:40+00:00

wtf is a plate

TryhardPantiesON · 2017-04-07T19:09:51+00:00

Yesterday,i had a plate come over at about 8 PM.We watched a movie,ate something and then fucked.I looked over at the clock and i saw that it said 10:30 PM

I am questioning how long did that movie last, and how long did your sex session last... a movie can easy take 90 out of those 150 minutes.

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